小學(xué)英語雙語閱讀系列幸福生活：小熊維尼關(guān)于幸福生活的五個小貼士素材

小熊維尼關(guān)于華蜜生活的五個小貼士”Didyoueverstoptothink,andforgettostartagain?”“你有沒有停下來思索卻又忘了重新思索的經(jīng)驗(yàn)？”“Well,”saidPooh,“whatIlikebest—”andthenhehadtostopandthink.Becausealthougheatinghoneywasaverygoodthingtodo,therewasamomentjustbeforeyoubegantoeatitwhichwasbetterthanwhenyouwere,buthedidn’tknowwhatitwascalled.”“噢，”維尼說，“什么是我的最愛呢——”然后他停下來起先思索。盡管吃蜂蜜是件特別棒的事兒，但是在你打算起先吃之前的那個時刻感覺比吃的時候更奇妙，但它不知道該怎么稱呼這個時刻。WinniethePoohisakindbear.Hecaresgreatlyabouthisfriends.小熊維尼是一個和善的熊。他特別關(guān)切他的摯友。Andhehasalwaysseemedlikeaprettyhappybeartome.同時對我來說，他看起來總是那么的歡樂。He’salsoafavoriteofminesotodayI’dliketosimplyshare5ofmyfavoritehappinesstipsfromthathoneylovingbear.他也是我最喜愛的人，所以今日我簡潔共享一下敬愛小熊的五點(diǎn)華蜜小貼士。1.Don’tgetboggeddownindetails.1.不要糾結(jié)于細(xì)微環(huán)節(jié)“Youcan’thelprespectinganybodywhocanspellTUESDAY,evenifhedoesn’tspellitright;butspellingisn’teverything.TherearedayswhenspellingTuesdaysimplydoesn’tcount.”你不得不佩服那些能夠拼法TUESDAY這個單詞的人，即使他根本沒有拼對。但是拼法并非一切，有時候它完全沒有價值。Gettingboggeddownindetails,focusingonthesmallproblemscanhaveadvantages.Butitcanalsomakeyoumissthebigpicture.What’sreallyimportantinyourlife.糾結(jié)于細(xì)微環(huán)節(jié)，關(guān)注小問題很有好處。但也有可能會使你錯失更重要的東西，你生命中真正重要的東西。Don’tmaketheclassicmistakesofspendingtoomuchtimenitpickingormakingmountainsoutofmolehills.Relaxinstead.Focusonthepositivethingsyouhaveandwantinyourlife.不要對這些常見的拼法錯誤大驚小怪、小題大做以至于奢侈時間。放輕松。關(guān)注你當(dāng)下和希望的生活中主動的東西。Keepyourattentiononthat.Worktowardsthat.Thedaysmayseemlongbuttheyearsareoftenprettyshort.Solivetheminsteadconstantlyinspecting,criticizingoroverthinkingthem.在此方面集中留意力，并努力去做。日子看起來很長，但年歲卻特別短暫。所以好好生活，而不是不斷地在諦視、指責(zé)或者想太多中度過一生。2.Beproactive.Takethelead.2.主動主動做榜樣“Youcan’tstayinyourcorneroftheForestwaitingforotherstocometoyou.Youhavetogotothemsometimes.”“你不能躲在林中的角落里等著別人來找你。有時你必需自己去找他們?！盜t’seasytogetlockedintoareactivemindset.Youjustfollowalongwithwhateverishappening.Youdowhatthepeoplearoundyoudo.Youreacttowhateverisgoingon.人很簡潔陷入到被動的心態(tài)中，同流合污、人云亦云。面對任何事都是這樣的反應(yīng)。Andsoyougetlostinyourcircumstances.Thiswayofthinkingdoesn’tfeeltoogood.Youtendtofeelpowerlessandlikeyouarejustdriftingalonginlife.所以你對自身狀況感到迷失。這種思維方式并不好。你會感到無助，似乎你只是在同流合污的生活。Anotherwayofgoingaboutthingstobeproactive.Tobetheonewhotakesactionfirstandtotakethelead.It’snotalwayseasythough.Youhavetogetoutofyourcomfortzoneanditcanfeelscary.從主動的角度對待這件事。成為行動的第一執(zhí)行者和帶頭人。這并不簡潔。你將不得不走出自己舒適的領(lǐng)域，這會讓你感到恐慌。Sotonotgetlostinprocrastinationtakeitonesmallstepattime.Justbeproactiveinsteadofreactiveaboutonelittlethinginyourlifetoday.Startwiththatactionandthenbuildyourproactivenessmusclestepbysmallstep.所以為了避開陷入拖延時間的逆境，每次實(shí)行一小步。只有主動主動而不是被動對待今日生活中的一件小事。起先行動起來，然后一步一小步的建立你的主動力氣。3.Keepconversationssimpleandpositive.3.保持簡潔主動向上的對話“Itismorefuntotalkwithsomeonewhodoesn’tuselong,difficultwordsbutrathershort,easywordslike“Whataboutlunch?””