研究生綜合英語His politeness is her powerlessness

1、整理ppt1His Politeness Is Her PowerlessnessLOREM IPSUM DOLOR整理ppt21 INTRODUCTION整理ppt3When they talk.When a GUY talks to a GIRLWhAT THE guy MEANTWhAT THE girl UNDERSTOODWhen a girl talks to a guyWhen THE girl REALLY MEANTWHAT THE guy UNDERSTOOD整理ppt4Background InformationDeborah TannenOccupation: Acad

2、emic and professor of linguisticsPublished: 20 books and over 100 articles This pasage is from the bookYou Just Dont Understand整理ppt52Why are womens way of talking misinterpreted?整理ppt6Differences between male and femaleDifferences between male and femaleWomen: avoid appearing“superiority.”Men: appe

3、aring “superior”.Women: build relationships.Men: give information,solve problems,show expertise.Women: want to reach consensus and consult. Men: want to get straight and choose without consulting.整理ppt7Interview a couple What is the meaning of being very polite The man said:SubservienceThe woman sai

4、d: Sensitivity .整理ppt83Does Indirectnessreflect powerlessness?整理ppt9questionquestionquestionindirectpowerlessness|整理ppt10questionquestionindirectpowerlessness=整理ppt11Point 11.The reason offered for this is power:The woman doesnt feel she has the right to ask directly.3.They dont want to superior,the

5、y just want to let everyone get along well with this king of indirect way.2.The explanation for a womans indirectness could just as well be her seeking connection.Right = GenePoint3Point 2整理ppt12TWO SITUATIONSTWO SITUATIONSSituation 1A wealthy couple and their maidsSituation 2 Parents and their chil

6、dren整理ppt13Situation 1It is cold here.It is dinner time. Having dinner served.Raising the temperature.整理ppt14Situation 2when we are misbehaving. Then parents show up.整理ppt154 indirectness in different cultures整理ppt16FOURCULTURESMADAGASCARTHE USAJAPANGREEK整理ppt17Greek: indirectness was appropriateWou

7、ld you like to go to the party?It means she wanted to go!整理ppt18Japan: indirectness is an art1.Determine 2.Accept3.Several repeated exchange4.Answered in politely整理ppt19America: directness is a valueIt is different from Japanese culture.整理ppt20MADAGASCAR: Indirectness = high statueseWomen：Women:direct style is clumsy and crudeMen: indirect style is regard as better整理ppt215 SummarizeBy 王振鵬王振鵬整理ppt22Part I (1-2)Part II (3-5)Structure & Main ideaPart II (6-9)整理ppt23Status vs.SupportAdvice vs.UnderstandingOrders vs. ProposalsIndependence vs.IntimacyInformation vs. FeelingsConfict