Unit-2-高級英語閱讀資料課件

閱讀教程READINGCOURSE2新交際英語COMMUNICATIVEENGLISHFORCHINESELEARNERS

高等學校英語類專業(yè)國標規(guī)劃教材閱讀教程新交際英語高等學校英語類專業(yè)國標規(guī)劃教材Unit2

DealingwithpeopleUnit2

DealingwithpeopleContentContentTextOrganizationBeforeignorantblamersAfterempathogeniccommunicatorsLISTENTextOrganizationBeforeAfterLI1234Review&CheckTeaching

ProceduresSummaryContents5TeachingObjectives

Assignments1234Review&CheckTeachingPr3fallout:tohaveanargumentandstopbeingfriendlytrifling:smallandunimportant

deliberately:inanintentionalmanner,onpurpose

bitter:angryandfiercetolerant:showingrespectfortherightsoropinionsofothersVocabularyLead-inActivity3fallout:tohaveanargument4QuestionsWhatarethemost

commonreasonsfor

roommateconflicts?Whatbenefitscanaharmoniousdormitorybringtoallthemembers?Howtoresolveroommateconflictsinabetterway?Lead-inActivity4QuestionsWhatarethemostcoVocabularyWorkshopp241.hemorrhagev.（病理）出血2.culprit=criminal犯人；元兇3.spontaneously自發(fā)地4.sullen陰沉的；不高興的5.tickedoff使惱火；使惱怒ticksb.off=annoysb.6.sabotagev.妨害，蓄意破壞

7.rift裂縫，分歧，不和8.antipathy反感VocabularyWorkshopp241.hemoMotto:Courageisdaringtodowhatisrightinspiteoftheweaknessofourflesh.真正的勇敢意味著,即使身處險境也勇于匡扶正義.Motto:CourageisdaringtodoPartBTheEmpathyJoltReading&StudyingPartBTheEmpathyJoltRempathy:同理心;移情作用;共情移情culturalempathy文化移情;文化同感;文化認同empatheticadj.移情作用的；同感的（等于empathic）empathic移情作用的；神入的empathizevt.移情；神會jolt:/d???lt/v.(使)震動，(使)搖晃，(使)顛簸v.使〔某人〕吃驚togivesomeoneasuddenshockorsurprisen.震驚withajoltjolt震動，晃動可能來自中古英語jollen,擊，打，連續(xù)猛擊。引申詞義震動，晃動。empathy:同理心;移情作用;共情移情TheEmpathyJolt震撼人心的移情溝通法TheEmpathyJolt震撼人心的移情溝通法LanguagepointsP26earlyinmycareergrowtiredoflisteningto...memberswhorefusetoeachother...“hesaid/shesaid”wars:thezero-sumgamesinfantiledebatesachieveatemporarytrucePara.1.LanguagepointsP26earlyinmLanguagepointsfeellikedoingsth.putatemorarybandageonagaping,hemorragingwoundPara.1.vvvvvvvvvvvv創(chuàng)可貼裂著口的流著血的LanguagepointsfeellikedoLanguagepointsculpritn.ignorantblamersThesewerethepeople

whotreatcommunicationasabloodsport,rantingrelentlesslyaboutanotherperson'sfailingwithoutgivingasecond'sthoughttohowtheattackedpartyfelt.我給這類爭執(zhí)的當事人取了個名字，稱之為“無知的指責者”。這些人把與人交流當成一項血腥的戰(zhàn)斗，毫不留情地指責他人的過錯，從不考慮對方的感受。Para.2定語從句現(xiàn)在分詞作伴隨狀語withdoing伴隨狀語

