成功與幸福課件

SuccessandHappiness信琳琳熊良武汪雄峰汪勝Success信琳琳Sometimessuccesswouldberathersimple.winningagameissuccess;

gettingahighgradeintheexamissuccess;makinganewfriendissuccess.Sometimessuccesswouldberathercomplex.Justlikeasaying:”Successistokeepmovingforward,evenifitisjustalittlestep.”Successmeansdifferentthingstodifferentpeople.Itevenmeansdifferentthingstothesamepersonatdifferenttimes.PersonalsuccesscomesindifferentformsFinancialSuccessCareerSuccessEducationalSuccessFamilySuccessHelpingOthersWhatissuccess？Successisamultifacetedpersonalconcept.It’sdefinitelyaboutachievement.Whatexactlyitmeanstoanindividualdependsonwhathe/shewanttoachieve.Inmyopinion,beingsuccessfulmeansthinkingaboutwhatyouwanttoachieveandthenworkingtowardsyourgoal.Sosuccessconsistoftwoparts:settingagoalandstrivingforit.Whatareyourdreamsandgoalsinlife?Iwouldloveto…Ihopeto…Iaimto…Howtostriveforit?AdetailedscheduleAhealthybodyApositiveattitudeSelf-disciplineSelf-confidenceCommunicationskillsProfoundknowledgeHardworksSoifyouarelongingforsuccess.Justtofindyourgoalandstriveforit!Bestwishesforyou!Thanks！

Happiness

熊良武

PrefaceDuringtheNationalDaylastyear,journalistsofCCTVinterviewedpeopleonthestreets,askingthemwhethertheyarehappyornot.Journalist:Doyoufeelfulfilled?Laborer:Mylastnameis“zeng”.Definitionwhat'shappinessAcateatsitsfish,Adogenjoysitsmeat,Thealtmanfightsmonster!Happiness:IndictionaryHappiness:Thestateofbeinghappy,feelingsofpleasure.

“Happinessisthemeaningandthepurposeoflife,thewholeaimandendofhumanexistence.”

Aristotle

亞里士多德

Thehappinessinpeople’smindNo.1moneyNo.2goodhealthNo.3freedomNo.4livingwiththeirloverNo.5socialstatus………Inmyopinion,thereisnofixedformulaforhappiness.However,wedonotlackforhappiness,buteyestofindit.???Sohowtofindhappiness?

HowtoFind

HappinessLeoTolstoy列夫·托爾斯泰“Ifyouwanttobehappy,be.”Don’twaitforhappiness.Seizeit.

1.Bepresent.Don’tthinkabouthowgreatthingswillbeinthefuture.Don’tdwellonwhatdidordidn’thappeninthepast.Learntobeinthehereandnow,andexperiencelifeasit’shappening,andappreciatetheworldforthebeautythatitis,rightnow.2.Connectwithothers.

Thereareveryfewthingsthatcanachievehappinessaswellasconnectingwithotherhumanbeings,cultivatingrelationships,bondingwithothers.3.Spendtimewiththoseyoulove.Spendingtimewiththepeopleyouloveisextremelyimportanttohappiness.Makeitaprioritytoscheduletimewiththepeopleyoulove.Makethatyourmostimportantitemoftheday.4.Dothethingsyoulove.Whatdoyoulovedoingmost?Figureoutthe4-5thingsyoulovedoingmostinlife,thethingsthatmakeyouhappiest,andmakethosethefoundationofyourday,everyday.5.Focusonthegoodthings.Everyone’slifehaspositiveandnegativeaspects—whetheryou’rehappyornotdependslargelyonwhichaspectsyoufocuson.

