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ThePowerofFamilyandEducation——AReviewofEducatedTianQiContentsofEducatedAboutTheAuthorFamilyandEducation01020304ContentsAboutTheAuthor01TaraWestover

TaraWestover

IntroductionofTheAuthorAmericanhistorianandwriter.Bachelorofartsmasterofphilosophy,BYU.Masterofphilosophydegree,CambridgeUniversity.Doctorofhistory,CambridgeUniversity.

In2018,shepublishedherdebutnovel,Educated.

“InfluentialPersonofTheYear"ofTimeMagazinein2019.ContentsofEducated02Educated,

auniquememoirofTara'supbringingandschooling.TarawasborninthemountainsofIdaho.HerfatherwasaMormonwithaparanoidandextremeattitude.Hermotherwasanherbalistandmidwife.Thefamilyofsevenchildrenhelpedoutattheirfather'sscrapyardinsteadofgoingtoschool.IntroductionofEducatedAtthattime,Tarathought:"whenI'minmylateteens,I'mgoingtogetmarried.Dadwouldgivemeacornerofthefarmwheremyhusbandwouldbuildahouse.Mymothertaughtmeaboutherbsandmidwifery.MotherwilldeliverthebabywhenIgivebirth.Iguessoneday,I'llbeamidwife,too.Idon'tknowwheretheuniversitywillbeinthefuture."IntroductionofEducatedButitchanged.whenherolderbrother,Tyler,taughthimselftogotocollegeandlefthometostudy.TylerencouragedTaratoleavethemountainsandpasstheACTtogotoBYU.Attheageof17,Tarawenttoclassforthefirsttime,butcollegewasastrangeworldtoher.Shedidn'tknowwhatapaper,shedidn'tknowwhatatextbook,sheeventhoughtofEuropeasacountry...IntroductionofEducatedDuringtheperiodofstudying,whattheprofessortoldherandwhatthebooktoldherwastotallygaveheranewlookattheworld.Taraenduredthepainofinfidelity,withherowneffortsandconstantencouragement,shebegantoreshapeherlife,eventuallyreceivedamaster'sanddoctorate.IntroductionofEducatedFamilyandEducation03InfluencebyOriginalFamilyWhatisEducationInfluencebyOriginalFamilyGenerallyspeaking,peoplewillhavetwofamiliesintheirlife,oneisthefamilywegrewupwith,andtheotheristhefamilywecreatedafterwegotmarried.Thefamilyoforiginreferstothefamilyinwhichoneisbornandraised.Itistheinitialplacewhereonelearnsemotionalexperiences.Intheoriginalfamilyenvironment,thepersonalcharacteristicsofparents,theinteractionbetweenparents,parentsandchildren,etc.,willleaveamarkontheindividual'sphysicalandmentaldevelopment,andevenaffectthewholelife[1].[1]盧婧,曹莉莉.混沌理論視角下原生家庭影響力探析[J].齊齊哈爾大學(xué)學(xué)報(bào)(哲學(xué)社會(huì)科學(xué)版),2011(01):71-74.InfluencebyOriginalFamilyStudieshaveshownthatfamiliesoforigincanalsoinfluencechildren'seducationalachievement.Ontheonehand,parents'politicalandeconomicstatusaffectstheirattitudesandbehaviorstowardstheirchildren'seducation.LikeTara,herfatherdidnotapproveoftheirchildren'seducation.Ontheotherhand,parents'investmentinchildren'seducationisdividedintomaterialinvestmentandimmaterialinvestment,thelattersuchaseducationalexpectation,hasagreaterimpactonthefinaleducationalachievementthantheformer[2].[2]張?jiān)略?謝宇.低生育率背景下兒童的兄弟姐妹數(shù)、教育資源獲得與學(xué)業(yè)成績[J].人口研究,2015,39(04):19-34.InfluencebyOriginalFamily

InaninterviewwithBillGates,whenshewasaskedwhatshethoughtoftheoriginalfamily,Tarasaid:Youcanlovesomeoneandstillchoosetosaygoodbyetohim;Youcanmisssomeoneeverydayandstillbegladthey'renotinyourlife.Wecannotdecideonouroriginalfamilyanymorethanwecandecideonourbirth.However,wecanchoosetocorrectthepaincausedbytheoriginalfamilyintherightway,suchaseducation.WhatiseducationEducationis"thecauseofestablishingpeople".——LuXunEducationmeansatreeshakinganothertree,acloudpushinganothercloud,asoulwakinganothersoul.——JaspersEducationisreallyjustaprocessofself-discoveryanddevelopingself-awarenessandideas.——TaraWestoverWhatiseducationWakinguptofind