人生教我的45個(gè)功課時(shí)間.doc

人生教我的45個(gè)功課時(shí)間作者: Regina Brett 1.人生是不公平，但還是好得很。 2.懷疑的時(shí)候，朝著未來(lái)踏出一小步。3.人生太短，短到來(lái)不及浪費(fèi)時(shí)間去恨任何一個(gè)人。4.生病的時(shí)候，你的工作不會(huì)照顧你。 只有你的朋友和父母會(huì)和你保持聯(lián)絡(luò)。5.每一個(gè)月付清你的信用卡。6.你不需要每一次都吵贏。 同意你不同意的。7.找人一起哭。 它比獨(dú)自啜泣更加療愈。8.對(duì)上帝生氣沒(méi)有關(guān)系。 祂受得了。9.退休存款從你的第一張薪水條開(kāi)始。10.講到巧克力，抗拒只是徒勞無(wú)功。11.和你的過(guò)去和解，它不會(huì)搞砸你的當(dāng)下。12.讓你的孩子看到你哭沒(méi)有關(guān)系。13.別拿自己的人生和他人做比較。 你根本不清楚他們的人生是怎么一回事。14.如果一段親密關(guān)系要偷偷摸摸，你根本不應(yīng)該涉入。15.一眨眼的功夫什么都會(huì)變。 但是別擔(dān)心: 上帝從來(lái)不眨眼。16.深吸一口氣。 它會(huì)安定你的大腦。17.沒(méi)用的，不美的，或不喜悅的東西都丟掉。18.沒(méi)讓你死的事情，真的會(huì)讓你更堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。19.重拾快樂(lè)童年永不嫌晚。 但這第二次只能靠你不靠人。20.當(dāng)關(guān)乎追求你生命的所愛(ài)，不要把不要當(dāng)答案。21.點(diǎn)蠟燭，用好的床單，穿上炫麗的內(nèi)衣。 不要特殊場(chǎng)合才用。 今天就是特別的一天。22.準(zhǔn)備要周全，然后隨遇而安。23.現(xiàn)在就離經(jīng)叛道。 不要一把年紀(jì)了才開(kāi)始穿上紫色24.最重要的性器官是腦袋。25.除了你，沒(méi)有人在主宰你的快樂(lè)。26.把你所有的不幸用這一句話把它表框起來(lái):”五年后，這還重要嗎?”27.永遠(yuǎn)選擇快樂(lè)地生活28.原諒每一個(gè)人每一件事。29.別人怎么看你根本不關(guān)你的事。30.時(shí)間會(huì)痊愈幾乎每一件事。 給時(shí)間,時(shí)間。31.無(wú)論情況多好或多壞，它都會(huì)變的。32.不要那么認(rèn)真的看待自己。 沒(méi)有人會(huì)這樣看待你的。33.相信奇跡。34.上帝愛(ài)你是因?yàn)榈k就是愛(ài)你這個(gè)人，不是因?yàn)槟阕隽耸裁椿蚴菦](méi)做什么。35.不要謹(jǐn)慎地稽查人生。 現(xiàn)在就呈現(xiàn)出你最大的發(fā)揮。36.變老了是勝利，它打敗了另一種選項(xiàng)- 死得早。37.你的孩子只有一個(gè)童年。38.真正最重要的是你愛(ài)過(guò)。39.每一天都出門。奇跡在四處等著。40.如果我們都把我們的問(wèn)題都丟成一堆，然后看看其它人的,我們會(huì)把我們的撿回來(lái)。41.別忌妒別人浪費(fèi)時(shí)間。 你已經(jīng)擁有你所需要的了。42.相信你最好的都還沒(méi)來(lái)。43.不管你感覺(jué)如何，起來(lái)，穿好和呈現(xiàn)。44.善待每一個(gè)人。45. 人生最終不會(huì)被打上蝴蝶結(jié)，但它仍然是一份禮物。對(duì)于生命，你永遠(yuǎn)有選擇更好版本的機(jī)會(huì)與能力！英文版Regina Bretts 45 life lessons and 5 to grow onBy Regina Brett, The Plain DealerOriginally published in The Plain Dealer on Sunday, May 28, 2006To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.It is the most-requested column Ive ever written. My odometer rolls over to 50 this week, so heres an update:1. Life isnt fair, but its still good.2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.4. Dont take yourself so seriously. No one else does.5. Pay off your credit cards every month.6. You dont have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.7. Cry with someone. Its more healing than crying alone.8. Its OK to get angry with God. He can take it.9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.11. Make peace with your past so it wont screw up the present.12. Its OK to let your children see you cry.13. Dont compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldnt be in it.15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But dont worry; God never blinks.16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.19. Its never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, dont take no for an answer.21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Dont save it for a special occasion. Today is special.22. Overprepare, then go with the flow.23. Be eccentric now. Dont wait for old age to wear purple.24. The most important sex organ is the brain.25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: “In five years, will this matter?”27. Always choose life.28. Forgive everyone everything.29. What other people think of you is none of your business.30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.32. Your job wont take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.33. Believe in miracles.34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didnt do.35. Whatever doesnt kill you really does make you stronger.36. Growing old beats the alternative dying young.37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone elses, wed grab ours back.41. Dont audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.42. Get rid of anything that isnt useful, beautiful or joyful.43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.45. The best