6.Helpothers.Isthereanybetterfeelingthanhelpingafellowhumanbeing?Therearen’tmany.Andit’snottoohard,sojusthelpothers,andmakeyouhappier!Neitherastandardformulanorashortcuttoonceandforallexistsforhappinessitself,butnomatterwhatkindofchoiceswemake,weshouldhavetheabilityofmanaginghappiness.SOBeahappyonefromnowon…….OK?Therelationshipbetweensuccessandhappiness

汪雄峰ThefirstquestionSUCCESS=HAPPINESS?LiYangaChineseeducatorandlanguageinstructor.HeisthecreatorofCrazyEnglish,anunorthodoxmethodofteachingEnglish.HeclaimedtohavetaughtEnglishmorethan20millionpeopleinadecade.InSeptember2011LiwasaccusedofdomesticviolencebyhisAmericanwife,KimLee,Leehadpostedphotosofbruisesonvariouspartsofherbodyonhermicroblog.Intheinterview,LiYangsaid“Imarriedwithmywifejustforanexperimentoffamilyeducation,andIdidn’tloveher”Hegetthesuccessofcareer,buthelostthehappinessoffamilySUCCESS≠HAPPINESSGenerallyspeaking,success

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aspectsGettheachievementofcareerHavemuchmoneyHavegoodreputationbepowerful…h(huán)appinessincludesAhealthybodyAharmoniousfamilyFriendlyrelationship…SUCCESS≠HAPPINESSwhetherwearesuccessfulornotseemstobeevaluatedbyotherpeople,andbywhatwehave,suchasmoney,reputation…h(huán)appiness

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happinesstheconceptsofsuccessandhappinessvaryamongdifferentpeople,andtheymaychangewithtimegoingonTheinteractionbetweensuccessandhappinessAlthoughsuccessemphasizesonsubstanceandhappinessstressonspirit,thereisinteractionbetweenthemWhenwegetsuccessbyworkinghard,thesenseofachievementwillmakeushappyIfwearehappy,thegoodmoodwillhelpustobesuccessfulBalanceofsuccessandhappinessYuJuan,aDoctorofFudanUniversity,shediedofbreastcancerin2011,whenshewasdiagnosedwiththecancer,shewrotethe<whydidIsuffercancer?>Inthisarticle,shedescribesherunhealthydiet,irregularlifewhichincludesstayingovernightandsoon.Shesaid,“Atthecriticalpointoflife,youwillfindtheexcessiveworkingovertimeandtoomuchstressisequaltosuicide,therequirementofbighouseandcarisnotimportant,inthefreetime,playwithyourchildren,buyshoesforyourparents,livewiththepeoplewhoyouloveinsmallhouse,thisisalsoakindofhappiness”Balanceofsuccessandhappiness“Youcan'thaveyourcakeandeatittoo”AfewpeoplecanhavegreatsuccessandbighappinessWhatcanwedotobalancethesuccessandhappiness?BalanceofsuccessandhappinessDonotImmersedinhappytimetoolong,wakeupandpursueourdreamsSometime,takearest,andaskyourself,“AmIhappy?”TrytodothejobyoulikeandworkhardWangJianlintheChairmanoftheDalianWandaGroup,oneofChina'slargestrealestatedevelopers.InAugust2013,heislistedasthewealthiestpersoninChinawithanetworthofUS$14.2billionbyBloomberg.Hesays,”I

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pleasant.”Wecanlearnmanythingsfromhim.Unorthodox[?n'?rθ?'dɑks]adj.非正統(tǒng)的；異端的；異教的networth[會(huì)計(jì)]凈值；資本凈值Bloombergn.彭博資訊；彭博社Youcan'thaveyourcakeandeatittoo魚(yú)與熊掌，不可兼得HowtogetsuccessandhappinessForourgraduatestudents汪勝計(jì)算機(jī)學(xué)院M201372715Doyouconsideryourselfsuccessful？

Howtosucceed？

SomeadviceaboutwhatweshoulddoMindsetisimportant.ReadingthelatestJournalpapersandlisteningtothelecture.PracticingEnglishandChineseskillsofexpression.Doingmoreacademiccommunicationwithyourmentorandclassmates.Andsoon…Dofeelhappynow？

AgraffitiinthetunneloftheCUG(Wuhan)Aromanticloveisakindof

happinessAboycreatedthisgraffitiinpursuitofagirl.Intheprocessofcreatedthisgraffiti,theboywasdrivedbythesecurityguardsmanytimesandorderedtoremovethis.Buttheboyinsistedhiscreationinthenight,andfinallythesecurityguardsmovedbyhisperseverance.Andfinallythegirlacceptedtheboy'slove.

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