Languagepointsculpritn.ParLanguagepoints譯文：我給這類爭執(zhí)的當事人取了個名字，稱之為“無知的指責者”。這些人把與人交流當成一項血腥的戰(zhàn)斗，毫不留情地指責他人的過錯，從不考慮對方的感受。Para.2Languagepoints譯文：Para.2Languagepoints...lethisprojectsrunoverthetimebudgetv.=planactlikehe'ssohighandmightyisnotateamplayer不是個好隊友；不懂得如何與人合作Para.3Languagepoints...lethispLanguagepointspresumptuoustheypresumedtotell...whatthescorewas.notleastbit:notatall一點都沒有becuriousabout對...好奇/感興趣

Inthemindof...,thegoalwas/wasn'tto....Para.4adj.壯觀的，驚人的;引人注目的LanguagepointspresumptuousPnot...but...shareinformation分享信息exposeeveryflawoftheotherperson揭露/暴光/指出對方的每一個錯誤sitback坐回來/坐下來

Para.4not...but...Para.4LanguagepointsPara.5Attemptingto.....rarelywaseffective.試圖做某事多半是沒用的。rarely:表否定，“稀有地，少有地”動名詞作主語。

adv.無意間地，自發(fā)地Ispontaneouslyhappeneduponaninterventionthatchangedeverything.

有一天，我無意間發(fā)現(xiàn)了一種干預方法，而這種方法改變了一切。偶然發(fā)現(xiàn)n.干預；介入；干涉LanguagepointsPara.5AttemptLanguagepoints

Ithappenedwhen...Harryrefusedtodo...help...orcooperateinalmostanyway.Harry拒絕做作業(yè)，也不幫著做家務，什么都不聽。time-outs隔離法/面壁思過takingawaytheInternet斷網sendinghimtohisroom禁足/關禁閉havelittletonoeffect不起作用sullenadj.繃著臉不高興的,沉悶的Para.6LanguagepointsIthappeLanguagepoints

Assoonastheysatdown....Iasked....Joanlaunchedintoalistof...Robertsatdownquietlyinaway......thatcommunicatedthatheagreedwith...,butalsounderstood...Para.7sthtickyouoff=sth.annoyyou使惱火/惱怒

LanguagepointsAssoonastLanguagepointsMeanwhile,HarrysatwithhisarmscrossedandbaseballcappulleddownPara.7with的用法1.with/without-名/代詞+形容詞；2.with/without-名/代詞+副詞；3.with/without-名/代詞+介詞短語；4.with/without-名/代詞+動詞不定式；5.with/without-名/代詞+現(xiàn)在/過去分詞。在句子中with結構多數充當狀語，表示行為方式，伴隨情況、時間、原因或條件；也可做定語。?LanguagepointsMeanwhile,PaLanguagepoints

Harrysatwithhisarmscrossedandbaseballcappulled

down...signalingthat...Para.7

thelastplacehewantedtobewasinthisroom.好像在說，此時此刻他最不想呆的地方就是這里.n.信號；暗號；導火線vt.標志；用信號通知；表示adj.顯著的；作為信號的signalLanguagepointsHarrysatPaLanguagepointsengagevt.使參加withoutalienatingJoanPara.8alienatevt.使疏遠;使孤立engagein從事于（參加）Languagepointsengagevt.使Languagepointsfirmlyandassertively語氣堅定withoutanyhostilityorfrustation不帶任何敵意,也不灰心喪氣Para.9LanguagepointsfirmlyandHowmanytimeswerethefollowing

questionrepeatedbytheauthor?IfIweretoaskHarry/Robert/Joan(whyhethinksthismeetingisjustgoingtobeawasteoftimeandmoney,)whatwouldhe/she/theysay?RepeatedSixtimes:Para.9;Para.14;Para.16;Para.19;Para.22;Para.25HowmanytimeswerethefollowLanguagepoints

plaintsagainstHarrynotyetexpressed一幅苦水還沒倒完的樣子Para.10表示抱怨的事情很多，想洗衣清單一樣長LanguagepointswithherlputyourselfinHarry'sshoes

