a概念英語外教學(xué)習(xí)Conversation Starter2

ANotionEngIiShTopic:ConVerSationStarter (2014)

Cold-ReadConversationStarterstoUSeonAnyone

“Youlooklikea[teacher/fashiondesigner/entrepreneur/somenobleProfeSSion]、”Thepersonwillfeelappreciatedandalwaysaskwhyyouguessedthatparticularprofession、

“Youseemlikea[kind/hardworking/problemsolving/positivepersonalitytrait]person、Ilikethat、”UsethiSopenerwhenthepersondisplaysanadmirabletrait、TheplimentmakesthepersonfeelgreatandcanleadtheconverSationtomanydirections、

“Youlooklikea[outgoing/ta1kative/friendly/people-magnetictrait]person、”

“I'mcurious、Wouldyourfriendssayyou'rean[outgoing/understanding/open/positivepersonalitytrait]person?”

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“I'mpracticinganewskillcalled‘cold-reading'onpeopleIdon'tyetknow、Letmequick1ytryitonyou、It'l1befun、"Confidentlyassertyouwillcold-read;don'taskforpermission、

COnverSationStartersforGuySwithGirls

“Ineedagirl'sopinionaboutsomethingIwasjustdiscussingwithafriendwhobrokeUPwithhisgirlfriend、 Hemadeoutwithanother

womanstraightafterhisrelationshipbreakup、Isheajerk?”Getafema1eopinion、

25、“Iplaythefield,anditlookslikeIjusthitahomerunwithyou、”“You're1ikeadictionary,youaddmeaningtomylife!”“Doyouhaveasunburn,orareyoualwaysthishot?”Teasecheesypick-uplines、 Makesureyousaythepick-uplineinajokingm

anner、

“Wholiesmore:menorwomen?”“Isitwrongtobreakupwithatextmessage?”Askacontroversialquestiontoagroupofwo

menthenWatChtheireyesopenwideandheartheChatterbreakout、

“Iwantawoman'sPerSPeCtiVeonthis、IWaSjusttai

kingtoafriendwhobrokeup、Hisgirlfriendkeepscalling、Whydoesshedoit?”Askaquestionaboutsomeone'srelationship、Womenlovetosharetheiropiniononrelationships、

“YouCaughtmyattentionbeCauseyou'reCutesoIhadtoetalktoyou、”

“Niceboots、Doyouhaveyourhorseparked outside?”“Nice

shoes、Theylookfortable、”“Nicetop、Mygrandmahasone、”Sayitplayfully、Lightlyteasethewomanaboutsomethingshe'llgiggleover、Bepreparedforbanterotherwiseyoucouldbeeatenalivebyawitty

woman、

“CanIhelpyou?”Askthisinashop、Playfullypretendtobeanemployee、

“Hmm,areyoufriendly?”Sayitwithasuspiciousandplayfullook、MostwomenwillnotSayno、“Good,I’lltalktoyou、"I

fshedoessayno,youCanoverlookit，useitasbantermaterial,ortakeitasawarningsigntoleavethegrumpalone、Thisopenerismoresuitedtoentertainmentvenues、

ConversationStartersforGirlswithGuys

“Ineedaguy’sopiniononsomethingthatjusthappenedwithafriend、Wouldyoureadyourgirlfriend’semailifyouthoughtshewascheatingonyou?”Getamaleopinion、

“WherecanIfindagoodcoffeeshoparoundhere?”“Ineedhelprubbingsunscreenonmyback、I’munfortunatelynotdouble-join

ted、Canyouhelpputiton?”“What’sagreatcountrytovisit?”Askforhishelp、Guyslovetogiveadvice(asifyoudidn’tknowthat、)

“I’lldoatradewithyou、YougivemethatburgerandI’llgiveyouthisawfulcoffee、”Makeaplayfultrade、Youcanmakeupanythingbasedonsomethingeachofyouhaveatthetime、

“Canyoutakeaphotoformetosendafriend?”Gethimtojoininthephoto、

6、“Canyoureservemyseatforme?”“CanyoulookafterthesebooksuntilIgetback?”AskhimtowatchSomethingforyou一justdon’tleaveyourbagbehindforhim、Youareopeningaconvers

ationforWhenyoureturn,notPuttingtheCountryatthreatortestingifheWouldbeanhonesthusband、

37、“NiCe[shoes/shirt/bag/materialitem]、I'vebeenthinkingofgettingoneforafriend、WherecanIgetone?”QueStionsomethingyouplimented、

38、“Oh!Sorryforbumpingintoyou、”“Ohno!I'msorryforspillingmydrinkonyou、”Theaccidentopenerisn'tthebestbecauseitssubtlymaymeanyouhavetospilladrinkontheguythreet

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on、I’veheardofsomewomenusingthisconversationstarterbyburningmenwithcigarettes!Don’tbetalkingtomeb****!CreateanacCidentifyouareabsolutelylostforWords、Justbecarefulyoudonodamage、

“Youshouldetalktome、”Smileoveryourshoulderasyouwal

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torespond、Mysteryissexy、

Shooawayyourfriendsforamomenttobealone、ManyguystalktowomeninbarsandClubswhenthewoman’sfriendsgetadrinkorgototoilet-it'stheguy'schancetoattackthelonelygazelle、

ConversationStartersforFamiliesorFriends

41、“Where's[UncleTerry/NewYorkcrew/missingfamilyorfriend]today?”

“AreyougoingtoJim'swedding?”“Whatcelebrationsareingupinyourfamily?”Weddings,births，andbirthdaysareallmemorableeventsfamily membersandfriendscantalkabout、Divorces

arememorable，butdepressing、

“Howhaveyoubeenthispastyear?”“Greattoseeyou、What'schangedinyourlifesincethelasttimewemet?”(Recallthelasttimeyoumettogetbonuspoints)、Catchupontheperson'slife一myfavouriteopenertousewithfamilyandfriends、

4、Bringupamemorablemomentoranecdoteyourfamilyorfriendsremember,suchasafunnystory,anembarrassingmishap,oratripeveryoneenjoyed、Thisstarterinitiatesmultipleconversationsaboutsimilarmoments、

“Whatdoyouhaveplannedfortheweekend?”“What'shappeningforyouFriday?”“What'sonyourcalendarthisweek?”

46、“What'SOnethingyou'rereallythankfu1for?”

“What'sSomethingIdon'tknowaboutyouthat yout

hinkIshouldknow?Like...areyouaStaIker?”“What'sonethingthat'snewinyourlife?”“What'srecentlyChangedinyourlife?”

ConversationStartersforCoupleS

MostoftheseareUSefUlwhenthecoup1earealreadyinrapportandChatting：

“Whatdoyoumostadmireaboutour[fami1y/home/relatiOnShip/somethingwithpositivequalities]?”

“What'sonethingyou'vewantedtotel1me,buthaven't?”

“IlikehowyousmilewhenIehomefromwork、”plimentsreplenishtheenergyi