ted演講稿每個(gè)學(xué)生都是冠軍

1、ted 演講稿 : 每個(gè)學(xué)生都是冠軍I have spent my entire life either at the schoolhouse, on the way to the schoolhouse, or talking about what happens in the schoolhouse. Both my parents were educators, my maternal grandparents were educators, and for the past 40 years Ive done the same thing. And so, needless to sa

2、y, over those years Ive had a chance to look at education reform from a lot of perspectives. Some of those reforms have been good. Some of them have been not so good. And we know why kids drop out. We know why kids dont learn. Its either poverty, low attendance, negative peer influences. We know why

3、. But one of the things that we never discuss or we rarely discuss is the value and importance of human connection, relationships.我這輩子，要么是在學(xué)校，要么在去學(xué)校的路上，要么是在討論學(xué)校里發(fā)生了什么事。40 年我也在從事同樣的事業(yè)。我的父母都是教育家，我的外祖父母也都是搞教育的，過去所以，很顯然， 過去的這些年里， 我有機(jī)會(huì)從各個(gè)角度審視教育改革。 一些改革是有成效的。而另一些卻收效甚微。我們知道孩子們?yōu)槭裁吹絷?duì)輟學(xué)。我們知道孩子們?yōu)槭裁磳W(xué)不下去。但是我們從未討

4、論或者極原因無非是貧窮，低出席率，同齡人的壞影響。我們知道為什么。少討論的是人和人之間的那種聯(lián)系的價(jià)值和重要性，這就是“關(guān)系”。James Comer says that no significant learning can occur without a significant relationship. George Washington Carver says all learning is understanding relationships. Everyone in this room has been affected by a teacher or an adult.For

5、years, I have watched people teach. I have looked at the best and Ive look at some of the worst.精選文庫8James Comer （美國(guó)著名兒童精神科醫(yī)師）說過，沒有強(qiáng)有力的聯(lián)系，學(xué)習(xí)就不會(huì)有顯著的進(jìn)步。George Wash in gton Carver（美國(guó)著名教育學(xué)家）說過，學(xué)習(xí)就是理解各種關(guān)系。在座的各位都曾經(jīng)被一位老師或者一個(gè)成年人影響過。這么多年，我都在看人們?cè)趺唇虒W(xué)。我看過最好的也看過最差的。A colleague said to me one time, They dont pay

6、me to like the kids. They payme to teach a less on. The kids should lear n it. I should teach it. They should lear n it.Case closed.一次有個(gè)同事跟我說,“我的職責(zé)不是喜歡那些孩子們。我的職責(zé)是教書。孩子們就該去學(xué)。我管教課，他們管學(xué)習(xí)。就是這么個(gè)理兒。”Well, I said to her, You know, kids dont lear n from people they dont like.后，我就跟她說，“你知道，孩子們可不跟他們討厭的人學(xué)習(xí)?！?La

7、ughter) (Applause)( 笑聲)(掌聲)She said, Thats just a bunch of hooey.她接著說，“一派胡言?！盇nd I said to her, Well, your year is going to be long and arduous, dear.然后我對(duì)她說，“那么，親愛的，你這一年會(huì)變得十分漫長(zhǎng)和痛苦。”Needless to say it was. Some people think that you can either have it in you tobuild a relati onship or you dont. I thi

8、nk Stephen Covey had the right idea. Hesaid you ought to just throw in a few simple thin gs, like seek ing first toun dersta nd as oppo sed to being un derstood, simple things like apo logiz ing. Youever thought about that? Tell a kid youre sorry, theyre in shock.事實(shí)也果真如此。有些人認(rèn)為一個(gè)人或者天生可以建立一種關(guān)系或者不具有這種能