Para.11Languagepoints這個觀點Coloin也贊同putyourselfinothers'shoes設身處地替別人著想Whyhethinksthismeetingisawastetimeandwon'taccomplishanythingputyourselfinHarry'sshoesAtthatmomentRobertgavemeapuzzledbutcuriouslookandbehattedsonloosenedhiscrossedarmsliftedhischinoffhischestslightlyindicatingthat...分詞伴隨狀語I'dcaughthisinterest.引起他的興趣/注意。Para.12Languagepointscatchone'sinterest/attentionAtthatmomentPara.12Languagethinkforamoment想了一下allthat'sgoingtohappenisthat...mom'sgoingtolecturemedad'sgoingtojustgoalongwithitandprobablynotsayanythinglectureV.訓斥；告誡;說教goalongwith贊同；附合；陪同Para.13Languagepointsthat'sjustwhathappensathomethinkforamoment想了一下Para.13emphasizethesignificanceof...強調...的重要意義shiftfromattackingtounderstanding從攻擊對方轉變?yōu)槔斫鈱Ψ絇ara.14Languagepointsemphasizethesignificanceofcan'tstandit不能忍受tuneitout==turnoff,shutoff關掉

getawayassoonaspossible盡快逃走rivetonthisdialogue==focusonthisdialogue注意力集中在談話上

Paras.15--19Languagepointsrivetn鉚釘；v.(目光，注意力）集中于can'tstandit不能忍受Paras.15--1atthispoint這時sabotage/?s?b?tɑ??/v.妨害；蓄意破壞n.蓄意毀壞；刻意阻礙Para.20-21Languagepoints努力爭??；加油

atthispoint這時Para.20-21LanguJwouldsayIsabotageher蓄意削弱她的威信byagreeingonthesurfacewithher表面同意她butcommunicatingtoHarrythat但是卻向Harry表示Iagreewithhimabouthowoverthetopshecanget

我同意他:她怎能如此過分呢Para.21Languagepoints

howthetopshecangetover

JwouldsayPara.21LanguagepoPara.22AndifIaskedJoanhowthatmadeherfeel,whatwoulsshesay?allalone孤立無援witheveryonefightingherandnobodyhelpingherPara.22-23Languagepoints

Para.22Para.22-23Languagepoiatthatpoint這時Ihatebeingsuchabitch...fallthroughthecracks陷入困境;掉向深淵;崩潰allalone孤立無援witheveryonefightingherandnobodyhelpingherPara.24Languagepoints

crackdown鎮(zhèn)壓；取締；劈啪擊下crackn.裂縫裂紋atthatpoint這時Para.24Languagatthispoint這時IcouldfinallymakeoutHarry'seyesheuncrossedhisarms交叉的雙手放下來

Para.25Languagepointsatthispoint這時Para.25LanguageHowmanytimeswerethefollowing

questionrepeatedbytheauthor?IfIweretoaskyourmomanddadwhetherthey'remoredisappointedandfrustratedwithyouorworriedaboutyou,whatwouldtheysay?RepeatedSixtimes:Para.9;Para.14;

Para.16;Para.19;Para.22;Para.25Para.25Howmanytimeswerethefollowrepliedwithasenseofrevelation一種啟示感(明白了什么)

Para.26LanguagepointsrepliedPara.26LanguagepointsI'dturnedouttobealoserandhaveashittylifebutthey'resocontrolling

Para.28Languagepointsshitty

/'??ti/adj.較差的;劣等的bullshitn.胡說;廢話nonsensev.講廢話controllingadj.控制欲強的擔心我變成一個沒用的人，生活一團糟……但他們管得也太嚴了，我都快喘不過氣來了?！彼f道。I'dturnedouttobealoseraIknowtheirstylesucksbutstaywiththefirstthing

Para.29Languagepointssuckvi.吸吮；糟糕IknowtheirstylesucksPara.2Because...theylovemeasifrealizingthisforthefirsttime似乎第一次意識到這點inalongwhile長時間以來

Para.30LanguagepointsBecause...theylovemePara.3that'sallittooktherestofthesessioninacooperativeandcollaborativefashion,freeofviciousattacksandunderhandedshotsandunvoicedrage

Para.31Languagepointsadj.合作的;協(xié)作的freeof免于；不受影響n.fashion方式惡毒的語言攻擊不光明的投球：含沙射影的指責無聲的憤怒adj.合作的n.session會議期間；這里指談話期間that'sallittookPara.31LanguTheFranklinsactuallytalkedwith...insteadoftearingateachother而不是象瘋狗一樣互相撕咬likerabiddogs.

