新視野大學(xué)英語(yǔ)聽(tīng)說(shuō)教程第二版第三冊(cè)(鄭樹(shù)堂)oral-report

1、新視野大學(xué)英語(yǔ)聽(tīng)說(shuō)教程第二版第三冊(cè)（鄭樹(shù)堂）oral-reportCherishthelovefromothersL：Goodafternoon,everyone,thisisLynnshow,welcometojoinus,letsdiscusstodaystopicaboutuCherishthelovefromothersM.weallkown,peoplecangetplentyoflovethroughoneslife,butthewaysofshowingloveandthewaysofbeinglovearequitedifferentthroughdifferentpeople

2、.letshaveatalkaboutit,whatsyouropinion,amy?A:Treasureisnotalwaysafriend,Butafriendisalwaysatreasure,thepeoplearoundusalwaysgiveusstrongpowerwhenweareintrouble,whatweshoulddoisCherishthelovefromothers,expeciallyourparents.J:Icouldn*tagreewithyouanymore,theparentsloveisthegreatest,theselfless,someofth

3、emwouldliketobelovedbylettingthemdowhatevertheywant,noobjections,however,sometimesitwillleadtospoiledlove,whichhaveabadeffectonchildrensgrowupandtheymightbedependedonthat,thustheyhavelessabilitytodotheirthingsthemselves,everythingmustbedonebytheomnipotent?mnip?t?nt全能的parentsC：ontheotherhand,someofpa

4、rentswouldliketoshowtheirlovetotheirchildrenbyprotectedthemsecretly,aparent*sloveissomethingthatnoonecanexplain,itismadeofdeepdevotion,andofsacrificeandpain;itisendlessandunselfish,andenduringcomewhatmay,fornothingcandestroyitortakethatloveaway.L:Ifyouwanttoknowaboutsomebody1spersonality,thenjustloo

5、khowsheorhebehaveswithhisorherownparents.Thereisnothingcanreplaceyourparents,withoutthemwewilllostourownbeing.Theyare,thatswhy,weare.Ourbeingiscreatedfromtheirbeingsothatwehavetotakeeverymeasuretomakeourparentshappy,whatwecandotoourparents?Letslistentotheopinionsofothers.A:firstandforemost,beingafam

6、ilymembermustbehonestandbebraveenoughtoshowlovetotheothersfamilymembers,becausecommunicationisthebestwaytodealwithrelationshipsbetweenothers,ifthechildrenfoundthatonedaytheyaretreated,theymightbehurt,deeplyhurt.J：Inthesecondplace,sayloveloudlytoyourparents,ifyoudonttellparentshowtreasuretheyare,howc

7、ouldtheyknow?nomatterwhatstatustheyarebeingin,eventheyaremistakeyourkind-heartedhelp,dontforgetsaylove,justbecausetheyareyourparents.J:inthethirdplace,beingafamilymembermustbeunited,tofightagainstthebadthingsfacinginlifetogether,otherthanmanagethemalone,asamatteroffact,workingtogetherwithyourfamilie

8、s,anditreallycharmingandhappy,lifeislimited,sobeingtogetherisakindofhappiness,isntit?seizethedayandbehappywithyourlovedpeople.L：inconclusion,allparentslovetheirchildren,withthedevelopmentofsociety,moreandmorepeoplehavelessandlesstimetocompanytheirparents,now,Iappealtoeveryonetocherishthelovefromothe

9、rs.Todaysprogramwillbeover,thanksforyouwatch,bay,seeyounexttimeHowIlearntoloveKnowinghowtoloveisafundamentalpartofbeinghuman.Inmostcases,welearnhowtolovebyexperiencinghowwearelovedandseehowotherslovewhilegrowingup.Ifyoucomefromahealthy,lovingfamily,thismightbeallyouneedtoknowhowtolove.Ontheotherhand

10、,ifthereweredysfunctionalexamplesoflovearoundyou,youmayneedclarificationonexactlyhowtoloveinahealthyway.First,understandthattherearedifferenttypesoflove-thelovebetweenfriends,parentsandchildren,brothersandsisters,andofcourseromanticpartners.Therearecommonelementsoflovebetweentheserelationshipsandthe

11、rearedifferences.Herearethegeneralprinciplesofhowtolove：Principle1Placethewellbeingofyourlovedoneonanequalorhigherlevelthanyourself.Whatexactlyismeantbythis?Itmeansthatyouconsiderthefeelings,needs,desires,etc.oftheotherpersonasimportantormoresothanyourown.Thisdoesn?tmeanthatyoubecometheirslaveoracce

12、pttheirabuse.Yousimplywantthebestforthem.Principle2Giveyourlovewithoutexpectationofanythinginreturn.Loveisnotaboutkeepscoreortrackofwhattheydoforyouinreturnforwhatyoudoforthem.Don?texpecttheirexpressionsofloveoranyloveatall,tomatchwhatyouwantorgiveinreturn.Principle3Expressyourlove.Inordertoreallylo

13、vesomeone,itneedstobeexpressed.Canyouloveinsecret?Yes,butitwon?treallyblossomuntil/unlessitisexpressed.Therearedozensofwaystoexpressit.Startbytellingthemyoulovethem.Continuewithanyofthefollowing：Dothoughtfulunexpectedthingsforthem.Findoutwhatisimportanttothem-gettoknowtheirdreams.Makefutureplanstoge

