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westernTheancientChinesetablemannersModernChinesetablemanners5.TableMannersinSouthKorea6.TableMannersinJapan7.FrenchTableMannersTablemannersTheModernEaster1Behaviorsometimessignalsaperson'sstatus,culture,andfamilyeducationtoothers.Becausethecustomofusingbanquetstosolveproblemsinbusiness,forfriendship,andeveninofficialdombytheChinesepeople,oneshouldpayattentiontomannersatthetable.Whytablemannersaresoimportant?Behaviorsometimessignalsap2TheModernEasterntableManners

TheModernEasterntableMann3tableetiquette

LadyfirstElderfirstComefromtheleftofthechairHaveagoodposturetableeti4Theimportantguestusuallysitontheleftofthehost/hostessAvoidtwomenortwoladiessittogetherTheimportantguestusuallysi5tableManners西方禮儀餐桌禮儀課件6HaveabreakAfterthemealHaveabreakAfterthemeal7ServingorderStarter

maincoursedrinkssoupdessertServingorderStartermain8startersspecialcuisineSaltyandsourVerylittle

startersspecialcuisine9MainCourse主菜BeefandchickenSomesauceHighcalorieMainCourse主菜Beefandchicken10Washyouhandsbeforeeachmeal.Knifeandspoonareplacedtotherightoftheplate.Theforkisontheleft.Washyouhandsbeforeeachmea113.Openthenapkinandputitonyourlapbeforeeating.3.Openthenapkinandputit124.Talktothepeoplebesideyou,butdon’tspeaktooloudly.5.Youcanuseyourhandtoeatchicken.6.Youeatonlyfromyourplate.4.Talktothepeoplebesidey13TablemannersintheancientwesternTablemannersintheancient14Origin&DevelopmentOriginatedfromMerovingiandynastytheCharlemagneempireofRomeWhentheItaliancultureeffectedFrenchOrigin&DevelopmentOriginatedf15ExampleROMAN------lietoeattheGauls-----sittoeatFrenchman----puthandsontableBritisher--------puthandsonlapExampleROMAN------lietoeat16TheancientChinesetablemannersBeforeamealDiningAfteramealTheancientChinesetablemann17BeforeamealMaleandfemaleareseparatedSeatorderHowtoplacethefoodServethedishesWorshipBeforeamealMaleandfemalea18DiningChopsticksandspoonFemalenosoupanddrinkCoverthemouthwithsleeveEatwiththehost’s“permission”Can’tdrinksauceCan’tchewtheboneEatuntilalltheguestsfinisheatingDiningChopsticksandspoonFe19AfteramealCleantablewareLeavethetableAfteramealCleantablewareLea20ModernChinesetablemannersDressetiquetteTheseatPourtheteaChoosedishesfrommenuHavemealsDrinkingLeavethetableModernChinesetablemannersD21DressetiquetteDonotdressinamessScantily-cladTooshortTootightExaggeratedwearingDressetiquetteDonotdressin22TheSeatArriveearly…wait..telltheguestsseatEldersfirstBusinessdinner..boss..mainseat…customersareinvited,followthehostBeingseated,startfromtheleftsideTheelbow,notreliable,chairbackTheSeatArriveearly…wait..tel23Themainseat,facingthedoorThemainseat,facingthedoor24pourtheteaCleantheteasetAmount,appropriateBringgueststea,bothhandsInatimelymanner,drinkteaoffpourtheteaCleantheteaset25ChoosedishesfromthemenuTimepermits,takethemenufortheguesttocirculateAttendabanquet,notbetooactiveAskother’sflavoroffoodDonotaskforasupplyChoosedishesfromthemenuTim26HavemealsStopmakingunnecessarynoiseDonottalkwithmouthfullDonotplaywiththechopsticks,..pointtoothersEatslowlyavoidtouchingadjacentseatFromtheplateclosetoyou,notfromothers’,…searchingTrynottopickteethinpublicHavemealsStopmakingunnecess27drinkingProposeatoaststandup,bothhandsholdsthecuprighthand,cupbottomlefthand,lowerFirstpuring,fortheguestspersonallyClinkglass,putinagoodword

drinkingProposeatoast28LeavethetableLeaveinthemiddle,apologize,notproclaimloudlyRemembertothankLeavethetableLeaveinthemi29TableMannersinSouthKorea

TableMannersinSouthKorea30●Man-legscrossed

woman-getdownontherightknee

(weartraditionaldress)

sitwithtwolegstucked(usually)

●Donottakeupthebowlanddonottouchthebowlwithmouth.

●Putthelefthandunderthetable,andtherighthandtakethespoon.

●Thespoonismoreimportantthanthechopsticks.

●Man-legscrossed

woman-ge31●Donotkeepthespoonandthechopsticksonhandstogether.

●Drinksoupfirst,andtheneatotherfood.

●Donotmakeasound,anddonotletspoonorchopsticksknockthebowl.

●Eatsharedfoodafterpickinguptoeachowndish.

●Wrappedinpaperquietlywhentheboneorfishboneinmouth.●Donotkeepthespoonandthe32●Donottoofastortooslow,keepthesamepacewithotherpeople.

