社會(huì)禮儀修養(yǎng)

1、精選優(yōu)質(zhì)文檔-傾情為你奉上 一、當(dāng)前禮儀修養(yǎng)現(xiàn)狀 中國(guó)歷來(lái)被稱為“文明古國(guó)”、“禮儀之邦”，中華民族也秉承了這種文化傳統(tǒng)，表現(xiàn)出謙和、勤勉、尊敬長(zhǎng)輩等民族特質(zhì)。但是，如今社會(huì)仍然存在著文明禮儀素養(yǎng)缺失的情況，并且日益嚴(yán)重。例如，亂穿馬路，闖紅燈，爭(zhēng)相擠乘電梯；在公共場(chǎng)合有隨地吐痰，亂扔雜物，高聲談笑等缺少自我約束的失禮行為；在人際交往中莽撞、冷漠、自私，缺乏基本的交往禮儀；追求個(gè)人生活觀念和生活方式的絕對(duì)“自我”，缺乏與周圍環(huán)境的融洽相處能力；不會(huì)問(wèn)候，不懂謙讓，不尊重師長(zhǎng)；更令人不安的是，有的人把無(wú)社會(huì)秩序、行為放浪不羈，只顧自己不顧他人看成是個(gè)性；他們強(qiáng)烈要求別人尊重自己，卻不知尊重別人，

2、難以與別人建立良好的合作關(guān)系此類行為，與禮儀修養(yǎng)與精神文明建設(shè)極不和諧，不能不引起人們的高度關(guān)注。 二、禮儀修養(yǎng)缺失原因分析 （一）、個(gè)人成長(zhǎng)環(huán)境的影響。由于各方面原因，我國(guó)公民的社會(huì)道德修養(yǎng)還處于較低水平。在個(gè)人社會(huì)化的過(guò)程中，人們沒(méi)有受到來(lái)自社會(huì)的足夠示范和指導(dǎo)，這其中一方面是家庭所施加影響的力度不夠；另一方面，在學(xué)生時(shí)代這一禮儀修養(yǎng)養(yǎng)成的重要階段，由于受應(yīng)試教育的影響，學(xué)校沒(méi)有對(duì)禮儀教育給予足夠的重視。所以，步入社會(huì)后，一洗而嗯的禮儀素養(yǎng)就已經(jīng)有所缺失。 （二）、外來(lái)文化的影響。在世界一體化的今天，由于人們對(duì)中國(guó)傳統(tǒng)文化的認(rèn)知不夠，新鮮的外來(lái)文化更容易被他們認(rèn)同與接納。尤其是年輕人表現(xiàn)出

3、對(duì)于外來(lái)文化全面接觸、快速適應(yīng)、積極迎合的態(tài)度，年輕一代越來(lái)越崇尚過(guò)“洋節(jié)”就是一個(gè)證明。禮儀的產(chǎn)生發(fā)展存在著與其他文化背景的禮儀相融合的過(guò)程，但如果不堅(jiān)守本民族固有的傳統(tǒng)文化，又何來(lái)面向世界呢? （三）、為了功利的目的對(duì)對(duì)實(shí)用化價(jià)值取向的過(guò)分強(qiáng)調(diào)，恰恰反映了當(dāng)今社會(huì)的人格上是理性因素的過(guò)分膨脹，從而導(dǎo)致人格發(fā)展的“單面化”趨勢(shì)嚴(yán)重。然而，禮儀規(guī)范所體現(xiàn)的是：遵守、自律、敬人、寬容、平等、真誠(chéng)和適度等“多面性”原則，它強(qiáng)調(diào)“禮之用，和為貴”。 二、禮儀的重要性做人先學(xué)禮”，禮儀教育是人生的第一課。禮儀必須通過(guò)學(xué)習(xí)、培養(yǎng)和訓(xùn)練，才能成為人們的行為習(xí)慣。每一位社會(huì)成員都有義務(wù)和責(zé)任，通過(guò)學(xué)習(xí)禮儀、

