淺談西方禮儀

1、Evaluation Warning: The document was created with Spire.Doc for .NET.西方禮儀(Wessterrn MMannnerss) HYPERLINK l x 精選相關(guān)鏈鏈接:西方風風情商務(wù)務(wù)禮俗Somee Coommoon MMannnerss inn thhe WWestt編輯 整理理It iss a greeat hellp ffor thee peersoon wwho is leaarniing a fforeeignn laanguuagee too knnow somme ccusttomss annd mmannner

2、ss foor tthe peooplee whho sspeaaks it, beecauuse thee laanguuagee iss veery clooselly aassoociaatedd wiith theem. I wwilll teell youu soome commmonn weesteern mannnerrs.1. Meeetiing andd Grreettingg Peeoplle1) GrreettinggThe ssimpplesst tthinng tto ssay is Goood morrninng, GGoodd affterrnooon orr g

3、goodd evveniing. TThiss grreettingg iss giivenn too onne wwhomm yoou kknoww onnly sliighttly, orr too anny oone youu arre ppasssingg quuickkly. HHow aree yoou is usuuallly uusedd whhen youu arre nnot in succh aa huurryy. NNo aanswwer is exppectted othher thaan Fiine, thhankk yoou. hhelllo is thee co

4、ommoonesst fformm off grreettingg beetweeen goood ffrieendss.2) Whhen a MMan Raiisess Hiis HHatIf yoou aare weaarinng aa haat wwhicch ccan be takken bolld oof eeasiily, itt iss cuustoomarry tto rraisse iit ssligghtlly ooff youur hheadd whhen youu grreett a girrl oor aa woomann.3) Whhen to Shaake Han

5、ndsIt iss cuustoomarry tto sshakke hhandds wwhenn yoou ffirsst mmeett soomeoone. Annd uusuaallyy frriennds shaake hannds wheen ttheyy meeet aftter nott haavinng sseenn eaach othher forr soome timme. Howweveer iit iis nnot neccesssaryy too shhakee haandss.4) Usse tthe perrsonns NammeIt iss allwayys g

6、goodd foorm to usee thhe nnamee off thhe ppersson youu arre ggreeetinng. Youu miightt saay, Goood Morrninng, Mr. Mooncrriefff or HHelllo, Fraankllin., A pperssons ssurnnamee shhoulld bbe uusedd unnlesss hhe iis ggoodd frriennd oor sschoool-matte.2. Inntrooducctioon1) Hoow tto IIntrroduuce PeoopleeIn

7、 inntrooduccingg twwo ppeopple, thhe ggeneerall ruule is: Inntrooducce ootheer ppeopple to thee peersoon yyou wissh tto hhonoor. Thee olld aare honnoreed iin tthe Wesst aas iin CChinna. Wommen havve bbeenn hoonouuredd inn thhe WWestt siincee thhe ddayss off knnighhthoood(騎士時時代）.2) Riisinng aat IIntr

8、roduuctiionA mann allwayys rrisee foor aan iintrroduuctiion, exxceppt tthatt itt iss soomettimees aall rigght forr ann ellderrly mann too reemaiin sseatted wheen aa yooungg maan iis iintrroduucedd too hiim. Thee hoosteess alwwayss riisess foor aan iintrroduuctiion.3) Inntrooduccingg YooursselffIf yo

9、ou wwantt too meeet sommeonne, it is bettterr too assk aa frriennd wwho knoow hhim to inttrodducee yoou. Butt soomettimees aat aa meeetiing or gattherringg itt iss alll rrighht tto iintrroduuce youurseelf to a ffelllow-stuudennt, or to onee off thhe ssamee seex aand possitiion.3. Innvittatiion1) Yoo

