Unit1Gettingalongwithothers話題語言應用——人際關系

1、Unit 1 Getting along with others話題語言應用人際關系語言積累交際用語1 請求再次重復剛才的話I beg your pardon? / Pardon me?請再說一遍好嗎？（注意一般讀升調） Could you say that again?你能再說一遍嗎？Could you repeat that, please？你能重復一下嗎？Did you say . or .? 你是說 ,還是？2同意與不同意1）同意I agree with you on/ that . 有關我同意你的意見。I am of the same opinion （as.） 我（與）觀點相同。E

2、xactly.確實如此/正是。That ' s a good poin那是個好主意。That ' s how I feel （about.） too那就是我對（ ）的感覺。That ' s righ你說的對。You' ve got a point.你說得有道理。Yes. And ano ther reason is that .是的。而另一個原因是 補充：I can't agree with you more.我完全贊同你的看法。2）不同意I don ' t agree. What about.我不同意。 怎么樣？I ' m not su

3、re that我不確定那是真的。I see things in a little differe nt way. 我的看法有點不同。On the other hand,.另一方面， Perhaps you are mistake n.也許你錯了。Really? I don ' t think th真的嗎？我認為 不I take your point, but.我接受你的觀點，但是 That ' s true, but那是真的/對的，但是 1. agree with sb. / one' s idea/ what意某s人的意見、想法等（即持同一觀點）也表示“食物、天氣、工

4、作等）對適宜；與一致”2. agree to （arrangement.）同意一方提出一項建議、安排、計劃等3. agree to do同意做某事4. agree on/ upon指雙方通過協(xié)商而取得一致意見或達成協(xié)議5. what about + n./ v. -ng （what about 后接名詞、代詞、動詞 -ing 形式）6. on the other hand 在另一方面話題語句（1）有關友誼的格言1. Friends are thieves of time.朋友是時間的竊賊。2. The best mirror is an old friend. 老朋友是一面最好的鏡子。I3.

5、If you can buy a person' s friendshiwdtth having . 買來的友情不是真感情。4. True frie nds have hearts that beat as one.真正的朋友是和你心靈相通的。5. Without confidence there is no friendship. 沒有信任就沒有友誼。6. A true friend is one who overlooks your failures and tolerates your successes.真正的朋友從不追究你的過錯，也不嫉妒你的成功。7. A true frie

6、nd is one soul in two bodies. 真正的朋友是異體同心。8. The best mirror is a friend朋友的眼睛是最好的鏡子。9. Better without gold than without frie nds.寧可沒有金錢，不可沒有朋友。10. Without a friend, the world is a wilderness.沒有朋友，世界成了荒野。11. A friend in n eed is a friend in deed. 患難之交是真交。12. A friend is a seco nd self.朋友是另一個我。13. A fr

7、iend is not so soon gotten as lost.失友易，交友難。14. A friend to everybody is a friend to no body. 廣交友，無深交。15. A friend without faults will never be found.永遠沒有不犯錯的朋友。16. A father is a treasure, a brother is a comfort, but a friend is both.父親是財富，兄弟是安慰，朋友兼而有之。要點提示：con fide nee信任 overlook忽視 tolerate承認 wild n

8、ess野生，野蠻 fault缺點，過失 About friendship 有關友誼enjoy each other ' s com享受y彼此的陪伴convey friendliness 傳達友情offer advice 提供建議have a long conversation with 與 長談share your secrets / interests分享秘密 / 愛好 share emotion and support 分享情感和支持 keep/ break a promise 遵守/不守諾言keep a secret保守秘密What topics do you mostly ta

9、lk about with your best frie nds?你和最好的朋友談什么主題？hobbies and interests 業(yè)余愛好和興趣families and friends 家庭與朋友school and study學校和學業(yè)future plans and dreams未來的計劃和夢想What' s the differenee between bys and girls in their attitudes towards friendship?Girls always seem to have a lot to talk about with their bes

10、t frien ds. They seem to have more friendships than boys. Friendships between boys are based on shared activities and interests. A boy is likely to be cautious about sharing his feelings with his close friends.One or two good friends are better tha n 100 acqua intan ces.一兩個好朋友抵得上100個泛泛之交。要點提示：attitu

11、de towards 對 的態(tài)度acquaintance 熟人sb. be likely to do.某人可能做 be cautious about 對謹慎be based on以為根據(jù)，基于share分享，分擔話題語句（2）About friends有關朋友A friend is some one who you respect and who respects you.shares your happ in ess and sorrow.is trustworthy .朋友是你尊重和尊重你/與你分享幸福、分擔悲傷/值得信賴的人。A friend is some one who is hon

12、 est, lovi ng and affect ion ate.is devoted to you.is selfless.accepts your differe nces.朋友是誠實可愛的而且深情的/對你專一的/無私的/接受你的不同之處。A friend is somebody you want to be around when you feel like being by yourself. 朋友是你想單獨呆著時你希望他 /她在旁邊的人。Almost everyone wants to make friends and develop friendships with others.