14、ther.Foundouthowyoucansupportthemintheirgoals.urprisethemwithgifts.Principle4Aswitheverything,knowthatonedayyourlovemaybelost.Knowingthiswillhelpyoubalanceyourloveandexpressionoflovewiththeappreciationofwhatyouhavetoday.Celebrateandcherishyoulovenow,fortomorrowitmaynotbethere.Don?thangontothelovedon

15、einfearofloss,butfocusonthejoyfulexperienceofittoday.Thisprinciplewillalsohelpwithfeelingsofjealousywhichcomesfromfearoflosingthepartner.Workonyourownfeelingsofself-esteemandfearwhenyouarefeelingjealous.Principle5Ifsomeonedoesn?tsharetheirloveforyou,youcannotforcethem,orevenlovethemintocompliancetor

16、eciprocateyourlove.Lovethemenoughtoknowthattheymustfreelychoosetoloveyouinreturnwithoutbribing,guilt,oranyothermanipulation.Principle6Youcanlovemorethanonepersonatatimeinthesameway.Amotherlovesallherchildren.Manypeopleinromanticrelationshipsprefertolimittheirromanticinvolvementtomonogamousrelationsh

17、ips.Openlydiscussyourpreferenceswithyourpartnerstoknowifyouhavethesamepreferences.（一）LoveisthemostimportantlessonofallWithoutdoubt,loveisthemostimportantlessonofall,nomatterwholivinginthesocietymustlearnitwell.Frombirthtodeath,everyoneshouldalwayslearnthethemeoflove：whenweareyoung.Astimegoesby,wesho

18、uldlearnthanksgivingjustasnow.Againabitolder,whenwehavetheabilitytomakethecontributionandreturnsociety,it?stimeforustolearngivinglove.Loveissunshine,lettingtheworldfullofwarmth;Loveisthespringbreeze,bringingharmonytosociety;Loveisadrizzle,moisteningpeople?shearts.Lovecanclosethedistanceandeliminateb

19、arriersbetweenpeople.Infrontofflowersandapplause,thereisthelovebehindasasupport,introuble,thereistheloveencouragesusstrongandgrowing.LoveincludingAmor,kinship,friendshipandsoon.Differentlovegiveusdifferentexperiencesandfeelings,teachusdifferentunderstanding.Humanwillbeadeademptyshellwithoutloveasane

20、motionalcreature.Everythingintheworld,onlylovecanforever!Learninghowtoloveandexpressittrulycanobtainmorelove.（二）LoveisthemostimportantlessonofallLoveisthemostimportantlessonofall.?Loveisanessentialcomponentofourlife.Weneedtoknowhowtoloveourparents,ourfriends.Firstly,asachildofmyparents,Icanlearnlove

21、andlaughterandhowtoputonefootbeforetheotherfrommyparents.Theytellustoloveothers,pickupthehabitofprovidingmyselfhelptootherswheneveroneneed.Besides,asastudent,Icanlearnfromourteachers,becausetheynotonlytellushowtoloveothers,buttellushowtoshowappreciationtopeoplewhogiveusloveandsoon.Ihaveheardasaying：

22、thequickestwaytoreceiveloveistogiveit;thefastestwaytoloseloveistoholdittootightlythebestwaytokeeploveistogiveitwings.Itisimportantforustolearntoloveasthefirstclassinourlife.?（三）Loveisthemostimportantlessonofall.Loveisanessentialcomponentofourlife.Weneedtoknowhowtoloveourparents,ourfriends,ourpartner

23、sandourkids.Hencelearningtoloveisprobablyoneofthemostimportantlifelessonthatfollowsusthroughoutourwholelife.Itallowsustoviewthisworldwithahappierperspective,andensuresthatwealsobringthishappinesstowhomwelove.Wegiveoutlovetopeopleandalsoreceivethemfromothers.Weknowthatlovemaynotbemutual.Millionsofpeo

24、pleloveJayChouorJackyChanbuttheydonotevenknowthosepeoplepersonally.Loveisawaytoshareyourpassion;toconveyyourcare;andtoconfessyourstrongaffection.Love,isthelessonweoughttolearn,itistheodethatwecannotlivewithout.（四）Loveisthemostimportantlessonofall?A：Amongallthesubjectsyouarelearning,whichdoyouthinkis

25、themostimportant?B:Um,itshardtosay.ButIthinkonethingisfarmoreimportantthanthesesubjectswearelearning.A：Whatsthat?love!Loveisthemostimportantlessonofall.Thoughthereisnosubjectscalledschool,butwecanfeelitinourdailylife.Webenefitfromlovegivenbyourparents,ourfriends,andevenstrangers.Wearehappybecausewef

26、eelthewarmthoflove.A:Iagreewithyou.Whenwearereceivingotherslove,weshouldalsogivinglovetothosewhoneeditatthesametime.B:Yes!Weshouldlearntolovewithourownheartandlearnfrompeoplearounduswhoarefulloflove.Liveyourlifeandloveit!TheopeningsentenceofHenryDavidThoreau?spoemuloveyourlife”saysthatHowevermeanyou

27、rlifeis,meetitandliveit;Loveyourlife,poorasitis.Asapostgraduatestudent,weareliveinganideallifewhicharecolorful,passionate,fullyandofcoursefilledwithacademicatmosphere.Sowehaveeveryreasontosayliveyourlifeandloveyourit.Colorfulandinterestinglifehelpusgetrideoftirednessandlookwithfresheyesonlife.Passionatelifecanmakeusvibrant,andthenweworkhardwiththewholeheartedenthusiasm.Finally,whenwearefullofpassion,inthecolorfulenvironment,surroundedbytheacademicatmospheretoworkhard,ourliveswillbefulfilling.Givings