10、u MMustt Reeplyy too ann InnvittatiionForeeignn cuustoom iis mmuchh moore strrictt thhan Chiinesse ccusttom in thee maatteer oof rrepllyinng tto iinviitattionns. Wheen yyou recceivve aan iinviitattionn yoou sshouuld ansswerr itt immmeddiattelyy, ssayiing deffiniitelly wwhettherr yoou aare ablle tto

11、aacceept it or nott.2) Wrrittten or Verrball ReeplyyIf thhe iinviitattionn iss giivenn byy woord of mouuth, inn coonveersaatioon oor aat aa chhancce mmeettingg, yyou shoouldd annsweer aat ooncee whhethher youu caan ccomee orr noot. If youu caannoot ggivee ann annsweer aat tthatt tiime, yoou mmay say

12、y, Mayy I lett yoou kknoww thhis eveeninng? Orr soome succh wwordds.4. Inn thhe HHomee1) Thhe RRighht TTimee too ArrrivveWhen invviteed tto llunccheoon, dinnnerr, oor ssuppper, itt iss veery imppoliite to arrrivee laate, ass itt iss ussuallly plaanneed tto hhavee thhe mmeall att thhe eexacct hhourr

13、giivenn inn thhe iinviitattionn.2) Inn arrrivvalWhen youu arrrivve, thee hoosteess or somme mmembber of thee faamilly wwilll prrobaablyy meeet youu att thhe ddoorr annd ttakee yoour coaat aand hatt. IIn tthe winnterr tiime youu shhoulld ddresss mmoree liighttly thaan uusuaallyy, aas yyou mayy exxpec

14、ct tthe roooms to be warrmerr thhan in mosst CChinnesee hoomess.3) Inn a feww miinuttes thee hoosteess willl aask herr guuestts tto ccomee inn too diinneer. Shee maay oor mmay nott assk eeachh geentllemaan tto ttakee a laddy iin. If shee dooes, thhe lladyy wiill takke tthe genntleemanns armm ass thh

15、ey wallk iintoo thhe ddinnningg rooom. Iff shhe ddoess noot, thee laadiees wwilll goo inn fiirstt, ffollloweed bby tthe genntleemenn. TThe hosstesss wwilll eiitheer ppoinnt oout theeir seaats to thee guuestts aas ttheyy coome in or havve a pplacce ccardd att eaach plaace witth tthe gueestss naame on

16、 it.4) Hoow LLongg too SttayAfterr thhe mmeall iss ovver it is nott poolitte tto lleavve ffor at leaast hallf aan hhourr, llestt yoou sseemm too haave comme oonlyy foor tthe meaal. An eveeninng ddinnner invvitaatioon uusuaallyy immpliies thaat yyou staay ffor thee whholee evveniing. Thhe hhosttesss

17、offtenn pllanss soome aftter-dinnnerr ennterrtaiinmeent.5) Whhat to Sayy onn LeeaviingWhen leaavinng aany kinnd oof aa paartyy, aa guuestt allwayys eexprressses hiss apppreeciaatioon tto tthe hosstesss. Somme ssuchh woordss ass thhesee arre aapprroprriatte. Thhankk yoou sso mmuchh. IIvee haad aa dee

18、ligght eveeninng.5. Taablee Maanneers1) Ass sooon as thee hoosteess piccks up herr naapkiin(餐餐巾）, piick youurs up andd laay iit oon yyourr laap. Sommetiimess a rolll oof bbreaad iis wwrapppedd inn itt; iif sso, tokke iit oour andd puut iit oon yyourr siide plaate.2) Thhe SSoupp CooursseDinneer uusua

19、allyy beeginns wwithh sooup. Thhe llarggestt sppoonn att yoour plaace is thee sooup spooon. Itt wiill be bessidee yoour plaate at thee riightt-haand sidde.3) Thhe FFishh CooursseIf thheree iss a fissh ccourrse, itt wiill proobabbly follloww thhe ssoupp. TTherre mmay be a sspecciall foork forr thhe f

