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1、- - TEXT DAttachment Parenting is not Indulgent Parenting. Attachment parents do not spoil their children. Spoiling is done when a child is given everything that they want regardless of what they need and regardless of what is practical. Indulgent parents give toys for tantrums ( 發(fā)脾氣 ), ice cream fo
2、r breakfast. Attachment parents dont give their children everything that they want, they give their children everything that they need. Attachment parents believe that love and comfort are free and necessary. Not sweets or toys.Attachment Parenting is not afraid of tears parenting. Our kids cry. The
3、 difference is that we understand that tantrums and tears come from emotions and not manipulation. And our children understand this too. They cry and have tantrums sometimes, of course. But they do this because their emotions are so overwhelming that they need to get it out. They do not expect to be
4、 rewarded for their strong negative emotions; they simply expect that we will listen. We pick up our babies when they cry, and we respond to the tears of our older children because we believe firmly that comfort is free, love is free, and that when a child has need for comfort and love, it is our jo
5、b to provide those things. We are not afraid of tears. We dont avoid them. We hold our children through them and teach them that when they are hurt or frustrated we are here to comfort them and help them work through their emotions.Attachment Parenting is not Clingy Parenting. I do not cling to my c
6、hildren. In fact, Im pretty free-range. As soon as they can move they usually move away from me and let me set up a chase as they crawl, run, skip and hop on their merry way to explore the world. Sure, I carry them and hug them and chase them and kiss them and rock them and sleep with them. But this
7、 is not me following them everywhere and pulling them back to me. This is me being a home base. The attachment comes from their being allowed to attach to us, not from us attaching to them like parental leeches.Attachment Parenting is not Selfish Parenting. It is also not selfless parenting. We are
8、not doing it for us, and we are not doing it to torment ourselves.Attachment parenting is not Helicopter Parenting. I dont hover. I supervise. I follow, I teach, I demonstrate, I explain. I dont slap curious hands away. I show how to do things safely. I let my child do the things that my child wishe
9、s to do, first with help and then with supervision and finally with trust. I dont insist that my 23 month old hold my hand when we walk on the sidewalk because I know that I can recall him with my voice because he trusts me to allow him to explore and he trusts me to explain when something is danger
10、ous and to help him satisfy his curiosities safely.Most of the negative things that I hear about attachment parents are completely off-base and describe something that is entirely unlike Attachment Parenting. Attachment Parenting is child-centric and focuses on the needs of the child. Children need
11、structure, rules, and boundaries. Attachment Parents simply believe that the child and the parent are allies, not adversaries. And that children are taught, not trained.What makes attachment parents different from indulgent parents is that they show more love to their childrenthink love is more impo
12、rtantprefer both love and toys in parentingdislike ice cream or sweetsAccording to the author, what should parents do when their kids cry?Rewarding kids with toys.Trying to stop kids crying.Holding them till they stop.Providing comfort and love.What does free-range mean according to the passage?Will
13、ing to give kids freedom of movement.Ready to play games with my kids.Curious to watch what games they play.Fond of providing a home base.Which of the following is NOT attachment parenting?Fostering their curiosity.Helping them do the right thing.Showing them how things are done.Standing by and prot
14、ecting.What does the passage mainly discuss?How to foster love in children.Different types of parenting.How to build child confidence.Parent-child relationships.45 MIN35 MINPART VI WRITING45 MIN35 MINSECTION A COMPOSITIONAccording to a recent survey on college students mental well-being, 20 percent
15、of college students experience various kinds of stress. Interpersonal communication, finding jobs, and study are among the top factors that cause anxiety and stress among students. Have you ever had such problems? And how do you tackle the problem(s)? Write on ANSWER SHEET THREE a composition of abo
16、ut 200 words on the following topic:How I Deal with StressYou are to write in three parts.In the first part, state the kind of stress you have experiencedIn the second part, explain how you deal with the stress.In the last part, bring what you have written to a natural conclusion or make a summary.Marks will be awarded for content, organization, language and appropriateness.Failure to follow the instructions may result in a loss of marks.10 MIN10 MINWrite on ANSWER SHEET THREE a note of about 50-60 w
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