高效能人士的七個(gè)習(xí)慣(英文版)thesevenh課件

SlidepresentationbyKenduPisanie WrittenbyStephenR.CoveySlidepresentationbyKenduP1You’reGoingtobe“OffTrack”90%oftheTime.SoWhat?You’reGoingtobe“OffTrack”2Goodfamilies–evengreatfamilies–areofftrack90%ofthetime.Thekeyisthattheyhaveasenseofdestination.Theyknowwhatthe“track”lookslike.Andtheykeepcomingbacktoittimeandtimeagain.Goodfamilies–evengreatfam3Thekeyisinhavingadestination,aflightplan,andacompass.Investthenextfewminutesinthispresentation,andyouwillbegiventhemostvaluabletoolsevertofindyourdestinationforyourfamily.Thekeyisinhavingadestina4Havetheendinmind:A

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PROACTIVEHABIT1BEPROACTIVE6高效能人士的七個(gè)習(xí)慣(英文版)thesevenh課件7Wedonothavetolove.Wechoosetolove.Wedonothavetolove.Wecho8Todocarefullyandconstantlyandkindlymanylittlethingsisnotalittlething.Todocarefullyandconstantly9Thewayyoutreatanyrelationshipinthefamilywilleventuallyaffecteveryrelationshipinthefamily.Thewayyoutreatanyrelation10HABIT2BEGINWITHTHEENDINMINDHABIT2BEGINWITHTHEENDINM11Createaclear,compellingvisionofwhatyouandyourfamilyareallabout.Createaclear,compellingvis12Afamilymissionstatementisacombined,unifiedexpressionfromallfamilymembersofwhatyourfamilyisallaboutandtheprinciplesyouchoosetogovernyourfamilylife.Afamilymissionstatementis13Forthemostpart,familiesdon’thavethekindofmissionstatementsocriticaltoorganizationalsuccess.Yetthefamilyisthemostimportant,fundamentalorganizationintheworld.Forthemostpart,familiesdo14Throughafamilymissionstatementyoucanletyourchildrenknowthatyouaretotallycommittedtothem,andthatyouhavebeenfromtheverymomentoftheirbirthoradoption.Throughafamilymissionstate15HABIT3PUT

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FIRSTHABIT3PUTFIRSTTHINGSFIRST16MakingFamilyaPriorityinaTurbulentWorldMakingFamilyaPriorityina17 “Okay,now,Iknowwhatyou’regoingtohearfrompeopleis“Wedon’thavethetime.Butifyoudon’thavethetimeforonenightoratleastonehourduringtheweekwhereeverybodycancometogetherasafamily,thenthefamilyisnotthepriority.” ~OprahWinfrey~ “Okay,now,Iknowwhatyou’18Thingswhichmatterthemostmustneverbeatthemercyofthingswhichmatterleast.Thingswhichmatterthemostm19Theplacetostartisnotwiththeassumptionthatworkisnon-negotiable;it’swiththeassumptionthatfamilyisnon-negotiable.Thatoneshiftofmind-setopensthedoortoallkindsofcreativepossibilities.Theplacetostartisnotwith20Theroleofparentsisauniqueone,asacredstewardshipinlife.Istherereallyanythingthatwouldoutweightheimportanceoffulfillingthatstewardshipwell?Theroleofparentsisauniqu21HABIT4THINK“WIN~WIN”HABIT4THINK“WIN~WIN”22Movingfrom“Me”to“We”Movingfrom“Me”to“We23Thequestionisthis:“Wouldyoubewillingtosearchforasolutionthatisbetterthanwhateitherofusisnowproposing?”Thequestionisthis:“Wouldy24Thecommitmentisthis:“Letmelistentoyoufirst”or“Helpmeunderstand.”Thecommitmentisthis:“Letm25Theprincipleisthis:Whatisimportanttoanotherpersonmustbeasimportanttoyouastheotherpersonistoyou.Theprincipleisthis:Whatis26Parentingisnotaboutbeingpopularandgivingintoeverychild’swhimanddesire.It’saboutmakingdecisionsthattrulyarewin-win–howevertheymayappeartothechildatthetime.Parentingisnotaboutbeingp27HABIT5SEEKFIRSTTOUNDERSTAND…THENTOBEUNDERSTOODHABIT5SEEKFIRSTTOUNDERSTAN28SolvingfamilyproblemsthroughemphaticcommunicationSolvingfamilyproblemsthroug29高效能人士的七個(gè)習(xí)慣(英文版)thesevenh課件30There’snowaytohaverich,rewardingfamilyrelationshipswithoutrealunderstandingThere’snowaytohaverich,r31Mostmistakeswithfamilymembersarenottheresultofbadintent.It’sjustthat wereallydon’t understand.We don’tseeclearly intoone another’shearts.Mostmistakeswithfamilymemb32Whenyouunderstand…Youdon’tjudge.Whenyouunderstand…Youdon’t33Eachpersonneedstobelovedinhisorherownspecialway.Theykeytomakingdeposits,therefore,istounderstand–andtospeak–thatperson’slanguageofloveEachpersonneedstobeloved34Thetechniqueofemphaticlisteningisjustthetipoftheiceberg.Thegreatmassoftheicebergisadeepandsinceredesiretotrulyunderstand.Thetechniqueofemphaticlist35HABIT6SYNERGIZEHABIT6SYNERGIZE36BuildingfamilyunitythroughcelebratingdifferencesBuildingfamilyunitythrough37Youmustbeabletosaysincerely,“Thefactthatweseethingsdifferentlyisastrength–notaweakness–inourrelationship.Youmustbeabletosaysincer38Onceyourealizethateachproblemisaskingforaresponseinsteadofjusttriggeringareaction,youstarttolearn.Youbecomealearningfamily.Onceyourealizethateachpro39HABIT7SHARPENTHESAWHABIT7SHARPENTHESAW40RenewingthefamilyspiritthroughtraditionsRenewingthefamilyspiritthr41Everyfamilymusttaketimetorenewitselfinthefourkeyareasoflife:physical,social,mental,andspiritual.Everyfamilymusttaketimeto42

Ifyouorganize yourfamilylifeto spendtenor fifteenminutesa morningreading somethingthatconnectsyoutotimelessprinciples,youwillmakebetterchoicesduringtheday–inthefamily,onthejob,ineverydimensionoflife. Ifyouorganize you43Sharpeningthesawisthehighest