握手禮與親吻禮

1、Handshaking or Kissing EtiquetteContents1.Handshaking3.Kissing 2.Business Etiquette for HandshakingHandshakingHow to shake handsThe order of handshakingSome taboos of handshakingHandshakingHow to shake handsGesturestimeDistance & strength expressionGesturesstand at attention posture, upper body

2、slightly forwardextend your right hand, with four fingers together, open your thumb, palm is perpendicular to the groundTime35s,appropriate if they are acquaintances or friends, time can be last longer. Otherwise, it will be embarrassing. Particularly, a man shouldnt shake womans hands for a long ti

3、me.Distance & StrengthDistance: about 1 meter Strength: career diplomats emphasis that grip strength about two kilograms is the best. To make a little effort would be warm and friendly ExpressionWhen to shake hand, you should be dedicated, enthusiastic, friendly, natural, looking at each other ,

4、smiling and greeting each other at the same timeThe orderShake hands with a womanShake hands with the olderShake hands with a guestShake hands with a seniorShake hands with the older We should wait for the older to extend hands that can be more polite and avoid to be embarrassing.Shake hands with th

5、e guest When guests arrived ,the host should firstly extend hands to welcome. Guests shall leave ,they should extend hands to thank the host and dont bother to come any further.Shake hands with a womanMen usually wait for women to offer their hand before shaking.Shake hands with a seniorTaboos Not w

6、earing gloves or sunglasses to shake hands with people The other hand cant put in your pocket Cant cross a handshake Cant sit and shake hands Swing(擺動) is not too big When you shake hands with people, cant talk to a third party TRUE OR FALSE17 1819Business Etiquette for HandshakingRulesWhenWhen NotU

7、niversal Rules of Handshaking in Business1. Begin with an oral introduction of yourself2. Pump your hand only 23times3. Shake from your elbow4. Dont use a forceful grip5. Avoid offering a “fish hand”6. Forget “l(fā)ady hand”7. One hand is better than two8. Shaking a sweaty hand9.Ending a handshaking aft

8、er 34s or23pump10.Ingredients of a good handshaking Hold the persons hand firmly, Shake web-to-web, three times maximum, Maintain constant eye contact, Radiate positive aura.When to Shake Hands in BusinessI.Meet for first timeII. A former business or casual acquaintanceIII. Concluding a business tra

9、nsaction or meetingIV. Congratulation V. Leaving a business eventWhen Not to Shake HandsWith someone of higher statusTo break an awkward moment of silence when being introduced to someone newIf you have nothing to say the personSomeone whose hands are inconvenient.KissingHistoryTipsMigratingHistory

10、A kiss originates from the ancient etiquette. People often use the ceremony to express the love, friendship, respect. According to records, in BC, Rome and India have been popular with public kissing It is considered that the ancient Romans loved chewing spices(嚼香料), and kissing is enough to pass th

11、e mouth sweet. Also someone says, the ancients use kisss lip shape to represent the heart in love.Tips of KissingThis ceremony often combined with a certain degree of hug.People who have different identities also kiss different parts.Modern western kissing is widely popular in many countries of Euro

12、pe and the United States. Between lovers or couples ,kissing lip is appropriate. Between the elder and the younger generation, should be to kiss face or forehead Cheek kissing is common etiquette between the peers. In public, intimate women can kiss face, between a man and a woman can stick a face,

13、A man in order to express respect to woman ,he can kiss her finger or hand. French kissing often have twice, namely each cheek to kiss. The Belgians kissing are more enthusiastic, often several times.VideoKissing : A Social Greeting Migrating Into the Business Arena The protocol around shaking hands

14、 is clear; the issue of business kissing is much harder to define. There are four Cs that you should consider prior to puckering(親吻). Four CsCountry Research shows that in most countries, the firm business handshake is still the most appropriate greeting for meetings and business introduction.Culture The corporate culture of the field in which you work will influence your decision on whether a hand shake or kiss is more appropriate.Connect