20、fishh, oor iit mmay be simmilaar tto tthe meaat fforkk. OOfteen iit iis ssmalllerr.4) Thhe MMeatt CooursseThe mmainn Cooursse iis uusuaallyy seerveed bby tthe hosst hhimsselff, eespeeciaallyy iff itt iss a fowwl(雞雞禽） or a rroasst wwhicch nneedd too bee caarveed. He willl oofteen aask eacch gguesst w

21、whatt piiecee hee prrefeers, annd iit iis qquitte ppropper to staate youur ppreffereencee ass too leean or fatt, ddarkk（紅肉肉） oor llighht（白白肉）.5) Ussingg Knnifee annd FForkkIf yoou hhavee Enngliish andd Ammeriicann frriennds youu wiill notticee a feww diiffeerenncess inn thheirr cuustooms of eattingg

22、. FFor thee maain or meaat ccursse, thee Enngliish keeep tthe forrk iin tthe lefft hhandd, ppoinnt ccurvved dowwnwaard, annd bbrinng tthe foood tto tthe mouuth eittherr byy sttickkingg thhe ppoinnts ontto iit oor iin tthe casse oof ssoftt veegettablles, byy pllaciing it firrmlyy onn thhe fforkk inn

23、thhis possitiion witth tthe kniife. Ammeriicanns ccarvve tthe meaat iin tthe samme pposiitioon, theen llay dowwn tthe kniife andd taakinng tthe forrk iin tthe rigght hannd wwithh thhe ppoinnt tturnned up, puush it undder a ssmalll ppiecce oof ffoodd wiithoout thee heelp of thee knnifee annd bbrinng

24、iit tto tthe motth rrighht-ssidee-upp.6) Heelpiing Youurseelf andd ReefussinggIf a serrvannt ppassses foood aarouund, hee wiill passs tthe dissh iin aat yyourr leeft hannd sso tthatt yoou ccan connvennienntlyy seervee yooursselff wiith youur rrighht hhandd. NNeveer sservve yyourrsellf wwhille tthe d

25、issh iis oon yyourr riightt; iit iis tthenn thhe tturnn off yoour neiighbbor on thee riightt. IIt iis ppoliite to takke ssomee off evveryythiing thaat iis ppasssed to youu. BBut if theere is sommethhingg yoou mmay nott liike, yoou mmay quiietlly ssay: NNo tthannk yyou.7) Seeconnd HHelppinggsThe hhos

26、ttesss maay oor mmay nott assk iif yyou wouuld likke aa seeconnd hhelppingg, aaccoordiing to thee foormaalitty oof tthe meaal. If shee dooes andd yoou aacceept it, yoou sshouuld passs yyourr pllatee too heer oor tto tthe serrvannt wwithh thee knnifee annd fforkk sttilll lyyingg onn itt.8) Thhe SSala

27、ad CCourrseA sallad is eatten witth aa foork onlly hheldd inn thhe rrighht hhandd wiith poiintss tuurneed uup. Theere is usuuallly aa sppeciial onee foor tthe sallad, a litttlee smmalller thaan tthe meaat fforkk.9) Brreadd annd BButtterBreadd iss taakenn inn thhe ffinggerss annd llaidd onn thhe ssid

28、ee pllatee orr thhe eedgee off thhe llargge pplatte, it is nevver takke wwithh a forrk. Buttterr iss taakenn frrom thee buutteer ddishh wiith thee buutteer kkniffe aand plaacedd onn thhe ssidee pllatee, nnot on onees breead.10) OOtheer TThinngs on thee TaableeWhen theere aree thhinggs oon tthe middd

29、lee off thhe ttablle, succh aas bbreaad, buttterr, jjellly, piccklees, nitts, canndiees, youu shhoulld nnot takke aany unttil thee hoosteess ahss suuggeesteed tthatt thhey be passsedd.11) LLeavvingg thhe TTablleIt iss immpollitee foor aa guuestt too leeavee thhe ttablle dduriing a mmeall, oor bbefoo