13、幾乎所有人都想同別人交朋友、發(fā)展友誼。warm-hearted 好心的 honest 誠實的 outgoing 開朗的 quite 安靜的 friendly/ kind 友好的 happy/ cheerful 快樂的reliable 可信賴的 helpful 能幫忙的 easy-going 隨和的 sensitive 敏感的Adjectives that describe personality 描寫個性的形容詞 generous 慷慨的open-minded 思想開朗的 polite 禮貌的 humorous 富有幽默的 athletic 健壯的，行動敏捷的 reliable/ depend

14、able 可靠的strong-minded/ determined 堅強的 / 堅定的 / 決意的hard-working/ diligent 苦干的 / 勤奮的dishonest 不誠實的narrow-minded 心胸狹窄的stubborn 頑固的bad-tempered 脾氣不好的unreliable 不可靠的impolite 不禮貌的unkind 不夠和善的rude 粗魯?shù)膌azy 懶惰的boring 單調的，乏味的selfish 自私的talkative 健談的，多嘴的shy 害羞的話題語句（ 3）有用的句子 試試你會了嗎？1. 因為我們成績好，喜愛學習，其他同學有時會說我們倆沒趣，

15、但是我們喜歡這樣。Sometimes, other children say we because we are both very andlike to study, but we like it .2. 我感覺非常羞愧，這么簡單的小測驗沒能及格，我真是笨極了。I felt so ; I must be really !3. 我難過得想哭。I was so that I .4. 我感到很內疚，因為我也說了一些殘酷無情的話，但我不喜歡看到我們隊輸球。I feel really because I too, but I our team lose.5. 是因為你對你的不好的分數(shù)感到羞愧，還是因為

16、你嫉妒她？Was it because you your , or because you her?6. 如果他的球技不如我那可不是他的錯，還說我不該以這種方式與他說話。t talk. it wasn' t his if he couldn' t play as well as me, and that I shouldn7. 我渴望在聚會上看見你。I you at the party.8. 我不得不把購物的事延期到明天。I have to till tomorrow.9. 起初，我并不介意自己一個人，但后來看見所有的游客一起拍照，我開始感到難過。At first, I di

17、dn't , but then I saw all of the tourists together,and I began feeling sad.10. 總之，當我們年老時回顧我們生活時，我們會記住什么呢？, when we are old and our lives, what will we remember?參考答案：1. are no fun; academic; that way （fun 不可數(shù)名詞 ）2. ashamed （感到羞愧的）；stupid to fail a simple math quiz! （fail sth./sb.某事失敗 / 辜負某人）3. up

18、set; felt like crying （feel like doing sth. 想要做某事 ）4. guilty; made some cruel remarks; dislike seeing （remark 話語；dislike doing sth.不喜歡做某事）5. were ashamed of （為羞愧）;horrible grade ; envied6. fault; in this manner （ 方式，態(tài)度； in this manner 以這種方式； manners 禮貌）7. look forward to seeing8. put off shopping9.

19、mind being alone; having their pictures taken （mind doing 介意做； have sth. done 使某事被做，see sb. doing看見某人做）10. in conclusion （總之） ; look back on （回顧）寫作運用給朋友的信及建議信本單元要求給朋友寫一封信，可以用來表達情感、傳遞信息，也可以就一個問題給予 對方一定的建議，這就是建議信。給朋友的信可以不那么正式，在信中朋友之間可以互相通報學習和生活中的各種事情， 也可以就某一主題討論， 表明自己的觀點。朋友之間的信件要態(tài)度真摯，語言簡潔，也要考 慮到收信人的感情

