從電影《美麗人生》看完美男人形象

1、從電影?美麗人生?看完美男人形象abstrathatanafiltellus?differentpeplehavedifferentpinins.thereareuntlessfilsdesribingthe,hisfil,theriterfindsaperfetiagefan,aperfetanshuldntjustbesuessfulinareer,butpayreattentintbuildingaharniusfailyithfailyebersand

2、shuldbetherelianeandspiritualainstayfrhisifeandtheprtetivegdfrhishild.anhasbeenendedithanyrespnsibilitiesandtitles,butintheriterspinin,failyrespnsibilityshuldbethestiprtantneandthetitlefhusbandandfathershuldbethehappiestnes.keyrdsperfetan;faily;respnsibility;lve摘要一部電影能告訴人們什么？這是個仁者見仁，智者見智的問題。描繪二戰(zhàn)的電影不

3、勝枚舉，但是沒有哪一部電影像?美麗人生?一樣讓人感受到的只有濃濃的愛，而沒有其它二戰(zhàn)電影中血腥的大屠殺。在這部電影中筆者看到了一個完美男人的形象，一個完美的男人所要具備的不僅僅是事業(yè)上的成功，更重要的是和家人一起創(chuàng)造一個美滿和諧的家庭，做妻子的依靠和精神支柱，是孩子的保護(hù)神。男人被賦予了很多的責(zé)任和稱謂，但是在筆者眼里，家庭責(zé)任才應(yīng)該是一個男人最重要的責(zé)任，丈夫和父親才應(yīng)該是最幸福的稱謂。關(guān)鍵詞完美男人;家庭;責(zé)任;愛intrdutinafterseeingafil,differentpeplehavedifferentpinins.thereareanyfilsdesribingthesen

4、drldar,anyfhihephasizentheinhuanityfnazi.thsefilsarefilledithsanguinaryseneshihexpresstheslaughter.inrdinarypeplesipressin,thesendrldarishrribleeryespeiallyfrthejeishpeple.theaudienesarenvulsedbythebldysenesagainandagain.hever,ntallfthediretrshsethesaeangle,thereisadiretrhsingtuseantherangletrevealt

5、hearandtprdueafilalledlifeisbeautiful.ithaslesstdiththehlaustbutretdiththehuanfeelingsandthebeautifulrelatinshipbeteenahusbandandhisife,afatherandhissn.afterathingthefil,seaudienesaybehappyandseaybesad.butnsuhapieefarthaseverbefrebinedlaughterithtearsfsadnessinandafterthevie.theriterdesntknhatfeelin

6、gstheaudieneshaveafterathingthefillifeisbeautiful,butshefeelsreallysad.andshealsfindsthequalitiesfaperfetanfrtheatinsftheherguid.asuessfuliagefrahusbandandfatherispresentedbyguidperfetly.aperfetanshuldntnlybesuessfulinareer,butalspayreattentintbuildingaharniusfailyithfailyebersandshuldbetherelianean

7、dspiritualainstayfrhisifeandtheprtetivegdfrhishild.anatyfthefillifeisbeautifula.thereativebakgrundandainpltsfthefilthefillifeisbeautifulseleteditsaterialfrthejeishlifeinnentratinapfnazi,hihasthestrearkablepitureintherldar.in1930s,initaly,aarefreejeishbkkeepernaedguidstartsafairytalelifebyurtingandar

8、ringalvelyanfranearbyity.henguidvesfrtheuntrytalargetusantnherehefallsinlveithashlteaherdra.butsheisalreadyengagedtantherguy,andguiduseshishurandisdturthis“prinessbypppingupatunexpetedties.draabandnsherfianandhsesguid.thenthefiljupsaheadtthelastnthsfthear.guidisarriedtdraandtheyhaveasnalledgisue.gui

9、dandgisuearesenttanentratinapbeauseftheirjeishrigin.dra,hdeeplylveshishusbandandvluntarilyfllshi,butissenttantherpartftheap.althughtheenandenareseparatedinthenentratinapandahildisingreatperil.guidfindshisspeialaystuniateithdraandthidegisue.inanatteptthldhisfailytgetherandhelphissnsurvivethehrrrsfaje

10、ishnentratinap,guidiaginesthatthehlaustisagae,andthegrandprizefrthehapinisarealtank.finally,attheendfthefil,littlegisueheers:“ireallyinthetank.thenheandhisareresuedbytheaerianslider.lifeisbeautifulisaniprtantfil;itistriuphant,tielessandsublie.itanagestentertainandeduatetheaudienesithitsptentbinatinf