30、re thee hoosteess givves thee siignaal aat tthe endd. WWhenn thhe hhosttesss inndiccatees tthatt thhe ddinnner is oveer, shee wiill staat tto rrisee frrom herr seeat andd alll tthe gueestss shhe rrisee frrom theeirss att thhe ssamee tiime.12) VVariiouss ruuless annd SSugggesttionnsSit uup sstraaighh

31、t oon yyourr chhairr; DDo nnot putt muuch foood iin yyourr moouthh att a timme; Driink onlly wwhenn thheree iss noo foood in youur mmoutth; Tryy noot tto gget intto yyourr moouthh annythhingg thhat willl hhavee too bee taakenn ouut; Do nott maake anyy noose wheen yyou eatt; DDo nnot cleean youur tte

32、etth aat tthe tabble or anyywheere in pubblicc, eeithher witth yyourr fiingeer oor aa tooothh piick(牙簽）, noot eevenn wiith youu toonguue.6. Inn Scchoool1)Greeetiing thee TeeachherIf yoou aare in a vveryy laargee cllasss, iit mmay nott bee neecesssarry tto ggreeet tthe teaacheer oon aarriivinng, butt

33、 itt iss allwayys qquitte ppropper if youu haappeen tto ccatcch tthe teaacheerss eyye aas yyou entter.2) Coominng LLateeIt iss baad mmannnerss too coome latte tto cclasss. If youu arre uunavvoiddablly llatee ann appoloogy shoouldd bee maade to thee teeachher eittherr att thhe ttimee orr affterr clla

34、sss.3) Taalkiing in ClaassIt iff baad mmannnerss inn thhe sschooolrroomm, aas eelseewheere, too taalk whiile anyyonee ellse is takkingg.7. Inn Puubliic PPlacces1) Trrafffic LawwsThe ccomiing of thee mootorr caar mmadee deefinnitee trrafffic laww annd rreguulattionns aa prractticaal nneceessiity. Too

35、 obbey theese laww iss noot sso mmuchh a mattterr off cuurtssey(禮貌） as a mmoraal oobliigattionn（義務(wù)務(wù)）.2) Foor PPeopple WallkinngPeoplle wwalkkingg shhoulld kkeepp too thhe ssideewallks andd shhoulld kkeepp too thhe rrighht oof tthe siddewaalk.3) Thhe TTheaaterrThe ttheaaterr prropeer iis mmoree foorm

36、aal tthann thhe mmoviies. Att thhe ttheaaterr beest cloothees aare in ordder; evveniing cloothees aare oftten worrn.4) Thhe MMoviiesThe mmoviies aree moore infformmal. Anny kkindd off reespeectaablee cllothhes mayy bee woorn, annd ssmalll cconffecttionn(糖果果） mmay be eatten quiietlly aas llongg ass t

37、hheree arre nno oobjeectiionaablee noosess too annnoyy onness neeighhborrs.5) Inn ChhurcchIt iss ussuall foor aanyoone atttenddingg chhurcch tto ttakee soome monney aloong forr thhe ooffeerinng, as it is a rreguularr paart of eveery chuurchh seerviice andd iss ussed forr thhe wworkk off thhe cchurrc

38、h. Goood cloothees, butt neeverr evveniing cloothees, aree woorn to a cchurrch serrvicce.8. Sppeciial Occcasiionss1) BiirthhdayyBirthhdayy inn thhe WWestt, aas iin CChinna, aree coonsiiderred occcasiionss foor cconggrattulaatioons andd soomettimees ffor giffts froom nnearr frriennds.2)Thee Weeddiing

39、If onne rreceeivees aan aannoounccemeent of a wwedddingg affterr itt iss ovver, a notte oof cconggrattulaatioon mmay be sennt, butt a gifft iis nnot neccesssaryy.3) Thhe FFuneerallFunerralss, oof ccourrse, arre aalwaays sannd, butt thhe ttenddenccy iin WWestternn coounttriees iis aagaiinstt maakinng

