關(guān)于雙重性格者可能會影響到他人的10件事.doc

關(guān)于雙重性格者可能會影響到他人的10件事10 Things About Being An Ambivert That Might Confuse OthersDo you think you are an ambivert? Instead of being extroverted or introverted, ambiverts fall right in the middle. For instance an ambivert may be drawn to people and could love going to gatherings, but they might dislike parties filled with strangers.Check out 10 things about being an ambivert that might confuse others.你覺得自己是一個雙重性格的人嗎？雙重性格的人性格既不內(nèi)向，也不外向，它保持中立。比如，一個雙重性格的人可能會疲與于人交流，可能會喜歡聚會，但是他們可能會討厭到處都是陌生人的派對。審視關(guān)于雙重性格者可能會影響到他人的10件事1.We can be quiet but we are not shy1.我們可以安靜但是我們不害羞When ambiverts are hanging out with other people they are happy for the others to talk the lead in the conversation. It isnt because we are shy we enjoy listening to others talk so we can learn more about them and their interests.當(dāng)雙重性格的人和其他人閑聊的時候，他們很樂意其他人引出話題討論。并不是因為我們害羞，而是我們喜歡傾聽其他人講話。這樣我們才能更了解他們以及他們的興趣愛好。2.We are totally different when we are around strangers compared to when we are with friends2.比起我們在朋友中，我們在陌生人當(dāng)中是完全不一樣的An ambivert is quiet, friendly and polite around new people, whereas they are much louder around their friends. It isnt that we feel shy or awkward around strangers; sometimes we love to meet new people, we just dont want to come across as self-involved or too loud.一個雙重性格的人在陌生人面前很安靜，友好，有禮貌。然而在朋友面前就非常的鬧騰。并不是因為我們在陌生人勉強感覺害羞或者糟糕，其實有時候我們喜歡認(rèn)識新的朋友，我們只是不想表現(xiàn)的太關(guān)注自我或者太鬧騰。3.We balance out our friends3.我們平衡朋友的關(guān)系When an ambivert is hanging out with someone quiet they are fine to do most of the talking. On the flip side, if we are spending time with someone who is talkative we are happy to let them lead the conversation.當(dāng)一個雙重性格的人和一個比較安靜的人聊天，他們會友善的引起話題。另一方面，如果我們花時間和那些健談的人聊天，那我們就很樂意讓他們主導(dǎo)話題。4.We are more vocal during one-on-one conversations4.在一對一的聊天中，我們更直言不諱Ambiverts normally prefer to hang out one-on-one because the conversations are more focused and intimate. We actually get the opportunity to bond and discuss things that really interest us, and we know that the other person is definitely interested and listening to what we are saying.雙重性格的人自然偏向一對一的聊天，因為這種對話更能集中注意力，更親密。我們有機會去討論融合我們感興趣的事情，我們知道其他人是真的對我們說的很感興趣，在認(rèn)真聽。5.We hate small talk5.我們討厭閑扯An ambivert rarely does well with small talk. We try hard to make small talk and chit-chat when it is necessary, but we would much rather get to know you properly. We often feel like small talk is insincere who really wants to talk about the weather?一個雙重性格的人很難閑扯。我們努力嘗試去閑扯，在有必要的時候說一些無聊的話，但是我們更愿意去嘗試了解真正的你。我們常常認(rèn)為閑扯是一件不真誠的事情，誰會真的想要去討論天氣呢？6.We love to talk about things that interest us6.我們喜歡討論我們感興趣的事We are very happy to talk about anything that really interests us we can talk for hours and hours about the things that we love. However, we wont bring anything up if it isnt relevant to the conversation because we dont want to bring up something that others might find boring.我們樂于討論我們感興趣的一切事情，我們可以依戀幾個小時討論我們熱愛的事情。無論怎樣，我們不會討論任何與這個話題無關(guān)的事情，因為我們不想帶來一些其他人會覺得無聊的事情。7.We sometimes look forward to cutting ourselves off from the rest of the world7.我們有時希望與世界切斷關(guān)系Sometimes all an ambivert wants is to shut the door and cut themselves off from the rest of the world. We love to spend evenings cooking and watching TV alone, and we think that a weekend spent in bed is a weekend well spent.有時候，一個完全的雙重性格的人的想要關(guān)掉門，切斷他們與這個世界的聯(lián)系。我們喜歡花掉一個晚上去烹飪，看電視。我們覺得在床上度過的周末才是美好的周末。8.We like to be alone, but we can get lonely8.我們喜歡一個人，但我們孤獨Ambiverts enjoy being alone for a while but we still rely on other humans for happiness and connections. After a few blissful days inside we start to feel lonely and we want to go out and have fun with our friends. Even if it is just meeting up with a friend for a quick coffee, we want to physically see and interact with our loved ones so that we can feel back in the loop.雙重性格的人享受一個人獨處的時間，但是我們?nèi)匀灰蕾囍渌说男腋：吐?lián)系。度過一些美好日子之后，我們開始感覺到孤獨，我們想要出去和朋友們一起尋樂子。即便是和一個朋友喝一杯速溶咖啡，我們就想要聯(lián)系我們愛著的人，這樣才會有一種回歸正常生活的感覺。9.We can relate to being introverted and extroverted9.我們可以聯(lián)系性格外向和性格內(nèi)向的人An ambivert will be called introverted and extroverted by different people at different times. Our friends often disagree on if we are loud or quiet because we act totally differently depending on our mood.一個雙重性格的人可能會在不同的時間被不同的人認(rèn)為是性格外向的人或是性格內(nèi)向的人。我們的朋友經(jīng)常會在我們安靜還是鬧騰這件事上產(chǎn)生分歧，因為我們真的會根據(jù)不同的心境表現(xiàn)的完全不一樣。10.We become more introverted in large crowds10.我們在人群中變得更內(nèi)向An ambivert is likely to become quieter and more withdrawn if t