11、hur,pignany,isdanddignity.rbertbenignihastakenpurehnrandturneditintalvestrybeteenaanandaan，beteenafatherandhissn.asanatr,benignianagesithhisiseandsipleperfranetaketheaudieneslaughinthetragisituatins.b.thedifferentanglebeteenthefillifeisbeautifulandtherfilsdesribingthejeishlivesduringtherldarthereare

12、tanyfilsdesribingthelivesfjeishduringtherldar,inhihshindlerslistdiretedbystevenspielbergisthestfausne.afterathingthefillifeisbeautiful,theauthrfundthatithaslesstdiththehlaustandretdiththehuanfeelingsandthebeautifulrelatinshipbeteenahusbandandhisife,afatherandhissn.thehlaustprvidestheultiatentextthat

13、bringsandhighlightsthestryandaddsyetantherdeepdiensintthevie.nsuhapieefarthaseverbefrebinedlaughterithtearsfsadnessinandafterthevie.thefilhelpsinbringingtheaudienestastatefindaayfrreality,fusingnthefeelingsgeneratedbyfrgettingabutallexternaleventsanddevelpentsfthear.despitethat,theviedesntfailtpintu

14、taneleentfthenazipsyhlgydenstratedbythedtrhasbsessedithriddles.lifeisreallybeautifulasyuathguidsrelentlesseffrtstakealvelyexitingexperienefthenentratinapthissn.yugetexhaustedjustathinghigingthrughhispainfuldayandakeyusileashespeaksthissnandakeshilaugh.hatafailyshuldbeafailybeginsithaanandaan,eahreat

15、edinthegdsiage.afailyshuldbeaplaehereyuang,natterhatyuhavednerngandstillbelvedbyyurfailyebers.inafaily,theanplaysthestiprtantrle,heistherelianeandspiritualainstayfrhisifeandtheprtetivegdfrhishild.aseveryneknsaanshuldearntsupprthisfaily.thereisndubtthatfailyshuldbeinthestiprtantpsitinineverynesind.th

16、efailyunitbeginshenaanshallleavehisfatherandtherandheleavesthisife.thisisapresentatinftheansitentthisife.thustheybeeneflesh.htpeplebeeneisagreatysteryinlife.hentpeplereateanefaily,iteanstheyarebrnagain.andthearriagehelpsusunderstandhafailylifeshuldbe.theupleshuldbelyalteahther.thehusbandserveshisife

17、bygivinghislifefrher.thisdesnteanhebeesherservantandjupathereverybekandall.rather,heservesherbylvingher-beherrelianeandspiritualainstay.helvesherrethanhiself.headireshertalentsandabilitiesand“praisesher.ntnlydeshetellherthatsheisatreasurefrhi,buthetellstherpeplehatanderfulifehehas.takeyurfailyrehapp

18、y,takealnglkathatispreventingyufrhavingthisidealfailyrelatinship.franyfailies,theresjustafixedpatternfnn-uniatinhenshedulesdifferandathingtelevisinabsrbsthelittletietheyighthavetgether.andinthefaily,fathershuldbetheprtetivegdfrhishild.afterthebirthfhildintherld,theanplayshisrleasaprtetivegd.natterha

19、thappens,heuldlveandprtethishildren.theprdigalsnlefthishe,squanderingallhisney,yet,heneveryneelsehadturnedaayfrhi,hisfatherstilleledhiheithpen,lvingars.thequalitiesfperfetanasaperfetan,intherrds,asuessfulan,heshuldntnlybesuessfulinareer,butalsaintainhisfailytbehappyandharnius.anydefetsfthetsidesisha

20、rdtaeptablefraperfetan.anhasbeenendedithanytitles:leaderfthesiety,anagerfthepany,snfparents,relianefrifeandprtetivegdfrhildren.a.thehleiagefaantheiagefanisindeedakindfrespnsibility.akindfrespnsibilitytardssiety,tardsifeandtardshildren.firstandupst,asaan,heshuldplayaniprtantrleinthesietyhihanbealleds

21、ialrespnsibility.tsedegree,anssialiageinflueneshisdevelpentfareerandfuture.everybdyplaysdifferentkindsfrlesduringdifferentperidsallthrughhislife.anddifferentrlesenduetheithdifferentrespnsibilities.itsndubtthatanisrequestedtundertakereinthesiety,anyfthearensideredtbetheridgepleandainstayandshuldberea

22、dytntributettheuntryallthetie.atthesaetie,theyarealstheainstayfthefaily,heshuldtakearefparents,ifeandhildren.severynebelngstthefailyasellasthesiety.b.anssialiageandrespnsibilityenareendedithreperinthesiety,atthesaetie,theyshuldfaerepressure.inuruntry,theiprtantpsitinsalstbelngten,theyarekeyleadersan