40、 aany shoow oof oones ffeellinggs aat tthe funneraal. Thee iddea behhindd thhis is thaat tthe perrsonn deead wouuld wissh tthiss laast meeetinng oof hhis friiendds iin hhis honnor andd reememmbraancee too bee fuull of tennderr, hhapppy rrecoolleectiionss off hiis llifee.9. Wiith Strranggerss annd FF

41、rieendss1) Leendiing andd boorroowinng aare morre mmattterss off prrincciplle iin tthe Wesst tthann inn thhe EEastt. TThinngs borrrowwed in thee Weest aree deefinniteely exppectted to be retturnned, whhethher it is fiffty dolllarrs oor mmereely a ffrieends ppenccil.2) Doontt Bee CuurioousIt iss immp

42、ollitee too bee cuurioous aboout thee prrivaate afffairrs oof ootheers, suuch as agee, ssalaary, reeliggionn annd mmarrriagge.3) Thhankks ffor GifftsWhen somme oone givves youu a preesennt, it is verry iimpoolitte tto nnegllectt thhankk hiim ffor it.4) Onne HHandd OnnlyIn chhinaa wee usse ttwo hannd

43、s wheen ggiviing sommethhingg too a perrsonn, oor wwhenn reeceiivinng iit, if we wannt tto bbe vveryy poolitte. In thee Weest thiis wwoulld sseemm awwkwaard andd immpollitee.10. PPerssonaal HHabiits andd Apppeaarannce1) Peeoplle jjudgge yyou at firrst by whaat ttheyy seee, so parrticculaar aatteenti

44、ion shoouldd bee paaid to youur pperssonaal aappeearaancee.2) Ussingg a HanndkeerchhieffAlwayys ccarrry aa clleann haandkkercchieef. Do nott usse iit wwhille iit iis ffoldded, annd ddo nnot folld iit aafteer yyou usee itt.3)SpiittiingIn thhe WWestt itt iss coonsiiderred verry iimpoolitte tto sspitt,

45、 eevenn uppon thee sttreeet.4) SmmokiingSmokiing is verry pprevvaleent(普遍), booth by menn annd bby wwomeen. If youu arre aa guuestt inn a homme wwherre nno ootheers aree smmokiing, itt iss beetteer tto rrefrrainn(忍住?。?ffromm smmokiing, yoou mmay sayy, Wouuld youu miind if I ssmokked?.11. SSomee Pooi

46、ntts ffor Menn1) Wiith a LLadyyAlwayys aalloow tthe laddy tto ppreccedee yoou iin pplacces wheere onee haas tto ggo bbefoore thee ottherr exxceppt iin tthe folllowwingg caase: whhen getttinng ooff a sstreeet carr, ttraiin, buss, oor oout of an auttomoobille; wheen ggoinng uup sstaiir; wheen oopennin

47、gg a heaavy dooor. Wheen yyou aree waalkiing aloong thee sttreeet wwithh a laddy, alwwayss waalk on thee ouutsiide.2) Att a DannceIf yoou wwishh too daancee wiith a ccerttainn laady, goo too heer, boww, aand sayy: Mayy I havve tthe pleeasuure of a ddancce?Selecctedd frrom Wessterrn MMannnerss byy Ea

48、arl andd Kaathaarinne WWilllmonntt andd trransslatted by Wann Roongffangg西方禮儀為什么打招招呼？在歐歐美國家家見面打打招呼是是很自然然的，即即使是不不認識。打打招呼的的目的，并并不是為為了要跟跟你有進進一步的的交往，只只是一種種生活禮禮儀形式式。其實實不論任任何人，面面對有人人微笑打打招呼，都都會受到到感染，像像是見到到陽光心心情跟著著好起來來一樣，很很自然會會打招呼呼響應(yīng)。因因此，在在西方國國家旅游游的時候候，如果果迎面而而來的人人對我們們說哈啰啰，別露露出一副副莫名其其妙的表表情，甚甚至置之之不理唷??！那可可是非常常

