寶寶“壞毛病”爸媽怎應(yīng)對？

1、寶寶“壞毛病”爸媽怎應(yīng)對?在寶寶的成長過程中,孩子特有的一些行為令初為父母的犯難,他們或反應(yīng)過度,或手足無措。比如對于孩子吮手指、滿地滾爬、挑食偏食、說臟話這些行為讓不少的家長感到頭疼。雖然,有的“壞毛病”隨著孩子年齡增加,有一些會慢慢消失,但是在這期間,家長又不能放任其發(fā)展,此時,爸爸媽媽應(yīng)該如何去應(yīng)對孩子的這些行為呢?吃手指寶寶成長過程中有一個階段是特別喜歡把手伸進嘴巴里的,或者看見什么就往嘴巴里送。對此,很多媽媽感到特別頭疼。其實,這是寶寶學(xué)著用嘴巴來感知事物的時期,父母需要做的,就是把寶寶長長的指甲剪短、磨平,把寶寶的小手洗干凈,看見他抓一些臟的東西往嘴巴里送的時候,就幫他換一些干凈的

2、物品。等孩子再大一點,這種吃手指或者是看見什么就往嘴巴里送的“壞毛病”慢慢就會消失了。廣東省婦幼保健院兒童保健科副主任醫(yī)師柯海勁指出,也有一部分孩子吃手指是因為心理需求。因為父母沒時間陪孩子,忽略了孩子的正常心理需求,由于缺乏親子之間的互動,孩子便只能通過其他方式來代替對母親的依賴,如吮手指、咬指甲、吮奶嘴等。久而久之,便養(yǎng)成了這種不良習(xí)慣,形成了一種不正常的依賴心理。像這種情況,父母就應(yīng)該多給孩子一點關(guān)心,通過親子間的互動游戲,讓孩子轉(zhuǎn)移注意力。值得提醒的是,對孩子吃手指等習(xí)慣,家長千萬不要通過“打手、大聲批評”來粗暴制止,以免加重孩子的心理壓力,使得咬手指的現(xiàn)象更加嚴重。滿地爬一般來說,寶

3、寶長到八九個月的時候,已經(jīng)學(xué)會爬行了,這個時候,寶寶的活動范圍就變大了,喜歡滿屋子到處爬,身上的衣服常常弄臟,在地上撿到什么都往嘴里送。所以,父母的視線也要一刻也不能離開寶寶,擔(dān)心他碰到或磕到,因而常常會感覺寶寶太調(diào)皮,從而限制寶寶爬行。柯海勁說,爬行是寶寶開始主動接觸和認識事物的一種方式,首先爬行能夠很好地鍛煉寶寶的動作協(xié)調(diào)能力,不會爬行或爬得不好的寶寶,以后的平衡能力及動作協(xié)調(diào)能力也會相對差一些。所以,孩子喜歡在地上爬倒不是什么壞事。此時,爸爸媽媽應(yīng)該要做的,不是限制孩子的爬行,而是在家里騰出一塊空地,把地板拖干凈,或者鋪上干凈的墊子,放一些玩具在寶寶面前,讓他可以追逐著玩具盡情地向前爬行

4、。當(dāng)然,為了安全起見,最好讓寶寶在爬行過程中不超出父母的視線范圍,同時,把一些可能對寶寶的安全造成威脅的物品收好。等寶寶學(xué)會走路后,也就慢慢不喜歡在地上爬行了。挑食偏食當(dāng)前,我國兒童因偏食、挑食等不良飲食習(xí)慣導(dǎo)致的營養(yǎng)問題比較常見,孩子在生長發(fā)育過程中,不是高而瘦的豆芽菜體形,就是胖墩兒。那么,怎么去糾正孩子挑食偏食的壞習(xí)慣呢?首先,父母應(yīng)該先了解孩子為什么不愛吃某種食物。孩子不愛吃某種食物,有生理性的原因,如有些孩子不愛喝牛奶,可能是因為孩子牛奶蛋白過敏,孩子在喝了牛奶后會出現(xiàn)腹脹、腹瀉等不良反應(yīng),因此他們就不喜歡喝了。另一方面,兒童對某種食物偏愛或者厭惡,也有可能是父母一手造成的,比如父母