23、hepanies,enalsplayiprtantrles,theyareanagers,diretrsrprinipals.infat,respnsibilityisequaltpressure.thereiprtantpsitinhehas,raditinalthughts,anshuldpayreattentintthedevelpentandadvaneentfthesiety.htntributetthesiety?ntallftheenareleadersftheun

24、tryranagersfthepany.asanrdinaryan,justdinghatheandisallright.everynehashisertainpsitinandrespnsibility.ntnlyshuldtheleadersandanagerspayattentintthedevelpentfthesiety,butalseveryneshuldtrieshisbesttntributetthesiety.ansfailyiageandrespnsibilitypeplebelngtthesiety,andrediretly,peplebelngtfaily.aninte

25、gralfailynsistsfaanandaan,intherrds,fhusbandandife,hefrersetin,heriterspintfvie,theansfailyiageandrespnsibilityisreiprtanttthe.aperfetanshuldntnlybesuessfulrgreatinthesiety,bu

26、talstrieshisbesttakehisfailyebershappy.itsellknnthatnlynesinglepepleantpseafaily.natterhsuessfultheanisinthesiety,heisalsafailureithutanintegralfaily.aperfetanshuldpayreattentintbuildingaharniusfailyithfailyebersandshuldbetherelianeandspiritualainstayfrhisifeandtheprtetivegdfrhishild,butshuldntjustb

27、esuessfulinareer.lveissupernatural,hentpersnsfallinlveitheahther,theyillbegintpseanefailyfrtheirn.anidealhusbandangivehisifethefeelingfsafetyandredibility.henaanisarried,anyfhisfaultsillbeexpseddaybyday.thehusbandshuldbeapableasellaspratial,andatthesaetiebensideratefrhisife.naely,anidealhusbandshuld

28、dellbthinareerandfaily.rever,heshuldalsbetherelianeandspiritualainstayfrhisife.infailyeduatin,enarensideredtbereiprtant.theytakearefthehildrenandeduatethesinethebabiesarebrn.butintheriterspinin,fatheruldntkeepaayfrfailyeduatin.itsreprtedthatstfthenbelprizeinnersareinfluenedbytheirfathersdeeplysineth

29、eirhildhd.theiageffatherisnsideredtbeiprtantinthefratinfthehildrenspersnality.iththeapanyfthefather,thehildrenillbeeretughandrebrave.tbeasuessfulfatherandtheprtetivegdfrthehildisalsanessentialqualifiatinfraperfetan.sasaan,heshuldpayattentintteahingthehildren.senegativephenenaandtheirslutinsa.hihisre

30、iprtant,failyrareer?nadays,underthefastdevelpent,theadultspayuhattentinttheirareerandneglettheuniatinithfailyebers.henaskedabuttheirpininsfareerandfaily,peplealaysrespnddifferently.sepeplensideritreiprtanttpursuetheirareer,hiletherearealaystherpepleharguethatfailyshuldbethestiprtantneinneslife.itges

31、hefirstplae,areerangiveusanaitliven.ithutareer,uhfurlivingtieillbeertainlyasted.hatsre,areeranprvideusithaeanstliven.stfthepeplegettheirinefrajb.nthetherhand,failyisalsanindispensablepartflife,asanypepleilladitit.failyisalaysregardedasaplaeherepepleane

32、sapefrtrublesinlife.inadditin,pepleanbtainasensefbelngingfrfaily.ithutit,anyneillfeellnelyanddesperate.nadays,itisasietyfilledithneyandper,anypeple,espeiallytheenpursuetheatallsts.inrdertgetreneyanddinatingper,heireyes,failyanberegardedasa

33、htelrjustaplaetrest.butinfat,natterhrihaanis,heriterspinin,areerandfailyarentinppsitinteahther.rathertheyanbebineditheahthersthatneslifeanbeebetterandbetter.therefre,itsntahiebeteenrightandrng,but

34、nebeteenidealandpratial.itsnusetspenduhretieinrkinginsteadfaringabutfailyebers.natterhsuessfulaanisintherk,heisstillalserifnthavingahappyfaily.perfetfailylifeisthefinalgalfreveryne.b.arriagesbeingntnlyfrlve,butfrbenefit“huhneydyuhave?dyuhaveabeautifulhuse?hatsthebrandfyurar?thesequestinsarefailiartu

35、sandtheyarefrequentlyusedindailylife.nadays,hentpersnsfallinlveitheahther,theyshuldpayuhattentintthereality.inseasins,anylversanntgetarriednlybeauseflakingtheartialsupprt.inlastgeneratin,peplegetarriedandreateanefailyjustbeauseflve.butpeplesattitudetardslveandfailyhashangedgraduallyiththedevelpingft