49、失禮的的。怎樣樣打招呼呼？對方跟跟你說Howw doo yoou ddo ?就是是你好好的意意思，不不用按著著課本教教的說Finne, Thaank youu. AAnd youu?，除除非這是是你的好好朋友，或或是你有有比較多多的時間間跟他聊聊天，不不然只要要同樣回回答說Howw doo yoou ddo ?就夠夠了。如如果怕自自己英文文不好聽聽，至少少微笑點點個頭。有有時候他他們會說說Heelloo !，其實實相當于于我們的的嗨，這是是同輩或或好友之之間的應(yīng)應(yīng)對方式式，不適適合用在在對長輩輩或地位位比較高高的人。另另外，他他們也會會問候Goood mmornningg，Goood aaft

50、eernooon或GGoodd evveniing，同樣樣問候就就可以了了。怎樣樣吃飯？中中國人吃吃飯比較較隨興，很很可能聊聊到開心心處，就就大聲說說笑，或或是把餐餐廳當作作自己家家一樣讓讓小孩子子跑來跑跑去，這這在西方方國家是是相當不不得體的的喔！尤尤其如果果我們是是吃西式式餐廳，而而不是在在中國餐餐廳，一一定要注注意餐桌桌禮節(jié)。餐餐巾應(yīng)該該要鋪放放在腿上上，不是是別在領(lǐng)領(lǐng)口上的的，更不不可以拿拿餐巾來來擦桌子子或餐具具！使用用刀叉的的時候，倒倒沒有禁禁忌不可可以拿著著叉子講講話，因因為在外外國，放放下餐具具表示你你已經(jīng)吃吃完，準準備請服服務(wù)生來來收走了了。當然然啦，如如果要比比手畫腳腳的時

51、候候例外，畢畢竟拿著著刀叉揮揮舞還是是挺不安安全的！享享用食物物的時候候安靜是是基本的的禮貌，像像是喝湯湯、嚼食食物都不不應(yīng)該出出聲音，打打嗝的聲聲音尤其其會惹人人白眼，萬萬一打嗝嗝發(fā)出了了聲音，應(yīng)應(yīng)該對同同桌的人人說EExcuuse me表示歉歉意。千千萬不要要塞得滿滿嘴的食食物，慢慢慢一口口一口吃吃。發(fā)表表意見時時，應(yīng)該該等食物物完全吞吞下去之之后再講講話，不不可以一一邊嚼一一邊講話話。如果果有魚刺刺或骨頭頭，應(yīng)該該盡量先先用刀叉叉挑出來來或切除除掉，再再放到嘴嘴里面，不不適合嚼嚼一嚼之之后再用用嘴巴吐吐出來，假假如不得得已必須須要這樣樣做，也也最好悄悄悄地、稍稍微用餐餐巾布遮遮掩一下下比較好好喔。 零零零總總總談了一一些基本本西方禮禮儀，其其實最基基本的還還是爸媽媽平時生生活教養(yǎng)養(yǎng)的功夫夫。如果果常常提提醒孩子子遵守禮禮貌規(guī)矩矩，讓孩孩子懂得得規(guī)范自自己、尊尊重別人人，相信信在國外外旅游的的時候，也也能很快快就適應(yīng)應(yīng)不同的的禮節(jié)了了！中國國自古就就是禮儀儀之邦，西西方的禮禮儀和我我國有許許多的相相似之處處。在當當前國際際交往頻頻繁的形形式下，不不論是在在國內(nèi)接接待外賓賓或出國國訪問旅旅游，不不論是將將要留學學國外或或常駐國國外工作作都有必必要學習習一下西西方的禮禮儀。 禮節(jié)有