●Drinkwitheldersonsideways

●Donotholdoffwiththehandwheneldersaddfoodtoone,theyoungershouldnodheadtoshowappreciation.

●Donottalkbusinesstopics.●Donottoofastortooslow,k33TableMannersinJapanTableMannersinJapan34Whatshouldpayattentiontowhenyoueatsashimi1Todiggingoutsomemustardfromthesashimidishandstiringevenlywiththesoyinasoyplate2、PutsomemustardsticktosashiminanddipitinsoysauceHowtousemustardwheneatsashimiPuttheflavordishestoyourchestWhatshouldpayattentiontow35Japanesesaycheerswhendrinkingisjustakindofidioms,isnotreallytodrinkafullcupofwine.TheJapanesecheersJapanesesaycheerswhendrink36HowtheshoesshouldbeputwhenyouentertheJapanesguestroomFirst,takeoffyourshoesfacingtheroomSecond，Squattingincorridor,pickeduptheshoesbacktoputinside,lestotherskickedaccidentallywhenwalkingDonotcovetconvenient,it'snotpolitethatbacktoroomtotakeofftheshoes.Howtheshoesshouldbeputwh37HowtoarrangeseatintheroomGenerallythelocationofthefurthestfromthedooristheseatofhonour,bossorguestshouldsitinthischairLowerpositionorseniority,sitintheplacenearesttothedoorHowtoarrangeseatintheroo38Whenotherstreat,shouldweeatallfoodWhereasinJapan,ifyouintentionallyleftsomefood,masterwillworryaboutwhetherthefooddeliciousornot.InJapan,whenotherstreat,stillhadbetternotleftovers.Whenotherstreat,shouldweea39SomepartsneedtobeawareofwhenhavedinnerDonotmakericebowlorsoupbowlonthetablewhenyoueattingriceordrinkingsoup.YoushouldtousehandpickedupthebowltoeatGenerally,useServingchopstickswhenhavingamealtogetherWhenyouneedtoaddrice,donoteatallriceinyoubowl.JapaneseisusedtoleavingalittlericeSomepartsneedtobeawareof40FrenchTableMannersFrenchTableManners41Thecontentofdinnerasaladwithvinaigretteforthestarter,maincourse,cheesecourse,dessert,andcoffee.Thecontentofdinner42AboutnapkinOncetheladyofthehouseplaceshernapkininherlap,otherguestsshouldfollowsuit.Placeyournapkininyourlapimmediatelyafterbeingseated.AboutnapkinOncetheladyoft43BreadBreadisplaceddirectlyonthetableclothYourbreadshouldgointheupperleftedgeofyourplate.Tearyourbreadintoabite-sizedpiecebeforeeatingit.Aftereachcourse,youshouldwipeyourplatewithapieceofbread.Useapieceofbreadonyourfork.BreadBreadisplaceddirectly44SaltIntheU.S.,thesaltandpepperare“married,”InFrance,yousimplypassthesalt.Onlyme!SaltIntheU.S.,thesaltand45summarysummary46Goodmannersissounusual.Yourelegantgesturesbetweenthetable,cangiveagoodimpressiontoothers.Goodmannersnotonlyistherespectforothers,butalsoreflectsthepersonalqualities.tablemannernowisdefinitelythepersonmustlearn.Goodmannersissounusual.You47lastbutnotleast!Don'tplaymobilephoneduringdinnerlastbutnotleast!Don'tplay48TablemannersTheModernEasterntableMannersTablemannersintheancient

westernTheancientChinesetablemannersModernChinesetablemanners5.TableMannersinSouthKorea6.TableMannersinJapan7.FrenchTableMannersTablemannersTheModernEaster49Behaviorsometimessignalsaperson'sstatus,culture,andfamilyeducationtoothers.Becausethecustomofusingbanquetstosolveproblemsinbusiness,forfriendship,andeveninofficialdombytheChinesepeople,oneshouldpayattentiontomannersatthetable.Whytablemannersaresoimportant?Behaviorsometimessignalsap50TheModernEasterntableManners

TheModernEasterntableMann51tableetiquette

LadyfirstElderfirstComefromtheleftofthechairHaveagoodposturetableeti52Theimportantguestusuallysitontheleftofthehost/hostessAvoidtwomenortwoladiessittogetherTheimportantguestusuallysi53tableManners西方禮儀餐桌禮儀課件54HaveabreakAfterthemealHaveabreakAfterthemeal55ServingorderStarter

maincoursedrinkssoupdessertServingorderStartermain56startersspecialcuisineSaltyandsourVerylittle