Para.31Languagepointsadj.激烈的;狂暴的;偏激的TheFranklinsactuallytalkedAfterthatbreakthrough突破Istartedusingthistechniquetobridgecommunicationgapsand搭建溝通的橋梁repairrifts修復破裂的關系Icallthisapproachempathogeniccommunication移情溝通法empathogenic=empathetic.,empathic

Para.32Languagepointsn.裂縫；冰山的裂縫譯文：取得這一突破后，我開始使用這種方法來為人們搭建溝通的橋梁，修復破裂的關系。我將此方法命名為“移情溝通法”，因為它能消除人們心中的厭惡和仇恨，喚起人與人之間情感的共鳴。Afterthatbreakthrough突破Parainstantlyfosterempathyamongpeoplewho'vepreviouslyonlyknowantipathy/?n?t?p?θi/oreven

outrighthatred

Para.32Languagepointsantipathy/?n?t?p?θi/n.反感;厭惡;憎惡;不相容outright/?a?t?ra?t/adj.完全的，徹底的；直率的；全部的adv.全部地；率直地；立即，當場hatred/?he?tr?d/n.憎恨;怨恨;敵意譯文：取得這一突破后，我開始使用這種方法來為人們搭建溝通的橋梁，修復破裂的關系。我將此方法命名為“移情溝通法”，因為它能消除人們心中的厭惡和仇恨，喚起人與人之間情感的共鳴。instantlyPara.32LanguagepointPara.32LanguagepointsPara.32LanguagepointsWordstudy:synonyms同義詞p33同義詞：Wordstudy:synonyms同義詞p33同義長句分析：Analysisoflongsentences1.Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybeinthehousingofthisenormousandrapidlygrowinganountofdata,butwillalsobeintheabilitytorunrealtimedataanalyticstoextractactionableandongoingknowledge.(38words)2017年12月的六級閱讀真題文章的背景是：隨著科技的發(fā)展，我們的家庭中將會出現(xiàn)很多的智能家居產品，他們將給我們的生活帶來更多的便利。長句分析：Analysisoflongsentencemainstructure:句子主體Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybe...butwillalsobe...這個很大的好處不僅在于...，也在于...。mainstructure:句子主體Thebigben去掉修飾成分：Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybeinthehousing

ofthisenormousandrapidlygrowinganountofdata

butwillalsobeintheability

torunrealtimedataanalyticstoextractactionableandongoingknowledge.of引導的后置定語，修飾“housing”動詞不定式定語，修飾“housing”原文理解：這個很大的好處不僅在于...，也在于...。這個很大的好處不僅是擁有越多數據的住房，而且具有通過實時數據分析，得到可控的，持續(xù)信息的能力。去掉修飾成分：Thebigbenefitwillnot長句分析：Analysisoflongsentences1.Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybeinthehousingofthisenormousandrapidlygrowinganountofdata,butwillalsobeintheabilitytorunrealtimedataanalyticstoextractactionableandongoingknowledge.這個很大的好處不僅是擁有越多數據的住房，而且具有通過實時數據分析，得到可控的，持續(xù)信息的能力。這些信息就是括號中描述的內容。譯文：長句分析：Analysisoflongsentence2.Unfortunately,thatcomfortcanhindertheverylearningthatcanexpandyourcompanyandyourcareer.(16words)長句分析：Analysisoflongsentences2015年12月的四級閱讀真題。文章背景討論的問題是：身邊的人和你的想法一致，是不是一件好事。2.Unfortunately,thatcomfortmainstructure:句子主體Unfortunately,thatcomfortcanhinderthevery

learning

thatcanexpandyourcompanyandyourcareer.譯文理解:那種舒適可能阻礙學習...thatcomfortcanhinderlearningmainstructure:句子主體Unfortunate1)unfortunately是副詞，修飾整個句子：這句話表達的是整個事情是不幸的。2)very是個形容詞，修飾learning.這里very并不表示“非?！?而是強調,理解為:正是那種學習.3)that引導形容詞從句，也修飾learning.