36、hesiety.anypeplehldtheideathatneyisuhreiprtantinarriagethanetin.everynehashisnideatardsarriageandlve,eshuldntritiizetheirpinins.eanntbutaditthatlveandarriageantlastlngithuttheaterialsupprt.butthisdesnteanthatbenefitisreiprtantthanetin.pepleshuldestablishtherightattitudetardstherelatinshipbeteenlvean

37、dbenefit.itsellknnthatfailyisthefinalarrangeentfreveryne.thebiggestdifferenebeteenheandhtelisthathtelisjustaplaefrpepletresthileheisfullflve.sthefailyneedsalltheeberstanagefritsntthebusinessfrnesinglepersn.。thehildrensbeingindifferentandrebellius,ntantingtuniateithparentsnadays,reandreparentsfindtha

38、ttheirhildrenbeeindifferentandrebellius.faingsuhprbles,heirpinins,theyhavespenduhneyinsupprtingtheireduatinandtherespnsibilityfrtrainingthehildrenhavebeenpassedttheshlsandteahers.sifthehildrenbeerebellius,theparentsillblaetheshlsandteahersiediatel

39、y.stfthedesntrealizethatitsthedefetsfthefailyeduatin.anditsalsthedefetsfthehlehinesefailyeduatin.talkingabutthedefets,eansuarizetheasthefllingpints:firstly,dtingnthehildrenandnegletingtheeduatinfnn-intelligeneeleents.tlvethehildrenistheessentialityftheparents,butssetingistheriginallvereatingbythehua

40、nbeings.thedtingdegreefhineseparentstardstheirhildrenissituatedinthefirstseveralplaesallarundtherld.suhkindflveisabnralinthehuanbeings.insuhnditin,theabnrallveillbeenlargedandsuhignraneillbehangedinthains,andfavrillbehangedinttrap.thestrithineseparentsnegletingtheeduatinfnn-intelligeneeleentisanther

41、hisaspet,ardingttheirnthinkingde,anyparentssnuffutthehildrensnn-intelligenteleentsinludingentality,etin,vlitinandinterest.threerfuryearsldrevenearlier,hildrenarefredtlearnhineseharaters,reitepesandpratieatheatis.playingisthenaturefrthehildrenhileignredbytheparents.th

42、ehildrensself-respet,self-nfideneandtheabilityfreatingisdestryedbylearningdeadknledgeblindlyandpassivelyundertherdersftheparents.hever,hildisindeedthehild,natterhanyexusesintheirheartsthatesuhkindfteahingde,theyuldntfindanyexusetdefytheirparents.theyuldnlybeytheparentshgiveintthehinesetraditinalultu

43、re.sendly,ignringtheestablishentfthepersnalityfindependene.thereisaninterestingstryabuteduatinfusingnthedifferenesbeteenhineseandesternfailyeduatin.henahinesehildgiveshisdraingttheparents,heillask:“yusee,isypiturelikernt?inthesaease,thefreignhildillasktheirparents:“isypituregdrnt?althughtheresnlylit

44、tlediffereneinusingseveralrds.,hesaenditin,therearetdifferentansers,thentkindsfeduatinalannersandthughtsarebvius.itsellknnthatthehinesepepleareisesineanientties,butitsalsellknnthattheylaktheabilitiesfreating,variatinandpetitin.parentsarethefirstteahersfrthehildren,butifth

45、eteahersareeduatedinsuhanabnralay,theirldthughtshaventbeenhangediththedevelpentfthesiety.henthetaskfeduatinturnsinttheirrespnsibilities,heriterspinin,thehinesehildrenhavepenet

46、rativeunderstandingandfeeling,itsntthefaultftheparents,butthedefetfhinesefailyeduatinsyste.thirdly,fatherisfaraayfrthefailyeduatin.inhinesetraditinalulture,enarensideredtsupprtthefaily,hehildhd,ithutthehelpffather,thehildrenillbeetiid.butthereisantherphenennin

47、therfailiesthatenreallytakepartinfailyeduatin,buttheethdsarentadvisable.theyhldtheideathatgdhildrenaretrainedbythestik.itisaterribletransigratinthatthehildrenaretrainedbyaningandtheyillusethesaeethdsttraintheirhildrenafterbeingparents.theparentsshuldfindprblesfrtheselvesinsteadfblaingthehildrenandte