startersspecialcuisine57MainCourse主菜BeefandchickenSomesauceHighcalorieMainCourse主菜Beefandchicken58Washyouhandsbeforeeachmeal.Knifeandspoonareplacedtotherightoftheplate.Theforkisontheleft.Washyouhandsbeforeeachmea593.Openthenapkinandputitonyourlapbeforeeating.3.Openthenapkinandputit604.Talktothepeoplebesideyou,butdon’tspeaktooloudly.5.Youcanuseyourhandtoeatchicken.6.Youeatonlyfromyourplate.4.Talktothepeoplebesidey61TablemannersintheancientwesternTablemannersintheancient62Origin&DevelopmentOriginatedfromMerovingiandynastytheCharlemagneempireofRomeWhentheItaliancultureeffectedFrenchOrigin&DevelopmentOriginatedf63ExampleROMAN------lietoeattheGauls-----sittoeatFrenchman----puthandsontableBritisher--------puthandsonlapExampleROMAN------lietoeat64TheancientChinesetablemannersBeforeamealDiningAfteramealTheancientChinesetablemann65BeforeamealMaleandfemaleareseparatedSeatorderHowtoplacethefoodServethedishesWorshipBeforeamealMaleandfemalea66DiningChopsticksandspoonFemalenosoupanddrinkCoverthemouthwithsleeveEatwiththehost’s“permission”Can’tdrinksauceCan’tchewtheboneEatuntilalltheguestsfinisheatingDiningChopsticksandspoonFe67AfteramealCleantablewareLeavethetableAfteramealCleantablewareLea68ModernChinesetablemannersDressetiquetteTheseatPourtheteaChoosedishesfrommenuHavemealsDrinkingLeavethetableModernChinesetablemannersD69DressetiquetteDonotdressinamessScantily-cladTooshortTootightExaggeratedwearingDressetiquetteDonotdressin70TheSeatArriveearly…wait..telltheguestsseatEldersfirstBusinessdinner..boss..mainseat…customersareinvited,followthehostBeingseated,startfromtheleftsideTheelbow,notreliable,chairbackTheSeatArriveearly…wait..tel71Themainseat,facingthedoorThemainseat,facingthedoor72pourtheteaCleantheteasetAmount,appropriateBringgueststea,bothhandsInatimelymanner,drinkteaoffpourtheteaCleantheteaset73ChoosedishesfromthemenuTimepermits,takethemenufortheguesttocirculateAttendabanquet,notbetooactiveAskother’sflavoroffoodDonotaskforasupplyChoosedishesfromthemenuTim74HavemealsStopmakingunnecessarynoiseDonottalkwithmouthfullDonotplaywiththechopsticks,..pointtoothersEatslowlyavoidtouchingadjacentseatFromtheplateclosetoyou,notfromothers’,…searchingTrynottopickteethinpublicHavemealsStopmakingunnecess75drinkingProposeatoaststandup,bothhandsholdsthecuprighthand,cupbottomlefthand,lowerFirstpuring,fortheguestspersonallyClinkglass,putinagoodword

drinkingProposeatoast76LeavethetableLeaveinthemiddle,apologize,notproclaimloudlyRemembertothankLeavethetableLeaveinthemi77TableMannersinSouthKorea

TableMannersinSouthKorea78●Man-legscrossed

woman-getdownontherightknee

(weartraditionaldress)

sitwithtwolegstucked(usually)

●Donottakeupthebowlanddonottouchthebowlwithmouth.

●Putthelefthandunderthetable,andtherighthandtakethespoon.

●Thespoonismoreimportantthanthechopsticks.

●Man-legscrossed

woman-ge79●Donotkeepthespoonandthechopsticksonhandstogether.

●Drinksoupfirst,andtheneatotherfood.

●Donotmakeasound,anddonotletspoonorchopsticksknockthebowl.

●Eatsharedfoodafterpickinguptoeachowndish.

●Wrappedinpaperquietlywhentheboneorfishboneinmouth.●Donotkeepthespoonandthe80●Donottoofastortooslow,keepthesamepacewithotherpeople.

●Drinkwitheldersonsideways

●Donotholdoffwiththehandwheneldersaddfoodtoone,theyoungershouldnodheadtoshowappreciation.

●Donottalkbusinesstopics.●Donottoofastortooslow,k81TableMannersinJapanTableMannersinJapan82Whatshouldpayattentiontowhenyoueatsashimi1Todiggingoutsomemustardfromthesashimidishandstiringevenlywiththesoyinasoyplate2、PutsomemustardsticktosashiminanddipitinsoysauceHowtousemustardwheneatsashimiPuttheflavordishestoyourchestWhatshouldpayattentiontow83Japanesesaycheerswhendrinkingisjustakindofidioms,isnotreallytodrinkafullcupofwine.TheJapanesecheersJapanesesaycheerswhendrink84HowtheshoesshouldbeputwhenyouentertheJapanesguestroomFirst,takeoffyourshoesfacingtheroomSecond，Squattingincorridor,pickeduptheshoesbacktoputinside,lestotherskickedaccidentallywhenwalkingDonotcovetconvenient,it'snotpolitethatbacktoroomtotakeofftheshoes.Howtheshoesshouldbeputwh85HowtoarrangeseatintheroomGenerallythelocationofthefurthestfromthedooristheseatofhonour,bossorguestshouldsitinthischairLowerpositionorseniority,sitintheplacenearesttothedoorHowtoarrangeseatintheroo86Whenotherstreat,shouldweeatallfoodWhereasinJapan,ifyouintentionallyleftsomefood,masterwillworryaboutwhetherthefooddeliciousornot.InJapan,whenotherstreat,stillhadbettern