是什么樣的學習呢？就是“可以幫助你擴張公司和職業(yè)生涯的學習”1)unfortunately是副詞，修飾整個句子：2.

Unfortunately,thatcomfortcanhinder

thevery

learningthatcanexpandyourcompanyandyourcareer.

不幸的是，那種舒適可能會阻礙公司和事業(yè)的發(fā)展。不幸的是阻礙擴張譯文：2.Unfortunately,thatcomfortAssignments作業(yè)Assignments作業(yè)3.“Thefactthatparticipantswerewillingtosubstitutepartofafooditemforthemereprospectofarelativelysmallmonetaryawardisinteresting,”saysReimann.(27words)長句分析：Analysisoflongsentences2016年12月的四級閱讀真題文章的背景是：3.“Thefactthatparticipant4.Transformingdownareassothattheyincorporatemodernhousingandimprovedwalkabilitytolocalrestaurants,retail,andentertainment---especiallywhencombinedwithimprovedinfrastructureforcyclistsandpublictransit---makesthemappealtoamoreaffluentdemographic.(37words)長句分析：Analysisoflongsentences2017年12月的六級閱讀真題文章的背景是：4.TransformingdownareassotUnit-2-高級英語閱讀資料課件閱讀教程READINGCOURSE2新交際英語COMMUNICATIVEENGLISHFORCHINESELEARNERS

高等學校英語類專業(yè)國標規(guī)劃教材閱讀教程新交際英語高等學校英語類專業(yè)國標規(guī)劃教材Unit2

DealingwithpeopleUnit2

DealingwithpeopleContentContentTextOrganizationBeforeignorantblamersAfterempathogeniccommunicatorsLISTENTextOrganizationBeforeAfterLI1234Review&CheckTeaching

ProceduresSummaryContents5TeachingObjectives

Assignments1234Review&CheckTeachingPr3fallout:tohaveanargumentandstopbeingfriendlytrifling:smallandunimportant

deliberately:inanintentionalmanner,onpurpose

bitter:angryandfiercetolerant:showingrespectfortherightsoropinionsofothersVocabularyLead-inActivity3fallout:tohaveanargument4QuestionsWhatarethemost

commonreasonsfor

roommateconflicts?Whatbenefitscanaharmoniousdormitorybringtoallthemembers?Howtoresolveroommateconflictsinabetterway?Lead-inActivity4QuestionsWhatarethemostcoVocabularyWorkshopp241.hemorrhagev.（病理）出血2.culprit=criminal犯人；元兇3.spontaneously自發(fā)地4.sullen陰沉的；不高興的5.tickedoff使惱火；使惱怒ticksb.off=annoysb.6.sabotagev.妨害，蓄意破壞

