2021年《記得感謝身邊的人》英語演講稿

1、記得感謝身邊的人英語演講稿 Hi. Im here to talk to you about the importan _ of praise, admiration and thank you, and having it be specific and genuine. 嗨。我在這里要和大家談?wù)?，向別人表達(dá)贊美，傾佩和謝意的重要性，并使它們聽來真誠，具體。 And the way I got interested in this was, I noti _d in myself, when I was growing up, and until about a few years ago,

2、 that I would want to say thank you to someone, I would want to praise them, I would want to take in their praise of me and Id just stop it. And I asked myself, why? I felt shy, I felt embarrassed. And then my question became, am I the only one who does this? So, I decided to investigate. 之所以我對此感興趣，

3、是因為我從我自己的成長中注意到，幾年前，當(dāng)我想要對某個人說聲謝謝時，當(dāng)我想要贊美他們時，當(dāng)我想接受他們對我的贊揚，但我卻沒有說出口。我問我自己，這是 _? 我感到害羞，我感到尷尬。 接著我產(chǎn)生了一個問題，難道我是唯一一個這么做的人嗎?所以我決定做些探究。 Im fortunate enough to work in the rehab facility, so I get to see people who are facing life and death with addiction. And sometimes it es down to something as _ as, their

4、 core wound is their father _d without ever saying hes proud of them. But then, they hear from all the family and friends that the father told everybody else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son. Its because he didnt know that his son needed to hear it. 我非常幸運的在一家康復(fù)中心工作，所以我可以看到那些因為上癮而面

5、臨生與死的人。有時候這一切可以非常簡單地歸結(jié)為，他們最核心的創(chuàng)傷于他們父親到死都未說過“他為他們而自豪”。但他們從所有其它家人或朋友那里得知，他的父親告訴其他人為他感到自豪， 但這個父親從沒告訴過他 _。 因為他不知道他的 _需要聽到這一切。 So my question is, why dont we ask for the things that we need? I know a gentle _n, _rried for 25 years, whos longing to hear his wife say, Thank you for being the breadwinner, s

6、o I can stay home with the kids, but wont ask. I know a wo _n whos good at this. She, on _ a week, meets with her hu _and and says, Id really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with the kids. And he goes, Oh, this is great, this is great. And praise really does have to

7、be genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a friend of mine, April, who Ive had sin _ kindergarten, she thanks her children for doing their chores. And she said, Why wouldnt I thank it, even though theyre supposed to do it? 因此我的問題是， _我們不索求我們需要的東西呢? 我認(rèn)識一個結(jié)婚25年的男士，他渴望聽到他妻子說，“感謝你為這個家在外賺錢，這樣

8、我才能在家陪伴著孩子。” 但他從來不提出這樣的要求。 我認(rèn)識一個精于此道的女士。 每周一次，她見到丈夫后會說， “我真的希望你為我對這個家和孩子們付出的努力而感謝我。” 他會應(yīng)和到“哦，真是太棒了，真是太棒了?！?贊揚別人一定要真誠， 但她對贊美也有責(zé)任。 一個從我上幼兒園就一直是朋友的叫April的人， 她會感謝她的孩子們做了家務(wù)。 她說：“ _我不表示感謝呢，雖然他們本來就要做那些事情?！?So, the question is, why was I blocking it? Why were other people blocking it? Why can I say, Ill tak

9、e my steak medium rare, I need size six shoes, but I wont say, Would you praise me this way? And its because Im giving you critical data about me. Im _ing you where Im insecure. Im _ing you where I need your help. And Im treating you, my inner circle, like youre the enemy. Because what can you do wi

10、th that data? You could neglect me. You could abuse it. Or you could actually meet my need. 因此我的問題是， _我不說呢? _其它人不說呢? _我能說：“我要一塊中等厚度的牛排， 我需要6號尺寸的鞋子，” 但我卻 _：“你可以贊揚我嗎?” 因為這會使我把我的重要信息與你 _，會讓我告訴了你我內(nèi)心的不安，會讓你認(rèn)為我需要你的幫助。 雖然你是我最貼心的人， 我卻把你當(dāng)作是敵人。 你會用我托付給你的重要信息做些什么呢? 你可以忽視我。 你可以濫用它。 或者你可以滿足我的要求。 And I took my bi

11、ke into the bike store- I love this - same bike, and theyd do something called truing the wheels. The guy said, You know, when you true the wheels, its going to _ke the bike so much better. I get the same bike back, and theyve taken all the little warps out of those same wheels Ive had for two and a

12、 half years, and my bike is like new. So, Im going to challenge all of you. I want you to true your wheels: be honest about the praise that you need to hear. What do you need to hear? Go home to your wife - go ask her, what does she need? Go home to your hu _and - what does he need? Go home and ask

13、those questions, and then help the people around you. 我把我的自行車拿到車行-我喜歡這么做- 同樣的自行車，他們會對車輪做整形。 那里的人說：“當(dāng)你對車輪做整形時， 它會使自行車變成更好?！?我把這輛自行車拿回來， 他們把有小小彎曲的鐵絲從 _上拿走。這輛車我用了2年半，現(xiàn)在還像新的一樣。 所以我要問在場的所有人， 我希望你們把你們的車輪整形一下： 真誠面對對你們想聽到的贊美。 你們想聽到什么呢? 回家問問你們的妻子，她想聽到什么? 回家問問你們的丈夫，他想聽到什么? 回家問問這些問題，并幫助身邊的人實現(xiàn)它們。 And its _. And

14、 why should we care about this? We talk about world pea _. How can we have world pea _ with different cultures, different languages? I think it starts household by household, under the same roof. So, lets _ke it right in our own backyard. And I want to thank all of you in the au _n _ for being great hu _ands, great mothers, friends, daughters, sons. And _ybe somebodys never said that to you, but youve done a really, really good job. And thank you for being here, just showing up and