4、傳承禮儀，自然而然地成為這個(gè)民族和團(tuán)體的一員。個(gè)人文明禮儀一旦養(yǎng)成，必然會(huì)在社會(huì)生活中發(fā)揮重要的作用。首先是傳承文明的需要。我國(guó)是世界之一，古老的中華民族自古以來(lái)就享有“禮儀之邦”的美稱。中華民族源遠(yuǎn)流長(zhǎng)，在五千年悠久的歷史長(zhǎng)河中，不但創(chuàng)造了燦爛的文化，而且形成了古老民族的傳統(tǒng)美德，在博大精深的文化遺產(chǎn)中，很多優(yōu)良的、傳統(tǒng)的禮儀規(guī)范，直至今天仍然有很強(qiáng)大的生命力，它是中華民族的寶貴的精神財(cái)富。我們知道：童稚時(shí)的孔融讓梨，尊敬長(zhǎng)輩傳為美談；岳飛問(wèn)路，頗知禮節(jié)，才得以校場(chǎng)比武，騎馬跨天下；“”更是為尊敬師長(zhǎng)的典范。老子在中告訴我們“做一天人就要講一天道德”。這些，淋漓盡致地體現(xiàn)了中國(guó)人的禮儀道德所

5、在。作為中華民族的傳承人青少年兒童，他們有責(zé)任繼承和發(fā)揚(yáng)中華民族五千年文化精髓，使中國(guó)“禮儀之邦”的美稱名副其實(shí)，“禮儀之邦”的美名響譽(yù)中外。 其次是時(shí)代發(fā)展的需要。如今，世界發(fā)生了巨大變化，人類社會(huì)是以文明、和平、發(fā)展為主流的信息社會(huì)，人與人之間的交往與合作日漸頻繁、密切。在交往與合作過(guò)程中，人們的禮儀是否周全，不僅顯示其修養(yǎng)、素質(zhì)的形象，而且直接影響到事業(yè)、業(yè)務(wù)的成功。隨著時(shí)代的發(fā)展，人們的精神要求日益發(fā)展，人人都在尋求一種充滿友愛(ài)、真誠(chéng)、理解、互助的溫馨和諧的生存環(huán)境，尋求充滿文明與友善，真誠(chéng)與安寧的空間。前進(jìn)的社會(huì)呼喚文明，科學(xué)的未來(lái)呼喚文明。當(dāng)前，我國(guó)正在進(jìn)行兩個(gè)文明建設(shè)，正努力躋身

6、于世界先進(jìn)民族之林。文明禮儀是精神文明的一個(gè)重要內(nèi)容，是一個(gè)人道德品質(zhì)的外在表現(xiàn)，是衡量一個(gè)人教育程度的標(biāo)尺，文明禮儀養(yǎng)成教育不僅是個(gè)體道德、品質(zhì)和個(gè)性形成的基礎(chǔ)教育，也是提高全民族道德素質(zhì)、振興民族精神及建設(shè)社會(huì)主義精神文明的基礎(chǔ)教育。再次是人與人溝通的需要。一個(gè)人在與他人交往時(shí)如果不講文明禮儀的話，就像一個(gè)人在大街上行走沒(méi)有穿衣服一樣的讓人胃疼！人與人之間的關(guān)系就像刺猬取暖，靠近了會(huì)扎著，離遠(yuǎn)了，又冷，所以保持一個(gè)好的距離，刺猬們才會(huì)和諧相處。而文明禮儀就是讓我們和諧相處的一個(gè)好距離。共和國(guó)的第一位總理，周恩來(lái)?？胺Q禮家之典范，儒雅之龍首。周總理像一個(gè)文明禮儀藝術(shù)家，在捍衛(wèi)祖國(guó)榮譽(yù)和利益的

7、同時(shí)也為贏得了國(guó)際聲譽(yù)。美國(guó)時(shí)代雜志對(duì)周總理是這樣說(shuō)的：周恩來(lái)是一個(gè)具有超人魅力的領(lǐng)袖人才。顯而易見(jiàn)，周恩來(lái)的魅力有一大部分是來(lái)自于他對(duì)文明禮儀的獨(dú)特演繹。而蘇聯(lián)的赫魯曉夫，當(dāng)他把他的的皮鞋砸在聯(lián)合國(guó)的桌子上時(shí)，世界人民就在心中給他準(zhǔn)備了一個(gè)地獄。綜上所述，文明禮儀對(duì)于國(guó)家的發(fā)展、人民的進(jìn)步、社會(huì)的和諧有著巨大的推動(dòng)作用。One, the current status of etiquette cultureChina has long been known as the "ancient civilization", "formal state", a

8、lso inherited the cultural tradition of the Chinese nation, show the humble, diligence, respect for elders and so on national characteristics. But now, the social civilization etiquette literacy remain missing,And increasingly serious. Red light, jaywalking, for instance, to squeeze the elevator; Sp