7.rift裂縫，分歧，不和8.antipathy反感VocabularyWorkshopp241.hemoMotto:Courageisdaringtodowhatisrightinspiteoftheweaknessofourflesh.真正的勇敢意味著,即使身處險境也勇于匡扶正義.Motto:CourageisdaringtodoPartBTheEmpathyJoltReading&StudyingPartBTheEmpathyJoltRempathy:同理心;移情作用;共情移情culturalempathy文化移情;文化同感;文化認同empatheticadj.移情作用的；同感的（等于empathic）empathic移情作用的；神入的empathizevt.移情；神會jolt:/d???lt/v.(使)震動，(使)搖晃，(使)顛簸v.使〔某人〕吃驚togivesomeoneasuddenshockorsurprisen.震驚withajoltjolt震動，晃動可能來自中古英語jollen,擊，打，連續(xù)猛擊。引申詞義震動，晃動。empathy:同理心;移情作用;共情移情TheEmpathyJolt震撼人心的移情溝通法TheEmpathyJolt震撼人心的移情溝通法LanguagepointsP26earlyinmycareergrowtiredoflisteningto...memberswhorefusetoeachother...“hesaid/shesaid”wars:thezero-sumgamesinfantiledebatesachieveatemporarytrucePara.1.LanguagepointsP26earlyinmLanguagepointsfeellikedoingsth.putatemorarybandageonagaping,hemorragingwoundPara.1.vvvvvvvvvvvv創(chuàng)可貼裂著口的流著血的LanguagepointsfeellikedoLanguagepointsculpritn.ignorantblamersThesewerethepeople

whotreatcommunicationasabloodsport,rantingrelentlesslyaboutanotherperson'sfailingwithoutgivingasecond'sthoughttohowtheattackedpartyfelt.我給這類爭執(zhí)的當事人取了個名字，稱之為“無知的指責者”。這些人把與人交流當成一項血腥的戰(zhàn)斗，毫不留情地指責他人的過錯，從不考慮對方的感受。Para.2定語從句現(xiàn)在分詞作伴隨狀語withdoing伴隨狀語

Languagepointsculpritn.ParLanguagepoints譯文：我給這類爭執(zhí)的當事人取了個名字，稱之為“無知的指責者”。這些人把與人交流當成一項血腥的戰(zhàn)斗，毫不留情地指責他人的過錯，從不考慮對方的感受。Para.2Languagepoints譯文：Para.2Languagepoints...lethisprojectsrunoverthetimebudgetv.=planactlikehe'ssohighandmightyisnotateamplayer不是個好隊友；不懂得如何與人合作Para.3Languagepoints...lethispLanguagepointspresumptuoustheypresumedtotell...whatthescorewas.notleastbit:notatall一點都沒有becuriousabout對...好奇/感興趣

Inthemindof...,thegoalwas/wasn'tto....Para.4adj.壯觀的，驚人的;引人注目的LanguagepointspresumptuousPnot...but...shareinformation分享信息exposeeveryflawoftheotherperson揭露/暴光/指出對方的每一個錯誤sitback坐回來/坐下來

Para.4not...but...Para.4LanguagepointsPara.5Attemptingto.....rarelywaseffective.試圖做某事多半是沒用的。rarely:表否定，“稀有地，少有地”動名詞作主語。

adv.無意間地，自發(fā)地Ispontaneouslyhappeneduponaninterventionthatchangedeverything.

有一天，我無意間發(fā)現(xiàn)了一種干預方法，而這種方法改變了一切。偶然發(fā)現(xiàn)n.干預；介入；干涉LanguagepointsPara.5AttemptLanguagepoints

Ithappenedwhen...Harryrefusedtodo...help...orcooperateinalmostanyway.Harry拒絕做作業(yè)，也不幫著做家務，什么都不聽。time-outs隔離法/面壁思過takingawaytheInternet斷網sendinghimtohisroom禁足/關禁閉havelittletonoeffect不起作用sullenadj.繃著臉不高興的,沉悶的Para.6LanguagepointsIthappeLanguagepoints

Assoonastheysatdown....Iasked....Joanlaunchedintoalistof...Robertsatdownquietlyinaway......thatcommunicatedthatheagreedwith...,butalsounderstood...Para.7sthtickyouoff=sth.annoyyou使惱火/惱怒

LanguagepointsAssoonastLanguagepointsMeanwhile,HarrysatwithhisarmscrossedandbaseballcappulleddownPara.7with的用法1.with/without-名/代詞+形容詞；2.with/without-名/代詞+副詞；3.with/without-名/代詞+介詞短語；4.with/without-名/代詞+動詞不定式；5.with/without-名/代詞+現(xiàn)在/過去分詞。在句子中with結構多數充當狀語，表示行為方式，伴隨情況、時間、原因或條件；也可做定語。?LanguagepointsMeanwhile,PaLanguagepoints