9、力。我認(rèn)為StephenCovey（美國(guó)教育家）是對(duì)的。他說你只需要做一些簡(jiǎn)單的事情，比如試著首先理解他人，而不是想要被理解，比如道歉。你想過嗎？跟一個(gè)孩子說你很對(duì)不起，他們都驚呆了。I taught a less on once on ratios. Im not real good with math, but I was work ing on it. And I got back and looked at that teacher editi on. Id taught the whole less on wrong. (Laughter)我有一次講比例。我數(shù)學(xué)不是很好，但是我當(dāng)時(shí)在

10、教數(shù)學(xué)。然后我下了課，翻看了教師用書。我完全教錯(cuò)了。（笑聲）So I came back to class the n ext day, and I said, Look, guys, I n eed to apo logize.I taught the whole less on wrong. Im so sorry.所以我第二天回到班上說，“同學(xué)們，我要道歉。我昨天的課都教錯(cuò)了。 我非常抱歉?！盩hey said, Thats okay, Ms. Pierson. You were so excited, we just let you go. (Laughter) (App lause)

11、他們說，“沒關(guān)系，Pierson老師。你當(dāng)時(shí)教得非常投入，我們就讓你繼續(xù)了。” 聲）（掌聲）I have had classes that were so low, so academically deficie nt that I cried. I won dered, how am I going to take this group in nine mon ths from where theyare to where they n eed to be? And it was difficult. It was awfully hard. How do I raise the self-

12、esteem of a child and his academic achieveme nt at the same time?我曾經(jīng)教過程度非常低的班級(jí)，學(xué)術(shù)素養(yǎng)差到我都哭了。我當(dāng)時(shí)就想，我怎么能在個(gè)月之內(nèi)把這些孩子提升到他們必須具備的水平？這真的很難，太艱難了。我怎么能讓一個(gè)孩子重拾自信的同時(shí)他在學(xué)術(shù)上也有進(jìn)步One year I came up with a bright idea. I told all my stude nts, You were chose n to be in my class because I am the best teacher and you are

13、the best stude nts, they有一年我有了put us all together so we could show everybody else how to do it.個(gè)非常好的主意。我告訴我的學(xué)生們,“你們進(jìn)了我的班級(jí)，因?yàn)槲沂亲詈玫睦蠋煟阋粋€(gè)學(xué)生說，“真的嗎？ ”（笑聲）們是最好的學(xué)生，他們把我們放在一起來給其他人做個(gè)好榜樣?！監(jiān)ne of the stude nts said, Really? (Laughter)I said, Really. We have to show the other classes how to do it, so whe n we

14、 walk dow n the hall, people will no tice us, so you cant make no ise. You just have to strut. And I gave them a say ing to say: I am somebody. I was somebody whe n I came. Ill be a better somebody whe n I leave. I am po werful, and I am stro ng. I deserve the educati on that I get here. I have thin

15、gs to do, people to imp ress, and p laces to go.我說，“當(dāng)然是真的。我們要給其他班級(jí)做個(gè)榜樣，當(dāng)我們走在樓道里，因?yàn)榇蠹叶紩?huì)注意到我們，我們不能吵鬧。大家要昂首闊步?！蔽疫€給了他們一個(gè)口號(hào)：“我是個(gè)人物。我來的時(shí)候是個(gè)人物。我畢業(yè)的時(shí)候會(huì)變成一個(gè)更好的人物。我很有力，很強(qiáng)大。我值得在這里受教育。我有很多事情要做，我要讓人們記住我，我要去很多地方。”And they said, Yeah!然后他們說：“是?。　比绻汩L(zhǎng)時(shí)間的這么說，它You say it l ong eno ugh, it starts to be a part of you.就會(huì)

16、開始變成事實(shí)。And so (App lause) I gave a quiz, 20 questi ons. A stude nt missed 18. I put a +2 on his paper and a big smiley face.所以-（掌聲）我做了一個(gè)小測(cè)驗(yàn)，20道題。一個(gè)孩子錯(cuò)了 18道。我在他了卷子上寫了個(gè)“ +2 ”和一個(gè)大的笑臉。He said, Ms. P iers on, is this an F?他說，“ Pierson老師，這是不及格嗎？”I said, Yes. 我說，“是的?！盚e said, The n whyd you put a smiley fa