9、itting in public, littering, cackling faux pas that lack of self-discipline; In interpersonal recklessly, indifference, selfishness, lack of basic communication protocol; The pursuit of personal life concept and way of life is absolutely "self", the lack of ability to get along with their

10、surroundings; Won't greetings, don't know self-effacing, no respect for teachers; More troubling is that some people have no social order, behavior rakish, you don't regard others as a character; They urged others to respect yourself, but don't know respect yourself, respect others,

11、it is difficult to establish good relations of cooperation with others. This kind of behavior, and etiquette culture and spiritual civilization construction is harmonious, cannot but arouse people's attention.Second, the lack of etiquette culture reason analysis(1), the influence of personal gro

12、wth environment. Due to various reasons, our country citizen's social morality is still in a lower level. In the process of individual socialization, people were not enough demonstration and guidance from the society, this one is family influence is not strong enough; In the age of the students,

13、 on the other hand, the etiquette culture formed in the important stage, because of the impact of examination-oriented education, schools have no to give enough attention to the etiquette education. So, after enter society, a wash and already well etiquette literacy is lacking.(2), the influence of

14、foreign culture. In the integration of the world today, as people's perception of Chinese traditional culture is not enough, the fresh foreign culture is more likely to be their recognition and acceptance. Especially young people show for full contact, quickly adapt to foreign culture, positive

15、attitude, the younger generation is more and more advocate a "foreign festival" is a proof. Etiquette of development exist etiquette fusion process with other cultures, but if we don't stick to the inherent in the traditional culture, how can face the world again?(3), for the purpose o

16、f the utility's emphasis on practical value orientation, reflects the personality is the rational factors in today's society too much inflation, leading to "single" trend in the development of personality. Embodied in the manners, however, is: keep, self-discipline, respect people,

17、 tolerance and equality, sincere and modest "many" principle, with its emphasis on "rites, harmony".Second, the importance of etiquetteTo learn ritual, etiquette education is the first lesson of life. The etiquette must be through learning, cultivating and training, to become peo

18、ple's behavior habits. Every social member shall have the duty and responsibility, through learning and expressing manners, naturally become part of a group of the nation and. Once personal civilization etiquette form, is bound to play an important role in the social life.The first is the need o

19、f inheriting civilization. Our country is one of the world's four major ancient civilization, ancient Chinese nation enjoys the reputation of "formal state" since ancient times. In five thousand, the Chinese nation has a long history, has a long history, not only created a splendid cul

20、ture, and formed the ancient ethnic traditional virtues, in the broad and profound ethical and cultural heritage, a lot of good, traditional manners, until today there is still a very strong vitality, it is the precious spiritual wealth of the Chinese nation. We know that when children of jung let p

21、ears, respect for elders ; Yue fei for directions, quite know etiquette, tournament to tinker, riding across the world; Model of "ChengMenLiXue" is to respect teachers. Lao zi in the daodejing tells us "do one day people will speak moral one day". These, incisively and vividly em

22、bodies the etiquette of the Chinese moral. As the heritage of the Chinese nation people - young children, they have the responsibility to inherit and carry forward the Chinese nation culture essence, five thousand, making China "paradise" the laudatory name, the name as "formal state&

23、quot; renown at home and abroad.The second is the needs of the development of times. Nowadays, great changes have taken place in the world, human society is the civilization, peace and development as the mainstream of the information society, the increasingly frequent exchanges and cooperation betwe

24、en people, closely. In the process of exchanges and cooperation, whether people's etiquette, not only shows its accomplishment, quality of image, but also directly affect the enterprise, the success of the business. Day by day along with the development of The Times, people's mental developm

25、ent, everyone is looking for a full of love, sincerity, mutual understanding, warm and harmonious living environment, to seek full of civilization and friendly, sincere and peaceful space. Forward the call civilization, the future of science call civilization. At present, the ongoing two civilizatio

26、n construction in our country, is trying to world advanced nation community. Civilization etiquette is an important content of spiritual civilization, is a personal moral quality of the external performance, is to measure the degree of one's education scale, the civilization etiquette nurturance

27、 education is not only the basis of individual moral formation, quality and character education, and improve the moral quality, the revitalization of the national spirit and ethical education the basis of the construction of socialist spiritual civilization.Again is the need of human communication. When a person in the interaction with others, if you don't speak the civilization etiquette is like a person walking in the street without wear clothes to let a person pain in my stomach! The relationship of the heating is like a hedgehog, will close to the firm, from fa