Harrysatwithhisarmscrossedandbaseballcappulled

down...signalingthat...Para.7

thelastplacehewantedtobewasinthisroom.好像在說，此時此刻他最不想呆的地方就是這里.n.信號；暗號；導火線vt.標志；用信號通知；表示adj.顯著的；作為信號的signalLanguagepointsHarrysatPaLanguagepointsengagevt.使參加withoutalienatingJoanPara.8alienatevt.使疏遠;使孤立engagein從事于（參加）Languagepointsengagevt.使Languagepointsfirmlyandassertively語氣堅定withoutanyhostilityorfrustation不帶任何敵意,也不灰心喪氣Para.9LanguagepointsfirmlyandHowmanytimeswerethefollowing

questionrepeatedbytheauthor?IfIweretoaskHarry/Robert/Joan(whyhethinksthismeetingisjustgoingtobeawasteoftimeandmoney,)whatwouldhe/she/theysay?RepeatedSixtimes:Para.9;Para.14;Para.16;Para.19;Para.22;Para.25HowmanytimeswerethefollowLanguagepoints

plaintsagainstHarrynotyetexpressed一幅苦水還沒倒完的樣子Para.10表示抱怨的事情很多，想洗衣清單一樣長LanguagepointswithherlputyourselfinHarry'sshoes

Para.11Languagepoints這個觀點Coloin也贊同putyourselfinothers'shoes設身處地替別人著想Whyhethinksthismeetingisawastetimeandwon'taccomplishanythingputyourselfinHarry'sshoesAtthatmomentRobertgavemeapuzzledbutcuriouslookandbehattedsonloosenedhiscrossedarmsliftedhischinoffhischestslightlyindicatingthat...分詞伴隨狀語I'dcaughthisinterest.引起他的興趣/注意。Para.12Languagepointscatchone'sinterest/attentionAtthatmomentPara.12Languagethinkforamoment想了一下allthat'sgoingtohappenisthat...mom'sgoingtolecturemedad'sgoingtojustgoalongwithitandprobablynotsayanythinglectureV.訓斥；告誡;說教goalongwith贊同；附合；陪同Para.13Languagepointsthat'sjustwhathappensathomethinkforamoment想了一下Para.13emphasizethesignificanceof...強調...的重要意義shiftfromattackingtounderstanding從攻擊對方轉變?yōu)槔斫鈱Ψ絇ara.14Languagepointsemphasizethesignificanceofcan'tstandit不能忍受tuneitout==turnoff,shutoff關掉

getawayassoonaspossible盡快逃走rivetonthisdialogue==focusonthisdialogue注意力集中在談話上

Paras.15--19Languagepointsrivetn鉚釘；v.(目光，注意力）集中于can'tstandit不能忍受Paras.15--1atthispoint這時sabotage/?s?b?tɑ??/v.妨害；蓄意破壞n.蓄意毀壞；刻意阻礙Para.20-21Languagepoints努力爭??；加油

atthispoint這時Para.20-21LanguJwouldsayIsabotageher蓄意削弱她的威信byagreeingonthesurfacewithher表面同意她butcommunicatingtoHarrythat但是卻向Harry表示Iagreewithhimabouthowoverthetopshecanget

我同意他:她怎能如此過分呢Para.21Languagepoints

howthetopshecangetover

JwouldsayPara.21LanguagepoPara.22AndifIaskedJoanhowthatmadeherfeel,whatwoulsshesay?allalone孤立無援witheveryonefightingherandnobodyhelpingherPara.22-23Languagepoints

