初入象牙塔問(wèn)題多 大一生活怎么過(guò)

Tearswellingupinhereyes,HuangDuoke,18,afreshmanatHubeiUniversityofEconomics,standsaloneatthebusstationandwavesherparentsgooddbye.黃多克在公交車(chē)站與父母揮手作別，淚水卻在她的眼眶中打轉(zhuǎn)。這位18歲的姑娘是湖北經(jīng)濟(jì)學(xué)院的一名大一新生。She’singoodcompany.Asover7millionfreshmenheadtocampusthisfallforcollege,they’realsotakingtheirfirststeptolivingontheirown.她像其他700多萬(wàn)大一新生一樣，都將在今秋邁出獨(dú)自生活的第一步。We’velookedatthreeoftheirmajorconcerns,namelyfinances,dormitorylifeandplanning,toseehowfreshmencanstandontheirowntwofeetasquicklyaspossible.下面就讓我們從金錢(qián)支配、寢室生活以及未來(lái)規(guī)劃三個(gè)方面一一了解大學(xué)新人如何才能盡快適應(yīng)象牙塔中的生活？Toomuchfreedom?太自由？Collegeisaboutfreedom,buttoomuchfreedomsometimesbringstrouble.大學(xué)意味著自由，但是過(guò)度自由有時(shí)卻帶來(lái)更多煩惱。“Sincetheirparentsusedtotakecareofthem,collegestudentshardlyknowhowtothinkindependently,nordotheyknowhowtomanagetheirownlives,”saysDengZiqing,columnistatChangjiangTimes.《長(zhǎng)江商報(bào)》專(zhuān)欄作家鄧子慶說(shuō)，“很多大學(xué)生都習(xí)慣了父母的照料，不知道如何獨(dú)立思考，更不知道怎樣打理好自己的生活?！盳hangZhan,19,asophomorestudyingeconomicsatHebeiUnitedUniversity,hadfinancialproblemsinhisfreshmanyear.Zhangspentallofhismonthlyallowancewithinthefirstweek,forcinghimtoborrowfromhisroommates.“Forthatwholemonth,Iateonlyvegetablesanddarednotsocialize.IwishIhadspentmorewisely,”hesaid.今年19歲的河北聯(lián)合大學(xué)大二學(xué)生張嶄就曾在大一的時(shí)候遇到過(guò)“經(jīng)濟(jì)危機(jī)”：他在第一個(gè)星期就把自己一個(gè)月的生活費(fèi)都花光了，于是只好向室友借錢(qián)度日。張展說(shuō)，“我吃了一整個(gè)月的蔬菜，也不敢出去社交。我真希望自己當(dāng)時(shí)花錢(qián)能更理智一些?！盋ompromiseiskey妥協(xié)是關(guān)鍵Zhangisluckytohaveconsiderateroommates.Manymorefreshmenhavetroubleadjustingtodormitorylife.能擁有如此貼心的室友，張嶄還是很幸運(yùn)的。對(duì)更多新人而言，適應(yīng)寢室生活也是一大煩惱。AccordingtodatareleasedbyMyCOSlastyear,45percentoffreshmenareworriedaboutinterpersonalrelationships,especiallyrelationshipswithroommates.麥可思公司去年發(fā)布的數(shù)據(jù)顯示，45%的大學(xué)新生都對(duì)人際關(guān)系感到擔(dān)憂(yōu)，對(duì)處理室友關(guān)系的擔(dān)憂(yōu)尤甚。Thetrendiscontinuingthisyear.ChenQiufang,studentaccommodationofficerataShenyang-baseduniversity,foundincreasingnumbersofstudentscomingtohertohelpsolvedormitoryconflicts.今年，這一趨勢(shì)仍在繼續(xù)。沈陽(yáng)一所大學(xué)的宿舍管理員陳秋芳就發(fā)現(xiàn)，找她解決宿舍矛盾的同學(xué)越來(lái)越多?！癟oday’sstudentsdon’tknowhowtocompromise.Instead,theyarguetheirwaythroughdisagreements,”shesaid.她說(shuō)，“現(xiàn)在的大學(xué)生不知道妥協(xié)，相反，他們卻總是強(qiáng)調(diào)分歧，據(jù)理力爭(zhēng)。”P(pán)roperplanning合理規(guī)劃Apartfrominterpersonalconflicts,lackofplanningisalsoacommonconcernamongcollegestudents.除了人際關(guān)系，缺乏規(guī)劃也是大學(xué)生常見(jiàn)的問(wèn)題之一。HuangJinlei,19,aninformationsciencesophomoreatBeijingScienceTechnologyManagementCollege,foundmanyofhisfellowunderclassmenareunclearabouttheirfuture.19歲的黃進(jìn)磊是北京科技經(jīng)營(yíng)管理學(xué)院信息工程專(zhuān)業(yè)大二的一名學(xué)生，他發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的學(xué)弟學(xué)妹們對(duì)未來(lái)缺乏規(guī)劃?！癐wanttoworkforBaidu.Therefore,I’veparticipatedinprogrammingcontestsandotheractivitiesthatbuildupmyresume.Iseldomseesuchmotivationandplanninginthenewcomers,”hesaid.他說(shuō)，“我想日后去百度工作，于是我就參加了一些編程競(jìng)賽，以及其他可以為我簡(jiǎn)歷增色的活動(dòng)。但是，在新人的身上，我很少能看見(jiàn)這樣明確的動(dòng)機(jī)和計(jì)劃。”WangXuming,formerspokesmanfortheMinistryofEducation,feelsthesameway.Buthefurtherstressestheimportanceofthinkingandlivingindependently.Astheycallthemselvescollegestudents,theyshouldfigureoutwhatitmeanstobeontheirownandemb