10分鐘脫口秀【當(dāng)代人婚戀觀】.doc

生活面面觀誰來為當(dāng)下的婚戀觀埋單主持人：張馨之嘉賓1：馬月君嘉賓2：張依俐主持人：觀眾朋友們大家上午好，歡迎大家收看本期的生活面面觀，我是你們的主持人張馨之。今天我們要和大家探討的話題是“誰來為當(dāng)下的婚戀觀埋單？”。Good morning , everyone . Welcome to todays Life Aspects, Im your hostess 張馨之 . Today we are going to talk something about Who should pay for the present values of love and marriage.全球化是時(shí)下一個(gè)熱議的話題，隨著全球化的引進(jìn)以及在中國的發(fā)展，麥當(dāng)勞，肯德基，LV，香奈兒等國際產(chǎn)品在我們的生活里隨處可見。隨著時(shí)間的推移，我們的生活中不僅充滿了全球化的事物，全球化呢，也日益擴(kuò)展到了我們的思想中。像往常一樣，今天，我們也請來了兩位特約嘉賓，和我們一起來探討這個(gè)話題。他們是中國傳媒大學(xué)的兩位學(xué)生，馬月君和張依俐。我們歡迎。Globalization is a hot topic nowadays , and with its introduction into China and developed for such a long time , McDonalds, KFC, LV, Chanel and other international products can be seen everywhere in our lives . With time goes by , not only globalization influenced our life , but also expanded into our minds . Today ,we invite two guests from Communication University of China in Nanjing to discuss this topic with us . They are 馬月君and張依俐 . Lets warmly welcome them to the stage .主持人：不知道你們記不得啊，在數(shù)十年前，有這樣一種相親方式，男女雙方懷揣錦囊，依照設(shè)計(jì)好的道具和暗號(hào)與另外一位陌生異性在公共場合接頭成功后，按照兩人錦囊的內(nèi)容組合成的就餐地點(diǎn)，趕去和另外兩對同齡人共進(jìn)晚餐。I dont know whether you remember or not . In a few decades ago, there was a way for Blind date . It is called 6-people dinner . Both men and women carries a small pocket with tips in it . They would met with another stranger to the opposite sex in public in accordance the designed props and the signal , after the successful joint , they would rush to the diner place with two other couples of peers according to the contents of the two tips in their pockets combined .馬月君：恩，還有一個(gè)是8分鐘約會(huì)。就是指起源美國的一種速配交友的方式，即一對一入座之后每位男士和一位陌生女士單獨(dú)交談8分鐘，之后就起身到另外一桌和另外一位陌生女士交談，直到8分鐘后再換一個(gè)，直到見完第8位女士。Yes , there is another called 8-minutes date . It means a Match Works which origins from the United States . After one to one seat , each individual man and lady who was a stranger would have an 8 minutes talk . Then , the man would get up to another table and talk to another lady who was a stranger too . 8 minutes later ,he would change his seat again . Until the end of all the 8 women .主持人：是的。隨著全球化的日益滲透，我們中國的電視觀眾在電視機(jī)上也看到了諸如此類的電視節(jié)目：有山東衛(wèi)視的愛情來敲門，浙江衛(wèi)視的為愛向前沖，江蘇衛(wèi)視的非誠勿擾，還有湖南衛(wèi)視的我們約會(huì)吧等等。Yeah , you are right . With the increasing penetration of globalization, our Chinese viewers also saw on this kind of programs on the television . Such as Loves Knocking of Shandong TV , Move for Love of Zhejiang TV , You Are the Oneof Jiangsu TV , Lets Date of Hunan TV and so on .張依俐：是的，每天打開電視機(jī)，相親節(jié)目都隨處可見。而且形式都差不多。還有很多作秀的成分。Yes ! When I turn on the TV every day , this kind of date-shows are everywhere with the similar forms . And there are so many showing elements .主持人：看來你不是很喜歡這種相親類節(jié)目?？墒乾F(xiàn)在這種節(jié)目已經(jīng)漸漸成為電視綜藝新的亮點(diǎn)。有數(shù)據(jù)表明，2010年伊始，電視熒屏上迅速刮起了一股“相親熱潮”，每周收看各大衛(wèi)視的相親類節(jié)目甚至已經(jīng)成為一些單身男女的必修課。然而隨著近來一些電視相親節(jié)目、情感故事節(jié)目的熱播，這些節(jié)目在高收視的同時(shí)也受到了很多觀眾的批評(píng)和質(zhì)疑。很多節(jié)目為搶“眼球”而炮制的越來越出位的話題，以及不加合理引導(dǎo)的價(jià)值誤區(qū)，已引起無數(shù)質(zhì)疑的聲音。那您二位對這個(gè)怎么看？