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1、尼泊爾人、斯里蘭卡人和有些印地安人和愛斯基摩人用點頭表示“不”。Nepal, Sri Lanka and some indians and eskimos use nod said no.我們可以觀察一下阿拉伯人同英國人談話。阿拉伯人按照自己的民族習(xí)慣認為站得近些表示友好。英國人按照英國的習(xí)慣會往后退,因為他認為保持適當(dāng)?shù)木嚯x才合適。阿拉伯人往前挪,英國人往后退。談話結(jié)束時,兩個人離原來站的地方可能相當(dāng)遠!We can observe the Arab men with English conversation. The Arab people according t o their own

2、nation habit that stand nearly some friendly. British people to the British ha bits will go back, because he thinks that keep proper distance is appropriate. The Arab people move forward, the English people to move back. At the end of the conversatio n, the two people from the place where the origin

3、al may be quite far!美國進行社交或公務(wù)談話時,有四種距離表示四種不同情況:關(guān)系親密,私人交往,一般社交,公共場合。交談雙方關(guān)系親密,那么身體的距離從直接接觸到相距約45厘米之間,這種距離適于雙方關(guān)系最為親密的場合,比如說夫妻關(guān)系。朋友、熟人或親戚之間個人交談一般以相距45 80米為宜。在進行一股社交活動時,交談雙方相距1.30米至3米;在工作或辦事時,在大型社交聚會上,交談?wù)咭话惚３?.30米至2米的距離。在公共場合,交談?wù)咧g相距更遠,如在公共場所演說,教師在堂上講課,他們同聽眾距離很遠。多數(shù)講英語的人不喜歡人們離得太近,當(dāng)然,離得太遠也有些別扭。離得太近會使人感到不舒服

4、,除非另有原因,如表示喜愛或鼓勵對方與自己親近等,但這是另一回事。記住這一點很重要。The United States social or business talking, there are four distance said four different situation: close, private contacts, general social, public occasion. Talk to close relations between the two sides, so the body from direct contact with the distance to

5、 about 45 c entimeters apart, between the distance is suitable for relations between the two sides o f the most intimate occasions, such as relationship between husband and wife. Friends, acquaintances or relatives personal conversation between general to 45 to 80 meters apart advisable. In a stream

6、 of social activities, the conversation apart 1.30 meters to 3 meters; In work or in the office, in large social gathering, the conversation usually kee p 1.30 meters to 2 metres. In public, the conversation between farther apart, as in publ ic speech, the teacher in class lectures, they far distanc

7、e with the audience. Most engli sh-speaking people dont like people away from too close, of course, are too far away from some weird. From too close will make people feel uncomfortable, unless otherwise reasons, such as said love or encourage each other and their close, but this is anoth er在英語國家里,一般

8、的朋友和熟人之間交談時,避免身體任何部位與對方接觸。即使僅僅觸摸一下也可能引起不良的反應(yīng)。如果一方無意觸摸對方一下,他(她一般會說Sorry;Oh,Im s orry;Excuse me等表示“對不起”的道歉話。In English speaking countries, general friends and acquaintances talk between, avoid an y part of the body contact with each other. If only touch your can also cause adverse reactions. If a part

9、y has no intention of touch each other once, he (she general will sa y Sorry; Oh, I m sorry; Excuse me, said, Im sorry apologies.在英語國家,盯著對方看或看得過久都是不合適的。即使用欣賞的目光看人如對方長得漂亮也會使人發(fā)怒。許多外國人到其他國去旅行,因當(dāng)?shù)厝硕⒅麄兛炊鴲阑?、很別扭,認為那里的人“無禮”而感到氣憤In English speaking countries, staring at or see too long all is not appropriat

10、e. The use of the eye, such as looking at people appreciate each other pretty-also can make pe ople angry. Many foreigners to other countries to travel, because the local people starin g at them see and angry, odd, think the people there rude and angry在第二次世界大戰(zhàn)中,領(lǐng)導(dǎo)英國進行戰(zhàn)爭的首相溫斯頓邱吉爾曾作了一個手勢,當(dāng)時引起了轟動。他出席一個

11、場面盛大而又重要的集會,他一露面,群眾對他鼓掌歡呼。邱吉爾做了一個表示victory(勝利的V形手勢用食指和中指構(gòu)成V形。做這個手勢時,手心要對著觀眾。不知邱吉爾是不知道還是一時失誤,把手背對著觀眾了。群眾當(dāng)中,有人鼓掌喝倒彩,有人發(fā)愣,有人忍不往哈哈大笑。這位首相所做的手勢表示的是別的意思。那不是表示“勝利”的V形,而是一個下流的動作。In the second world war, the British prime minister of war in the leader Winston Churc hill made a gesture that was caused a stir.

12、 He attended a scene grand and important meetings, he made an appearance, the crowds to applaud. Churchill made a says victo ry (win V gestures-use forefinger and middle finger a V. Do the gestures, palm to the audience. Dont know sir Winston Churchill is dont know or a mistake, put his hand fro m the audience. The