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Unit3

DailyVerbalCommunication(II)1ObjectivesLearnthesocialfunctionsofcomplimentsandcomplimentsandcomplimentresponsesLearnthedifferencesbetweenChineseandEnglishcomplimentsLearnexpressionsofgratitudeandapologyinEnglishandChinese2

CONTENTSI.Warm-upcasesII.DetailedStudy:ComplimentsandcomplimentresponsesSocialfunctionsofcomplimentsDifferencesbetweenChineseandEnglishcomplimentsCommonresponseformulasofEnglishandChinesecomplimentsExpressionsofgratitudeandapologyinEnglishandChineseIII.CaseStudyIV.SummaryV.Assignments3Case1.AnInvitationtoDinnerI.Warm-upcasesQuestion:Ifyouwerethedirectorandchosentomediatethissituation,whatwouldyoudotoensurenottooffendeitherparty?HowwouldyouexplainBart’sbehaviortoManual?HowwouldyouexplainManual’stoBart?4Case2.TheCancellationoftheDinnerPartyComment:1.InNewZealand,afriendcanopenlyprovideconstructivecriticism.IfStandidnotmakesuchsuggestionstoafriendinhiscountry,thefriendwouldbeangrythatStandidnothelphimwhenhehadthechance.2.InPhilippines,apersoncannotbeafriendandacriticatthesametime,oratleastnotinpublic.Stanshouldfindsomeotherway(acceptabletotheFilipinos)tovoicehiscomments.5Case3Whyshouldtheydolikethis?Comment:1.TheBritishpeoplemaintaintheiretiquetteandsocialmannersevenwhentheyareveryexcited.2.TheFilipinocoupledidnotintroducetheirFilipinofriendtohim3.TheFilipinosweretalkingintheirownnativelanguage.NodoubttheBritishfeltleftout,whichisunacceptableandrarelyoccursonsocialoccasionsinBritain.4.Whenimmigrantsmeetinaforeigncountry,theytendtotakenonoticeoftheirsurroundings/peoplearound,whichisconsideredtoberudeandrequiresattention.6II.ComplimentsComplimentandcomplimentresponsesB.SocialfunctionsofcomplimentsC.DifferencesbetweenChinesecomplimentsandEnglishcompliments(semanticformulaandsyntacticformula)D.CommonresponseformulasinEnglishandChineseE.Differentculturalassumptionsaboutcompliment7Complimentsandcomplimentsresponses

Fishingforcompliments“Growingflowersismyhobby,butI’mnotmuchgoodatit”------“Buttheseflowersarebeautiful”“IwishIcoulddoaswell!”8Fishingforcompliments“Ireallyknowlittleaboutthesubject.”-----“Well,Icertainlydon’tknowanybodywhoknowsmorethanyoudo!”9Socialfunctionsofcompliments1.Tocreateorreinforcesolidarity2.Togreetpeople3.Toexpressthanksorcongratulations4.Toencourageagingpeople5.Tosoftencriticism6.Tostartaconversation7.Toovercomeembarrassment10DifferencesbetweenChineseandEnglishComplimentsW:ItiscommonforamantoinformallygiveawomancomplimentsonherlooksorclothingC:Itistakenasakindofflirtationifamancomplimentsawoman11■Chinesepeoplecomplimenteachothermuchlessfrequentlythanwesternersdo.■Chinesepeopletrytodrawalinebetweencomplimentandflattery

■Chinesepeopleinterpretother’spositivecomplimentsasarequestforpossessingsomething.12TheSemanticFormulaEnglishcompliments:Adjectives

VerbsThiswasagreatmeal.Youlooksonicetoday.Youdidagoodjob.Ilikeyourhaircut.Iloveyourglasses.Ireallyenjoyedyourclass13ChinesecomplimentsAdjectivesadverbs

verbsYourskirtisverypretty.Thisroomisreallygood.You’rereallyanexperiencedteacher.Youdidthejobverywell.Youtreatpeoplesincerely.Iespeciallylikethecolorofyourblouse.Youdeservebeingpraised.14TheSyntacticFormulaNPADJ

PRO

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ADV

OEnglish:NP

is/looksreally

ADJ(53%)Yourblouselooksbeautiful.Youaresoefficient.

Ireallylike/love

NPIreallylikeyourhardwoodfloors.That’sreallyabeautifulcar.15Chinese■YouVADVYoudidthejobwell.■NPisADJYourcoatisreallybeautiful.■PROisADJNPThat’sawonderfulwallcalendar.■PROVOYoudeservebeinghonored.■IlikeNPIlikethispicture.16ResponseFormulasofEandCcomplimentsAmericanEnglish

A:Thisisreallyanicesweater.B:I’mgladyoulikeit.

A:Youdidagoodjob.B:Thankyou/Thanks.Chinese:

A:Yoursweaterisverygood.B:Iboughtitonlyfortenyuan.

A:Youdidthejobverywell.B:That’stheresultofjointefforts./There’sstillmuchroomforimprovement.17■

Generallyspeaking,nativeEnglishspeakerstendtoacceptthecomplimentswhiletheChinesetendtoeffacethemselvesinwordsalthoughtheydofeelcomfortableaboutthecompliments.Sometimeshumorousresponsescouldbeusedwhenwithintimatefriends.18CulturalAssumption“Good”referstoone’shealth,appearanceandmannerinbothEandCcultures“Losingweight”meansgoodinEculturebutnotgoodinCculture“puttingonweight”canbeacomplimenttoChinesebutoffensivetoAmericans19III.ExpressionsofgratitudeandaplologyTheexpressionsarefarmorefrequentlyusedinEnglishthaninChinese.Chineseoftenneglectminorfavorsespeciallyamongfriendsandmembersoffamily.Theythinktheexpressionsofgratitudeandapologyunnecessaryandeventiresome.20SomespecialChineseexpressionsItdoesn’tmat