讓你的婚姻永遠(yuǎn)保鮮

讓你的婚姻永遠(yuǎn)保鮮"Ofallthemisconceptions（錯(cuò)誤的想法）aboutlove,themostpowerfulandpervasive（普遍深入的）isthebeliefthatfallinginloveisloveoratleastoneofthemanifestations（顯現(xiàn)，表示）oflove."--M.SCOTTPECKTheanswerstothesequestionsareplentiful,butthemainreasonissimple.It"seasyto"fall"inlove,butveryfewpeopleknowhowtostayinlove.Eventhoughstayinginloveisour"smartest"choiceallthewayaround!Recentstudiesonmarriageproveit"soneofthemajoringredients（成分，因素）inlife-longsuccessformenandwomen.Solet"swakeup,makeup,andturnthistrendaround!Oneofthemoststartlingpiecesofevidencethatshowspeoplearenotintouchwithwhat"sreallygoingonin

theirpartnershipsisthefactthatthemajorityofpeoplewhofilefordivorcesaytheydidn"tthinktherewasarelationship-threateningproblemjustsixmonthspriortobreakingup.Anothershockeristhatmostcoupleswaitsixyearsormoretoseekprofessionalhelpwhentheirrelationshipisindanger.Bythetimetheydowakeupandsmellthecoffee,it"softentoolate.Trulythereisnoreasontoresign（辭職，放棄）yourselftoabadrelationship?Whetheryou"redatingormarried.Ratherthanchangingpartnersandendingupthis

samepredicamen（窘?jīng)r，困境）again,youcanlearntohaveafabulous（難以置信的，極好的）relationshipwiththepartneryoualreadyhave!Istronglyencourageyoutomaketherelationshipyouhavework,becausethereisahigherrateofdivorceandadulteryinsecondmarriages.Gettingridofyourpartnerdoesnotgetridoftheproblem,becausehalfofthe"problem"isyours.Youcanwalkoutonyourmarriage,butyoucan"trunawayfromyourself,nomatterhowhardyoutry!Ratherthanblamingeachother,couplescanlearnhowtoworkOneofthebiggestcausesofunresolvedangerbetweenpeopleisalackofunderstanding.點(diǎn)擊收聽單詞發(fā)音1pervasiveadj.普遍的；遍布的，(到處)彌漫的；滲透性的參考例句：Theadversehealtheffectsofcarexhaustarepervasiveanddifficulttomeasure.汽車尾氣對(duì)人類健康所構(gòu)成的有害影響是普遍的，并且難以估算。2manifestationsn.表示，顯示（manifestation的復(fù)數(shù)形式）參考例句：Theseweremanifestationsofthedarkersideofhischaracter.這些是他性格陰暗面的表現(xiàn)。來自《簡(jiǎn)明英漢》Tobewordly-wiseandplaysafeisoneofthemanifestationsofliberalism.明哲保身是自由主義的表現(xiàn)之一。來自《現(xiàn)代漢英綜合大》3plentiful

adj.富裕的，豐富的

參考例句：

Theirfamilyhasaplentifulharvestthisyear.他們家今年又豐收了。Rainfallisplentifulinthearea.這個(gè)地區(qū)雨量充足。4lengthens

（時(shí)間或空間）延長(zhǎng)，伸長(zhǎng)(lengthen的第三人稱單數(shù))

參考例句：

Insummer,thedaylighthourlengthens.夏天，白天的時(shí)間長(zhǎng)。Summerlengthens(out)intoautumn.夏去秋來。5partnerships

n.伙伴關(guān)系(partnership的名詞復(fù)數(shù))；合伙人身份；合作關(guān)系

參考例句：

Partnershipssufferanothermajordisadvantage:decision-makingisshared.合伙企業(yè)的另一主要缺點(diǎn)是決定要由大家來作。來自英漢非文學(xué)-政府文件

Itinvolvedsellingofflimitedpartnerships.它涉及到售出有限的合伙權(quán)。來自辭典例句6fabulous

adj.極好的；極為巨大的；寓言中的，傳說中的

參考例句：

Wehadafabuloustimeattheparty.我們?cè)谕頃?huì)上玩得很痛快。Thisisafabuloussumofmoney.這是一筆巨款。7validate

vt.（法律）使有效，使生效

參考例句：

Youneedanofficialsignaturetovalidatetheorder.你要有正式的簽字，這張匯票才能生效。Inordertovalidatetheagreement,bothpartiessignit.為使協(xié)議有效，雙方在上面簽了字。8frustration

n.挫折，失敗，失效，落空

參考例句：

Hehadtofightbacktearsoffrustration.他不得不強(qiáng)忍住失意的淚水。Hebeathishandsonthesteeringwheelinfrustration.他沮喪地用手打了幾下方向盤。9escalates

v.（使）逐步升級(jí)(escalate的第三人稱單數(shù))；（使）逐步擴(kuò)大；（使）更高；（使）更大參考例句：

Asthechallengeescalates,theneedforteamworkelevates.面臨的挑戰(zhàn)越大，越需要團(tuán)隊(duì)協(xié)同合作。來自互聯(lián)網(wǎng)

Icannotunderstandwhyaminordisagreementescalatesintoafist-fight.我真不明白為什么一點(diǎn)意見不合就變成了拳頭相見。來自互聯(lián)網(wǎng)

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