和不用冗長又拗口的詞的人交談更好玩，但又不是特別簡短的話，像“午餐吃什么？”Whatdopeoplewantinaconversationsandrelationships?人們期盼一個什么樣的對話和關(guān)系？Long-windednegativebabbling?冗長的消極的胡言亂語？Orpositive,focusedtalkswhereitisinterestingtolisten,communicateandexchangeideas?亦或是洋溢著傾聽、溝通、交換看法的主動地、集中地交談？AlthoughtheanswerprobablyvariesbutI’dratherspendmostofmytimewithdoingthelatter.盡管答案可能不同，但我寧愿花費(fèi)我的大部分時間在后者。Threetipsthathelpmetokeeptheconversationpositiveandfocusedare:三個提示，幫助我保持談話的主動和集中：Liveapositivelife.Ifyoufocusonthepositiveinyourdailylifethenit’susuallynoproblemtokeepfocusingonitandtalkingaboutitinconversations.Moreonthatinthelasttipinthisarticle.保持陽光的生活。假如你的日常生活就充溢向上，那么保持主動和談話內(nèi)容樂觀就不是問題。更多精彩，盡在本文最終一個提示。Beawareandalert.Ifyouknowthatyouhaveaproblemwithexcessiveramblingsthensimplybeingawareofthiscanhelpyoutostopyourselfmoreandmoreoftenbeforeyougooffintobabbling.時刻保持警覺。假如你知道你有過分胡扯的問題，然后簡潔的覺察到這一點(diǎn)能幫助你，常常在你起先陷入胡言亂語之前，阻擋自己再接著下去。Usewordsthathelpsyoutogetthrough.Noneedtotrytoimpresspeoplewithbigandcomplicatedwordswhenit’snotneeded.Focusongettingthroughtoothersandcommunicatingbyusingsimplewordsthatanyonecanunderstand.運(yùn)用可以幫助你表達(dá)清楚的話。沒有必要試圖通過不須要的大而困難的詞給人留下印象。重點(diǎn)是能使他人理解，運(yùn)用簡潔易懂的詞與人溝通。4.Donothingonceinawhile.4.間或無為“Don’tunderestimatethevalueofDoingNothing,ofjustgoingalong,listeningtoallthethingsyoucan’thear,andnotbothering.”“不要低估了無所事事的價值，就這么走走，傾聽那些你沒聽過的聲音，不去打攪?！盇lthoughitfeelsgoodtoworktowardsyourdreamsanddoingthethingsyouloveIfindthatthingstendtogobetterandIfeelbetterifthereisabalance.盡管朝著自己的幻想努力感覺很奇妙，做自己喜愛的事情感覺也很奇妙，但我覺得假如能兩者之間找到平衡確定會更好。IfItakesometimeeachweektodoprettymuchnothing.IfIjustspendtimewithmyselfonawalkinthewoodsorbytheoceanforexample.假如我每星期花些時間什么也不做。假如我只是花時間自己在森林里走走或是，例如去海邊走走。BydoingsoIunloadmymind.IrelaxfullyandsolifebecomeslessheavyandburdensomeandItendtohavelessstressandworriesduringtherestofmyweek.這么做我確定能卸下思想中的包袱。我能充分的放松自己，生活的壓力和累贅越來越少。在一周余下的時間里我會削減壓力和憂慮。5.Appreciatethelittlethings.5.觀賞微乎其微的小事“Nobodycanbeuncheeredwithaballoon.”“沒有人不喜愛氣球?！盌ailyhappinessistoalargepartaboutappreciatingthesmallthings.最多的日常高興來自于對小事的觀賞。Ifyoujustallowyourselftobehappywhenaccomplishingabiggoalorwhenyouhavesomegreatluckthenyouaremakinglifeharderthanitneedstobe.假如你只允許自己在完成一個巨大目標(biāo)或走大運(yùn)的時候才欣喜，那么你的人生將過得不必要的艱難。Instead,focusonappreciatingthingsthatyoumaytakeforgranted.相反，重點(diǎn)是要觀賞你習(xí)以為常的東西。Take2minutesandfindthingsinyourlifeyoucanappreciaterightnow.Ifyouwantsomeideas,hereareafewofthesimplethingsthatIliketoappreciate:花2分鐘找尋你生命中你可以立刻觀賞到的東西。假如你想要一些建議，這里有一些我觀賞的簡潔的東西：Myfood.美食Theweather.天氣Myhealth.健康Friendsandfamily.家人和摯友ThiswebsiteandtheopportunitytowriteaboutwhatIwant.這個網(wǎng)站和表達(dá)我自己的機(jī)會You,thereader.你，這么一個讀者M(jìn)yselfandthefinethingsaboutme.我自己和關(guān)于我奇妙的事情Thefunnythingisthatifyoujuststartappreciatingsomethingyoucanveryquicklystartjumpingaroundwithyourattentionandappreciatejustaboutanythingaroundyou.好玩的是，假如你剛起先觀賞某物，你能很