20、，不能使用生硬、命令及過分自夸的語言等。建議信是寫信人向收信人就某事提出自己的建議或忠告，如果寫給個人，多是對對方 遇到的問題提出自己的看法或觀點； 也可以寫給某個組織機構， 多是對改進服務提出建議或 忠告。建議信多以第一人稱為主，時態(tài)多用一般現(xiàn)在時或一般將來時。寫建議信時：1. 表明自己的身份并說明寫信的目的，寫清楚建議的前提和事情的原委；2. 圍繞問題，科學合理、委婉地提出建議。注意站在對方的立場考慮問題，語言應得體；所提出的建議應該有說服性，注意措辭，慎用must等命令性詞匯。3. 禮貌地表達希望自己的建議能對對方有所幫助，并表示個人的建議僅供參考。典型語句1. I 'm wri

21、ting this letter toshare with you what I think about the matter. 我寫信來說說我對此事的看法。2. I am writing to express my idea concerning/ for the purpose of我寫信想表達我對 的想法/為了3. I am writing to ask you to consider 我寫信時請你考慮 4. I think it would be good for you to consider the following suggestions.我想你最好考慮一下這些建議。5. Yo

22、u have asked me for my advice onand I will try to make some suggestions.你問我有關 的建議，我就試著給你些建議。6. If I were you, I would. 如果我是你，我會 7. I hope you will consider my suggestions. 我希望你考慮我的建議。8. I am looking forward to receiving your letter. 希望收到你的信。9. I feel that it would be beneficial if. 我感覺如果會是有利的。10.I w

23、ould be ready to discuss this matter to further details. 我會很愿意進一步討論此事。寫作范文Example 1下面是網上交流貼吧上版主Brie的留言和一個學生給Brie的留言，請根據(jù)這些提示給Lisa寫一圭寸回信，對她的困惑給予建議。I ' vexperie need feeli ngs of Ion eli ness, jealousy, an ger, and pressure with my frien ds. I ' ve lost friends in the past, and I un dersta nd t

24、he troubles of maintaining a frien dship. However, I know how to be confident a nd how to distinguish 區(qū)另 U） who my real friends are. I love giving advice to my friends about all of their problems!Dear Brie,I ' maving some trouble with my classmates at the moment. Igettihgmlong well with at wantb

25、oy in my class. We often do homework together and we enjoy helping each other. We have become really good friends. But other students have started gossiping （說閑話）They say that this boy and I have fallen in love （相愛）.This has made me angry. I don to end the frien dship, but I hate others gossip ing.

26、What should I do?Yours,Lisa參考范文：Dear Lisa,There ' s nothing wrong withou and this boy being friends and studying together. Of course a boy and a girl can be good frien ds. Ending your frien dship with this boy would be a stupid thi ng to do. You should lose a good friend and some one to study wi

27、th.Teenagers like to gossip, and they often see something that isn ' real. Perhaps your classmatescan ' t understand your friendship with this boy. That no reason to stop'it.sMy advice is to ignore your classmates. That way you will show them that you are more grown-up than they are.Your

28、s,BrieExample 2Dear Brie,I ' m student from Huzhou Senior High School. I have a problem. I ' mot very good at communicating with people. Although I try to talk to my classmates, I still find it hard to make good friends with them. So I feel quite Ionely sometimes. I do want to change this si

29、tuation, but I don ' t know how. I wouldbe grateful if you could give me some advice.Yours,Xiao Hui參考范文：Dear Xiaohui,I ' m sorryou are having trouble in making friends. However, the situation is easy to change if you take my advice.Here are some tips to help you. First, why not go and talk t

30、o people standing on their own （獨 自地）？ I agree that this is difficult but that person may be Ionely too.Fin ally, you should try to join in a discussi on. You may not feel that this is right, but by doing this you are letting people know how frien dly you are. So there should be no problem. It shoul

31、dcertai nly provide you with some new friends. I hope you find these ideas useful.Yours,Brie 課本話題作文假如你是Joe,給你的朋友Jack用英語寫一封信，說明下列要點:1. 生活中朋友對你的幫助2. 你們成為朋友的原因3. 如何使友誼持續(xù),希望永遠做朋友參考范文:Dear Jack,I often think that I'm really luckhyatvheatyoIu as my best friend. You always lend me ahand when I am in tr

32、ouble . Last month I was ill and stayed in hospital for two weeks. You took notes in class for me, and after class you came to help me with my lessons . You always try to cheer me up when I am in low spirits. When I have done something wrong, you point it out. You are always honest and never break y

33、our word . I am also very glad that I can help you when you need me.Another reason why we are good friends is that weshare the same interests, for example, reading, traveling and playing basketball. We have so much to talk about with each other when we's life, do you agcraeree?fLoertYours,Joebreak one ' s woid背諾言特來信了解中國人的社交習俗。s alwaysare together. Friendship is very important in everyone and help each other and be