48、ahers.failyistherespnsibilityfreveryeber,enshuldntbefreefrfailyeduatin.infat,fatherplaysareiprtantrleinthefratinfthehildrenspersnalities.enhavebeenendedithanyrnsintherld,butthernffathershuldbethestiprtantne.d.seusefulethdsfrthefatherstheriterpaysreattentinttheiagefaanasafatherandtheaudienesanlearnse

49、usefulethdsfrtheherguid.thejeishpeplehavetheirspeialaysttraintheirhildren.aseveryneknsthatjeishpeplearethestisepepleintherld.theppulatinfjeishpeplesharesnly0.2%fitintherld,hever,nsnearly20%inthenbelprizeinners,hihinsrespetfrtherpeple.ithasdeepnnetiniththeireduatinstyle,espeiallytheirfailyeduatin.frt

50、hefillifeisbeautiful,theaudienesanlearnsedifferentaystteahtheirhildren.asajeishfather,guiduseshisspeifiaysteduategisue.firstly,behurus.guidalaysakeshissnlaughinthedailylife.heknshataniprtantrlelaughterplaysintheirlife.beingptiistiisatraditinalentalityfrthejeishpeple.letsfirsttalkabutthedistintivehar

51、presentedbythehurfrjeishpeple.asitisknntall,jeishpeplesufferedfruntlessruifixinandtribulatin,beinghelessfralngtie,theyereannealedbysuhlivingnditinsandhurastheuniquereturn.tanysufferingshadtheyundergne,lnglastingtearsandanuldntrelievetheirisery,nlylaughteranprtettheandnlylaughterandispelbitterness.th

52、ejeriestgd,butsilestthepepleftherld;silingnthefae,butryinginthebttftheirhearts.stheirlaughterisfillediththiksadnessandfullfirnyandritiistardslife.theyakefunftheselvesusingtheirnlaughter,purifyingtheirsul,alleviatingpainandsufferings,entertainingindandbdy,pursuingdignityflife.natterhterriblethenditin

53、is,thejeishpeplealaysfindaystakefunfthenditin.justlikeguidinthenentratinap,heanakehissnhappyallthetie.iftheritererethelittlegisue,sheuldhavetheideathatthelifefthenentratinapisjustagaefritsfullbeauseitsfullffunsandinterestingthings.sendly,hevie,theherguidsintelligeneisbvius.henlittlegisueast

54、iredandantedtgiveupthe“petitin,guidjustusedseveralleversentenestlethistaytherevluntarilyandhappily.jeishpeplesintelligeneisellknn,theyvehereandthereanddntsettleinafixedplae.thankstthentinuusving,theyanlearnneknledgefrtherpepleandkeeptheadvanedallthetie.jeishpepleappreiatetheideathatisdisreiprtanttha

55、nknledge,theynsiderthepersnhjustastersknledgeandlaksisdasaflassharriesaltfbks.injeishpeplespinin,suhkindfpeplednthaveabilitytusetheknledgetpratieeventhughtheyarefullfknledge.ifsenekeepsnlearningallkindsfknledgehiledesntdigestit,itisjustlikeseneninganybkshilentusingthe,bthftheareasting.sjeishpepleknt

56、hatisdshuldbeused.hentheyvetaneplae,theyjustergetheselvesiththelalpepleandlearnadvanedknledgeandtehniquesfrthe.thehistryftheirvingisjustthehistryftheiradvaning.jeishpeplehavetheabilitythangeknledgeintealth,sitisndubtthattheyanturnupasriheverytie.theisdakesthegrupagainandagain.guidknstheiprtanefthein

57、telligene,anditaffetslittlegisuestepbystep.thirdly,interestisthebestteaher.henthehildrenareyung,theydntkntheiprtaneflearning.nlyinterestingthingsanattrattheirattentin,guidknshatgisuelikes,shetellsalie.hetellsgisuethatthelifefthenentratinapisjustafunnygaeandtheinnerillgetarealtankasprizeafterthegae.a

58、fterathingthefil,theaudienesaythinkthatitistheliethatprtetslittlegisue,butnthetherhand,eansaythatitistheinterestthatsaveshi.suppselittlegisuedesntlikethetankandisntinterestedinplayinggae,erestisthebestteaher,itisjustthehildrensdesirefsething.nlyhenhehasdesire,h

59、eilltryhisbesttgetthingshelikes,andheillfeelhappyinsteadffeelingtired.lastbutnttheleast,theperfexapleisgreat.henjesteahtheirhildren,theyalaysenuragethetsettleadeltfll.theythinkthatparentsandfailyebersarethediretdelsfrtheirhildren,stheypayuhattentintgettingnellitheahther.therelatinshipbeteenthehusbandandifesetsthestagefrhildre