Para.22Para.22-23Languagepoiatthatpoint這時Ihatebeingsuchabitch...fallthroughthecracks陷入困境;掉向深淵;崩潰allalone孤立無援witheveryonefightingherandnobodyhelpingherPara.24Languagepoints

crackdown鎮(zhèn)壓；取締；劈啪擊下crackn.裂縫裂紋atthatpoint這時Para.24Languagatthispoint這時IcouldfinallymakeoutHarry'seyesheuncrossedhisarms交叉的雙手放下來

Para.25Languagepointsatthispoint這時Para.25LanguageHowmanytimeswerethefollowing

questionrepeatedbytheauthor?IfIweretoaskyourmomanddadwhetherthey'remoredisappointedandfrustratedwithyouorworriedaboutyou,whatwouldtheysay?RepeatedSixtimes:Para.9;Para.14;

Para.16;Para.19;Para.22;Para.25Para.25Howmanytimeswerethefollowrepliedwithasenseofrevelation一種啟示感(明白了什么)

Para.26LanguagepointsrepliedPara.26LanguagepointsI'dturnedouttobealoserandhaveashittylifebutthey'resocontrolling

Para.28Languagepointsshitty

/'??ti/adj.較差的;劣等的bullshitn.胡說;廢話nonsensev.講廢話controllingadj.控制欲強的擔心我變成一個沒用的人，生活一團糟……但他們管得也太嚴了，我都快喘不過氣來了。”他說道。I'dturnedouttobealoseraIknowtheirstylesucksbutstaywiththefirstthing

Para.29Languagepointssuckvi.吸吮；糟糕IknowtheirstylesucksPara.2Because...theylovemeasifrealizingthisforthefirsttime似乎第一次意識到這點inalongwhile長時間以來

Para.30LanguagepointsBecause...theylovemePara.3that'sallittooktherestofthesessioninacooperativeandcollaborativefashion,freeofviciousattacksandunderhandedshotsandunvoicedrage

Para.31Languagepointsadj.合作的;協(xié)作的freeof免于；不受影響n.fashion方式惡毒的語言攻擊不光明的投球：含沙射影的指責無聲的憤怒adj.合作的n.session會議期間；這里指談話期間that'sallittookPara.31LanguTheFranklinsactuallytalkedwith...insteadoftearingateachother而不是象瘋狗一樣互相撕咬likerabiddogs.

Para.31Languagepointsadj.激烈的;狂暴的;偏激的TheFranklinsactuallytalkedAfterthatbreakthrough突破Istartedusingthistechniquetobridgecommunicationgapsand搭建溝通的橋梁repairrifts修復破裂的關系Icallthisapproachempathogeniccommunication移情溝通法empathogenic=empathetic.,empathic

Para.32Languagepointsn.裂縫；冰山的裂縫譯文：取得這一突破后，我開始使用這種方法來為人們搭建溝通的橋梁，修復破裂的關系。我將此方法命名為“移情溝通法”，因為它能消除人們心中的厭惡和仇恨，喚起人與人之間情感的共鳴。Afterthatbreakthrough突破Parainstantlyfosterempathyamongpeoplewho'vepreviouslyonlyknowantipathy/?n?t?p?θi/oreven

outrighthatred

Para.32Languagepointsantipathy/?n?t?p?θi/n.反感;厭惡;憎惡;不相容outright/?a?t?ra?t/adj.完全的，徹底的；直率的；全部的adv.全部地；率直地；立即，當場hatred/?he?tr?d/n.憎恨;怨恨;敵意譯文：取得這一突破后，我開始使用這種方法來為人們搭建溝通的橋梁，修復破裂的關系。我將此方法命名為“移情溝通法”，因為它能消除人們心中的厭惡和仇恨，喚起人與人之間情感的共鳴。instantlyPara.32LanguagepointPara.32LanguagepointsPara.32LanguagepointsWordstudy:synonyms同義詞p33同義詞：Wordstudy:synonyms同義詞p33同義長句分析：Analysisoflongsentences1.Thebigbenefitwillnotonlybeinthehousingofthisenormousandrapidlygrowinganountofdata,butwillalsobeintheabilitytorunrealtimedata