17、ce?他接著說，“那你為什么給我一個(gè)笑I said, Because youre on a roll. You got two right. You did nt miss them all. Isaid, And whe n we review this, wont you do better?我說，“因?yàn)槟阏凉u入佳境。你沒有全錯(cuò)，還對(duì)了兩個(gè)。”我說，“我們復(fù)習(xí)這些題的時(shí)候，難道你不會(huì)做得更好嗎？ ”He said, Yes, maam, I can do better.他說，“是的，老師。我可以做得更好。”You see, -18 sucks all the life out of you

18、. +2 said, I ai nt all bad. (Laughter) (App lause)（笑聲）（掌聲）大家看，“ -18 ”讓人感覺想死。“ +2 ”意味著，“我沒有那么糟?！盕or years I watched my mother take the time at recess to review, go on home visits in the after noon, buy combs and brushes and peanut butter and crackers to put in her desk drawer for kids that n eeded to

19、 eat, and a washcloth and some soa p for the kids who did nt smell so good. See, its hard to teach kids who sti nk. And kids can be cruel. And so she kept those things in her desk, and years later, after she retired,I watched some of those same kids come through and say to her, You know, Ms.Walker,

20、you made a differe nee in my life. You made it work for me. You made me feel like I was somebody, whe n I kn ew, at the bottom, I was nt. And I want you tojust see what rve become.好多年了，我看著我媽媽利用課間休息時(shí)間批改作業(yè)，下午去家訪，買梳子、刷子、花生醬和餅干，把他們放在自己的抽屜里給那些餓了的孩子們吃,還有為那些臟孩子們準(zhǔn)備了一條毛巾和一些肥皂?？窗?，教那些發(fā)臭的孩子是困難的一件事。而孩子們有時(shí)也是比較“殘忍

21、”的。所以她把這些東西都放在她的抽屜里，然后過了很多年,在她退休以后，我看到一些當(dāng)年的孩子們回來告訴她,“您知道，Walker老師，您改變了我的生活。您讓它有了意義。您讓我覺得我是個(gè)人物， 雖說在心底我知道我不是。我就是想讓您看看我現(xiàn)在成為了個(gè)什么樣的人?！盇nd whe n my mama died two years ago at 92, there were so many formerstude nts at her fun eral, it brought tears to my eyes, not because she was gone, butbecause she left

22、a legacy of relati onships that could n ever disa pp ear.當(dāng)我媽媽兩年前以92歲高齡去世的時(shí)候，有好多好多的以前的學(xué)生來參加了她的葬禮，我哭了，不是因?yàn)樗ナ懒?，而是因?yàn)樗粝铝诉@些永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)消失的各種聯(lián)系。Can we sta nd to have more relati onships? Absolutely. Will you like all yourchildre n? Of course not. And you know your toughest kids are n ever abse nt.(Laughter) Neve

23、r. You wont like them all, and the tough ones show up for a reas on.Its the connection. Its the relatio nships. And while you wont like them all, the keyis, they can n ever, ever know it. So teachers become great actors and greatactresses, and we come to work whe n we dont feel like it, and were liste ning top olicy that does nt make sen se, and we teach any way. We teach any way, becausethats what we do.我們真的可以有更多的關(guān)系嗎?當(dāng)然可以。你會(huì)喜歡你所有的學(xué)生嗎 ？當(dāng)然不。你也知道那些最難搞的孩子總是很難甩掉。（笑聲）永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)。你不會(huì)喜歡每一個(gè)人，然而難搞的那幾個(gè)的出現(xiàn)也是有理由的。 這就是聯(lián)系，是關(guān)系。當(dāng)你不