5、不愛吃的,孩子也跟著不愛吃,或者孩子比較喜歡吃某種東西,父母就老給他吃。孩子不愛吃的,就不敢再給他吃,從小順著孩子的需求,久而久之,就養(yǎng)成了一種挑食的不良習(xí)慣了,而這種習(xí)慣一旦養(yǎng)成就很難改變了。因此,對于孩子挑食,主要采用心理糾正的方法,通過父母的語言或者示范來糾正,切不可強迫進食,以免產(chǎn)生逆反心理。比如,當(dāng)孩子不喜歡吃某一種菜的時候,烹飪的方式可以稍微改變一下,做得花樣多,色香味俱全,孩子也會愿意嘗試。當(dāng)孩子不挑食時,父母也要趁機加以表揚,以鞏固孩子下次繼續(xù)吃這道菜的行為。說臟話很多父母會發(fā)現(xiàn),孩子會說話之后,有時會吐出一些臟話來。柯海勁說,孩子說臟話有時只是為了好玩,想吸引大人的關(guān)注。因此

6、,家長可以通過冷處理的處理方法,如假裝沒聽見,不理睬他,通過這種冷處理的方法,讓寶寶感到,說臟話并不能引起大人的注意,說臟話并不好玩,慢慢地,他覺得無趣后自然就會慢慢減少說臟話的次數(shù)了。如果寶寶已經(jīng)有一定理解能力了,父母就可以通過講故事的方法告訴他,說臟話是一種讓人討厭的行為,慢慢地他就會改掉這種毛病了。另外,寶寶之所以學(xué)會說臟話,很多都是從身邊接觸的人那里模仿來的或者從電視節(jié)目中學(xué)來的,因此,家長應(yīng)該避免在孩子面前說臟話,選擇電視節(jié)目也要有所考慮。Eat your fingersGuangdong health care of women and children health care d

7、ivision of doctor of vice director of KeHaiJin, points out that there are some of the children to eat finger because of psychological needs. Because their parents have no time to accompany children, ignores the childrens normal psychological needs, because of the lack of interaction between kiss the

8、 son, the child was only through other ways to replace dependence on mother, such as finger sucking, nail biting, suck the nipple, etc. Over time, it has developed this kind of bad habits, and formed a kind of dependence on abnormal psychology. Like this kind of situation, parents should give their

9、children more care, through the interactive game between parent, let children divert attention.Worth to remind is, the children eat finger habits, such as parents dont rough stop by thugs, loud criticism, so as not to increase the childs psychological pressure, making bite fingers phenomenon is more

10、 serious.Climb over the groundIn general, the baby grow to eight or nine months, has learned to crawl, at this time, babys range is bigger, like climbing, about the room clothes dirty, often pick up to send everything on the earth. So, the line of sight of parents also cant leave the baby, is worrie

11、d about his encounter or into the, so often feel the baby is too naughty, thereby limiting the baby crawl.KeHaiJin said, crawling is the baby began to take the initiative to contact and a way of recognizing things, first crawl is able to train babys movement coordination, not crawl or climb well bab

12、y, balance and coordination of action after will be relatively less. So, the child likes to climb on the ground is not a bad thing.At this point, the father mother should have to do, not limit children crawling, but make a clearing in the home, the floor is clean, or clean the cushion on the shop, p

13、ut a few toys in front of the baby, let he can chase toy crept forward.To be on the safe side, of course, it is better to let the baby in the process of crawling not beyond the line of sight range of parents, at the same time, some items could pose a threat to the safety of the baby away. After the

14、baby learning to walk, will slowly dont like crawling on the ground.Picky eatingAt present, our country children because of partial eclipse, picky about food, such as poor eating habits lead to nutritional problems are common, children in the process of growth and development, is not high and thin b

15、ean sprouts, shape is PanDunEr. So, how to correct the child bad habit of picky eating?First of all, parents should understand why children do not love to eat some food. Children do not love to eat some food, have physiological reasons, such as some children do not love to drink milk, milk protein a

16、llergy, may be because the children children after drinking the milk appear abdominal distention, diarrhea and other adverse reactions, so they dont like to drink. On the other hand, the children have a food preferences or disgust, it is possible that parents infliction, parents do not love to eat,

17、for example, children followed do not love to eat, or children prefer to eat something, parents and old to give him to eat.Children do not love to eat, you cant give him to eat, grew up along the childs needs, over time, it formed the bad habit of a fussy eater, and this habit once formed, it is dif

18、ficult to change.Therefore, for the fussy children, mainly adopt the method of psychological correction, through the language of the parents or demonstration to correct, must not force fed, lest produce rebellious attitude. For example, when children dont like to eat a certain kind of food, cooking

19、methods can change a little, do more kinds, delicious, children will also be willing to try. When a child is not picky about food, parents also want to take you, to reinforce the behavior of the children continue to eat this dish next time.swearingMany parents will find that their children will talk later, sometimes spit out some words. KeHaiJin said children swear sometimes just for fun, to attract adults attention. Therefore, parents can through the cold treatment processing methods, such as pretended not to hear, dont ignore him,