怎么用英語應(yīng)對別人的嫉妒

怎么用英語應(yīng)對別人的嫉妒？怎么用英語應(yīng)對別人的嫉妒?Ifoundthesecretinanunexpectedplace--aneight-montholdProductHunt個月的產(chǎn)品的考察。WhenIwasyounger,Ihadsomebadhabits.Iwas morethanIwouldhavelikedtoadmit.Ihadagoodlife,butIwantedmore.Ienviedthosearoundmewhoseemedtomakeithappen.年輕的時候，我確是有些壞習(xí)慣的。我有嫉妒心——盡管我不想承認(rèn)這個事實。過得如意，而我偏偏更是貪婪；我嫉妒周圍能取得成功的人。That'swhythisshortexchangeinaneight-month-oldthreadonProductHuntreallycaughtmyeye.It'saboutwhattodowhenyou'vehadsuccess--andwhenyourealizeothersarestartingtofeelfrustratedasaresult.如是原因，我對這個項目充滿了興趣——取得了成功以及心里清楚自己的成功對于別人來說可能也是帶來了挫敗感時，下一步動向該是如何。"Iwasworkingonthat..."“我最近忙著做. ”Ifyou'renotfamiliarwithProductHunt,youshouldbe.It'saplacetodiscovercoolnewproductsjustabouteveryday.Earlierthisyear,theguyswhofoundedthelivestreamingserviceMeerkattooktothesitetoannouncetheirlaunch.對producthunt有所認(rèn)知還是必要的——年初，的創(chuàng)建者正式啟動了這個項目。在這里，探尋新產(chǎn)品幾乎是每天都要做的事情。Itwasaverypopularthread,withallkindsofpositivecomments.Onememberofthecommunityhowever,aprogrammernamedPierreGoutheraud(whogoesbythescreenname@httpete)foundthewholethingtobehorribletiming.Hecommented:"Iwasworkingonthesameexactapp.kindadepressedrightnow."Man,didIeverfeelforPete--orPierre,Iguess.I'vebeen序猿PierreGoutheraud（@httpete）的人覺得這事兒實在是個噩耗吧。他這樣說道：“我還在開發(fā)我的app，然而meerkat就像他的`雙胞胎兄弟一樣。”伙計，我懂你，這種事兒我經(jīng)歷過。Encouragement打賞WhatwasgreatwastheresponsethatMeerkatcofounderBenRubingave.Ican'thelpbutquoteitinfull:Meerkat合伙人BenRubin的回應(yīng)我要點贊，好想好想全部引用他說的這段話：“PETE!Whatmakesyouthinkyouarenotcapableofsomethingbetter/different?Itwouldbeaverysadworldifpeoplejustgiveuponideas.Icantellyouthatlivevideospaceisstillbrokenintermsofdistributionmechanism,andthatobviouslyMeerkatisnotperfect.there'saverygoodchancethatanyoneintheworldwouldcomeupwithabetterproduct/perspective.Please,gobacktocode.that'showweallbuildbetterthingstogether,evenwhenweworkseparately.--welearnfromeachother.”PETE！是讓你覺得自己不足以做出更好或是有所不同的產(chǎn)品呢？若是人人都將靈光一現(xiàn)視為不可取，那么這個世界是可悲的吧。我直言，Meerkat確實還有缺陷，例如現(xiàn)場部分在機械分銷上面仍有漏洞，而且我敢說總還有人會做得比我更好。所以求你了，回來摞碼吧，和我在一起——雖然我們分開工作，但是我們總能互相學(xué)到很多。ImightbeoverstatingtosayPierrewasjealous--maybealittlebitfrustrated.ButBenhandleditperfectly--andadmirably.Thepointis,whenpeoplelookatyoursuccessandwishtheycouldachieveit,themosthighestresponseyoucangiveistoencouragethemtodoso,evenifitmightmeanultimatelyoutshining起妒忌心了——挫敗感可能也是有的。但是Ben當(dāng)有人看見你的成功正是自己孜孜以求而不得之時，最好的答復(fù)便是也鼓勵他們這樣嘗試吧，雖然這樣做的結(jié)果可能是最終他們真的超越了你。Meerkat,ofcourse,theironyhereisthatMeerkatisfacingatoughbattle,sinceTwitteracquireditscompetitorPeriscopenotlongafterthisProductHuntthread.(IadmitIcametothepartylate,andhaveonlystartedcheckingoutbothappsfairlyrecently--soI'mnotsureatallwhatthefutureholdsforMeerkat現(xiàn)在也是不好過的——在這項考察開始不久就把對手Periscope納入了囊中（我承認(rèn)自己加入這個考察晚了點兒，這兩個app的審視才剛剛起步——所以我不能完全看清Meerkat的未來。）However,asoneofthecommenterswhosawRubin'sremarkputtoldhim:"WhetherornorMeerkatsucceeds(anditseem