知己知彼,才能百戰(zhàn)百勝

1、知己知彼，才能百戰(zhàn)百勝紐約時報暢銷作者Phillip McGraw （菲利普·麥格勞博士）教你認識生活，認識自己，更好的挖掘自己的潛能！-智慧生活策略：活得聰明活得好HYPERION在美國狂銷四百萬冊！LIFE STRATEGIESDOING WHAT WORKS, DOING WH AT MATTERSBy PHILIP C. MCGRAW, PH.D.分類：個人自助 提高 Paperback: 304 pages Publisher: Hyperion; First Edition edition (January 19, 2000) Language: English ISBN

2、-10: 0786884592 你知道生活的十大規(guī)律嗎？更準確的說，是，定律！ 一：你要么就是得到了，要么就是沒得到！對策：你要成為那個得到的人！二：經(jīng)驗是需要你自己積累的。對策：認可并坦然接受人生的挑戰(zhàn)三：人們通常都不做事對策：了解，知道你自己處事的動機四：你自己都不可以的東西，你是不可能改變的對策：試著去做真實的自己，不管是自己的生活，還是對你身邊的人！五：生活只回報那些與行動的人！對策：小心的做決定，大膽的做事！ 這些定律，就跟生活中的其他定律一樣真實，就像萬有引力，不管你是否認可它，也不管你愿意不愿意，它就是這樣，不為任何人所動的存在著！所以，我們只能試圖去了解他們，利用它們，從生活的

3、方方面面去改變自己，不管是工作，還是生活；不僅在精神層面，而且在物質(zhì)層面！作者Phillip McGraw （菲利普·麥格勞博士）不是口頭上給你一些教導，告訴你要成為一個行動的人，而是教你怎樣成為一個有行動的人，而且行動要迅速，有效！十項確實可行的生活法則+有多項練習，幫助你走出困頓，真正認清現(xiàn)實，掌握為人處事的要點，進而擬定屬於自己的生活策略。如果你不想一昧與環(huán)境妥協(xié)；如果你自認潛能尚未發(fā)揮；如果你希望所有努力都能有所回報，你就一定要看看這本不可錯過的教戰(zhàn)手冊！麥格勞博士帶著他的生活法則，教我們成為自己生活的駕馭者，而非生活的過客！【關(guān)于作者】Phillip McGraw （菲利普

4、·麥格勞博士），是數(shù)百萬人熟知歐普拉脫口秀節(jié)目的菲爾博士或直言無諱博士，是暢銷書活得聰明活得好與讓愛再活一次的作者，也是法務研究（Courtroom Sciences, Inc.）訴訟顧問公司的創(chuàng)辦人兼董事長，處理過美國一些最引人注目的訴訟案件。菲爾博士曾在有效生活技能研討會中訓練過數(shù)千人，也是一位廣受歡迎的演說家，目前與妻子及兩位兒子定居德州。Description:Some people spend their lives reacting to what life hands them, while others craft life to fit their goals.Au

5、thor Phillip C. McGraw, who is a psychologist but describes himself as a strategist, is determined to make sure that his readers are the creators of their lives, not created by their lives. By accepting that you are personally accountable for every element of your life, McGraw says, you can erase th

6、e negative epidemic behaviors (found in all of American society: denial, false assumptions, inertia, deceptive masking) in your life and reach your goals.Written in a tough-love, sometimes cantankerous tone, this self-help book is not for those looking to explore their inner child or visualize away

7、negative energy. No, this is pull-yourself-up-by-the- bootstraps advice from someone whos done just that. McGraw opens with a scene describing how he helped Oprah Winfrey survive-and win-the 1998 Mad Cow lawsuit in Texas, when she was having difficulty coping with the reality of what was happening t

8、o her. He helped her face the facts about the lawsuit, after which she was better able to participate in crafting a strategy to win it.McGraw first forces you to take a good hard look at who you are by dissecting your personality. It may be painful to realize that you fall into the Porcupine or Perf

9、ecto or any of the other personality types McGraw delineates, but here its true that theres no gain without pain, because (Life Law No. 4) You Cant Change What You Dont Acknowledge. He then describes in depth all 10 Life Laws-the rules by which the world plays-that he learned the hard way. Laws such

10、 as You Either Get It, or You Dont, Life Is Managed; It Is Not Cured, and You Have to Name It to Claim It make up the bulk of the book and McGraws realist philosophy.If you learn and abide by the Life Laws and go on to create a Life Strategy, McGraw claims you will not only know yourself better and

11、eliminate negative behaviors, you will also know how to reach any goal you set for yourself. About Author:Philip C McGraw is the person Oprah credits with helping her win the Amrillo beef trail. He is a trial scientist with over fifteen years' experience in the psycho-legal system and President

12、of litigation firm, leading a team of experts from many fields. he is akey member of oprah Winfrey's Change Your Life TV' team.His main titles:(1999). Life Strategies: Doing What Works, Doing What Matters. New York: Hyperion Books. (2000). The Relationship Rescue Workbook. New York: Hyperion

13、. (2000). Relationship Rescue. New York: Hyperion. (2001). The Life Strategies Self-Discovery Journal: Finding What Matters Most for You. New York: Hyperion. (2001). Self Matters: Creating Your Life from the Inside Out. New York: Simon & Schuster Source. (2002). Getting Real: Lessons in Life, Ma

14、rriage, and Family. Hay House Audio Books. (2003). The Self Matters Companion : Helping You Create Your Life from the Inside Out. New York: Free Press.(2003). The Ultimate Weight Solution: The 7 Keys to Weight Loss Freedom. New York: Free Press. (2003). The Ultimate Weight Solution Food Guide. Pocket Books.(2004). The Ultimate Weight Solution Cookbook: Recipes for Weight Loss Freedom. New York: Free Press. (2005). Family First : Your Step-by-Step Plan for Creating a Phenomenal Family. New York: