高中英語Unit 23 Conflict Lesson 3 Conflict Resolution課件1 北師大 選修8

1、2021/8/11 星期三1Lesson 32021/8/11 星期三2Exercise 1Read the questionnaire, then match the verbs below with those underlined in the text.Criticise, discuss, get revenge, irritate,make, return, say Ok,stop liking,suggest,take, tolerate, make a lot of noise1.Youre angry with your neightbours because they wa

2、ke you up early on Sunday mornings. Do you:a)Talk it over with them and put forward a solution?b) Get ypur own back by making a lot of noise late at night?c)Put cotton wool in your ears when you go to bed?2021/8/11 星期三32.Your sistere is always going off with your things and never giving them back .

3、She comes to your room and asks to borrow your best T-shirt for a party. Do you:a)Refuse to give it to her and explain why?b)Say no and tell her to get out and never ask for anything again?c) Give in and lend it ,but tell her to give it back?3.A shop assistant is rude to you. Do you:a)Calmly explain

4、 that you are a customer and so you expect good manners?b) Kick up a fuss and ask to see the manager?c) put up with it but never go back there again?2021/8/11 星期三44.A friend is always getting at you about the clothes you wear. Do you:a)Tell him/her in private that it is really getting to you?b)Make

5、fun of his/her colthes in front of everyone?c)Say nothing but go off him/her?2021/8/11 星期三5Answers:1.talkover(discuss) , put forward(suggest), get your own back(get revenge)2.going off with (take), give in (say OK), giveback (return)3.kick up a fuss (make a lot of noise), put up with (tolerated)4.ge

6、tting at (criticise),getting to (irritate), going off (stop liking)2021/8/11 星期三6Exercise 2Now answer the questionnaire saying you would react in the situations.Then check your answers on page 102 to see how assertive your are.2021/8/11 星期三7Answers:Answers “a” show you are assertive. You are self-co

7、nfident and try to resolve conflict situations in a sensible and constructive way.Answers “b” show that you are very assertive but you probably react too aggressviely to conflict situations.Answers “c” show you are not assertive. You perhaps lack self-confidence; look at the “a” answers for some ide

8、as on how react ot conflict situations.2021/8/11 星期三8Listening Strategies:Identifying moods1.Listen for expressions that are positive or negative.2.Pay attention to intoation to help ypu identify peoples moods.3.Be careful with sarcasm. Sometimes people say something positive but with a falling into

9、nation so that it means the opposite.2021/8/11 星期三9Exercise 3Listen to the argument between a brother and sister. Use the Strategies to decide if these statements are true(T) or false(F).1.Lucy is not happy about her history essay.2.Pete is interested in hearing about her result.3.Lucy is upset by h

10、is reaction.4.The first time she asks her brother to change channels she is patient.5.Pete gets angry because Lucy has borrowed his calculator.6.Lucy is angry because Pete refused to change channels.7.Pete is not worried about Lucy not letting him use her computer.8.He get nervous when she makes her

11、 last threat.2021/8/11 星期三101.Lucy is not happy about her history essay.2.Pete is interested in hearing about her result.3.Lucy is upset by his reaction.4.The first time she asks her brother to change channels she is patient.5.Pete gets angry because Lucy has borrowed his calculator.6.Lucy is angry

12、because Pete refused to change channels.7.Pete is not worried about Lucy not letting him use her computer.8.He get nervous when she makes her last threat.Answers:FFTTFTTT2021/8/11 星期三11Exercise 4Listen again. Classify the expressions in the Function File.a)Criticising b)contradicting c)refusing d)su

13、ggesting e)threatening1. Just stop getting at me, will you?2. yourre always telling people about your exciting maths problems.3. no, Im not.4. I wish you wouldnt interrupt me all the time.5. Why dont you turn over and see if its started?6.no, why should I turn over?2021/8/11 星期三127. Your never let o

14、ther people watch anything.8. Why do you always have to twist the truth?9. I did give it back to you.10. I do tidy it.11. I dont see why I should.12. If you dont , Ill never let you use my computer again.13. And if you do that, Ill stop giving you a lift to school in the mornings.ANSWERS:1.a) 2.a) 3

15、.b) 4.a) 5.d) 6.c) 7.a) 8.a) 9. b) 10. b) 11. c) 12.e) 13.e)2021/8/11 星期三13Exercise 5Listen to ten sentences. Identify the mood. angry, annoyed, confident, happy, impatient, patient, sarcastic, triumphant, upset2021/8/11 星期三14Tapescript1.Lucy: Im really pleased about it.2.Pete: thats great,youre a r

16、eal gevius, arent you?3.Lucy: oh, just stop getting at me,will you?4.Pete: I wouldnt interrupt me all the time.5.Lucy: why dont you turn over and see if its started?6.Lucy: Youre just selfish,arent you? You never let other people watch anything.7.Lucy: youre always going off with my things and not g

17、iving them back. like my calculateor.8.Pete: oh, Im really worried.9.Pete: and if you do that, Ill stop giving you a lift to school in the mornings.10. Lucy: ha, Ive got it now.2021/8/11 星期三15Answers:1.happy 2.sarcastic 3.upset 4.annoyed 5.patient 6.impatient 7.angry 8.sarcastic 2021/8/11 星期三16Exerc

18、ise 6work in Pairs. Act out situations 2 and 4 from the questionnaire in Exercise 1. Use the expressions from the Function File.2021/8/11 星期三17Exercise 7Listen to a radio programme about how to resolve conflicts. Complete the sentences with the correct ending:a,b or c.1.The worst thing to do when co

19、meone is aggressive is to a)say nothing at all b)be aggressive back c)go away from the situation2.Withdrawal is not a very useful strategy because a)it bottles up both peoples feelings. b)the person leaving feels angry. c)the situation can become violent.2021/8/11 星期三183.Mediation is a good strategy when a)the conflict is very serious. b)you have a good mediator. c)someone from outside decides.4.When negotiating you should a)be prepared to speak for a long time b)repeat your reasons again and again c)find out what the other person wants.2021/8/11