韓雪Being a positive pessimist

1、Being a positive pessimistGood afternoon everyone.First let me share a piece of music with you.I know its terrible, because I played it.And Im sorry its not the worst one.I still got something to show you.Dont laught, its an entire story.If you really want to understand what it is talking about? You

2、 can check my weibo later.This picture I painted last year.I have another one to show you, this is much better.This picture I painted, twenty years ago.So I know you might have a question.How is it getting worse? And I also understand that most of your conclusion must be: out of imagination.But how

3、it happened.I think it is because I become an adult.Since we became adults.We started being afraid of making mistakes.We choose to be the best or nothing.So, we do not dare to try any mistakes.It seems that we trapped ourselves in the overprotective world.I sense them we started to lose a lot of abi

4、lity, like imagination, and creativity.What is the strategy? For me I have a special one.Its been a positive, pessimistic.Let me explain the concept first.To be a pessimist means, you get low, expectation to yourself.And you prepared to lose.And what about being positive.It is easy to understand tha

5、t means you make best effort on everything, and you have a strong willing of winning the game.But if you combine this concept together.It seems that a paradox.Yes I think so, but I also think it is the way the world is it born to be.And it really works in the reality.We can always find something aro

6、und us.They have totally opposite two sides, but they combine together, and work well together.So how to be a positive pessimist.Let me share some experience with you.I know Im not old enough to tell stories.But these stories really meant to me.加經(jīng)歷So after this experience, I learned, dont be afraid

7、to take a huge challenges.You can prepared to lose, but conquer it with grit.The next story happened last year,And finally, I succeed.加經(jīng)歷So after that experience, I learned there is no shame to be a loser.You just need to set small targets, and devote yourself.So these stories which happened to me, shaped me as a positive pessimist.And until today I know that I am still a bad piano player, a bad painter, and not a