Wow , it seems that you do not like this kind of date-shows . But now this kind of program has gradually become a new bright spot of variety shows on television . Data show that at the beginning of 2010 , alove fever quick spread on the TV screens . It has already become a required course for single men and women to watch the date-shows on some major TVs . However, as some recent television emotional-story programs and date-shows broadcasting on television , these programs gained high ratings, and also be criticized and questioned by many viewers . To arouse peoples interests , many programs created topics ventured beyond audiences frontier , and without a reasonable guide of values, the programs had caused many questioning voice . How do you two think about it ?馬月君：我覺得參加這類型的節(jié)目挺好的，不僅有機(jī)會(huì)見到更多的男士，方便自己做出選擇，幸運(yùn)的話還能夠遇到自己的另一半呢！我們都知道的湖南衛(wèi)視的汪涵和楊樂樂不就是在相親節(jié)目上認(rèn)識(shí)的嗎？人家現(xiàn)在不也很幸福嗎？I think that participate in this type of program is very good . Not only it is convenient to make my own choices , for we have more opportunities to meet with other men , but also to meet the other half if you are lucky enough ! We all know that Wang Han and Yang Lele in Hunan TV . They were met in a date-show ,and they are happy now .張依俐：但是這種在相親節(jié)目上認(rèn)識(shí)并且結(jié)婚的伴侶在全國這么多的夫妻中比例有多大？只有極少的一部分。是的，我們不能否認(rèn)在這中節(jié)目上能夠遇到自己另一半的概率，但是你能把你全部的希望都寄托在相親節(jié)目上嗎？放眼望去，還是在真實(shí)的生活中尋找自己伴侶的情況比較多，這也是最傳統(tǒng)的中國婚戀觀戀愛，然后結(jié)婚。而不是閃婚。But the proportion of those who met on the date-show and then married was only a few part of the whole married couples all around China .We can not deny the possibility of meeting their other half on this kind of shows , but do you really relay your hope on such kind of TV programs to find another half? It is a traditional value of love and marriage that youths should met and find their partner in real life .主持人：你們平時(shí)都看這種節(jié)目嗎？Do you watch such kind of TV programs ?馬月君：看?。∶科诙伎茨?！Yes ! For every period .張依俐：還好吧，實(shí)在沒看的節(jié)目的時(shí)候就看看。Only when I have nothing to do except watching such kind of programs .主持人：那既然你們都看這種情感類的節(jié)目，那你們看這種節(jié)目的時(shí)候心態(tài)是怎樣的呢？Since you have see this type of programs , what were you thinking about when you were watching ?馬月君：羨慕他們參加節(jié)目的男男女女，看著他們配對成功我就特別高興，為他們高興。如果他們配對不成功的話我就覺得挺遺憾的。我甚至還想過自己也去報(bào)名參加呢！I admire those men and women who participate in the programs . And when they were matched as I thought , I felt so excited as if I were her . But if they didnt follow my expects , I felt so upset . I have even thought of been engaged and participating as they were .張依俐：我就是看看熱鬧。你也知道，在這種節(jié)目上常常有一些驚人的話爆出來，什么“寧愿坐在寶馬車?yán)锟蓿膊辉敢庾谧孕熊嚭竺嫘Α笔裁吹?。我覺得參加這種節(jié)目的更多人是假的，是為了幫欄目賺回收視率的！要么就是偽造一個(gè)身份，騙個(gè)女朋友回家。我記得我看過一期節(jié)目是一個(gè)“鉆石王老五”去征婚。可是你也不想想。這種人怎么可能去征婚節(jié)目去找自己的伴侶。他們身邊又不缺女人。所以啊，對方的身份真假都有待考證呢！更別說是不是和他去戀愛了。Well , I was just a looker-on . We all know that there are always had some shocking words bursted out during the process . Such as I would rather cry in a BMW, than smile on the seat of a bike . Their ulter motive is either to gain higher ratings , or use a fake identity to get a girlfriend . I remembered that there was a moneybag in a period , but have you ever think about it ? If he was really rich as he said , why would he go to such program to find a girlfriend ? I dont think theres no female around him . Imaging that you facing a man who has a fake identity ,do you have the courage to fall in love with him ?主持人：恩，確實(shí)有道理。剛才張依俐說到一點(diǎn)就是關(guān)于這類型節(jié)目造假。那在2010年6月上旬，國家廣電總局連續(xù)下發(fā)了兩份通知，直指當(dāng)前婚戀交友類電視節(jié)目和情感故事類電視節(jié)目中存在的“弄虛作假、低俗炒作、混淆是非、誤導(dǎo)觀眾”等問題。這兩份通知公布后，立即引起了全社會(huì)的廣泛關(guān)注。隨之而來的職責(zé)是主流媒體應(yīng)該擔(dān)當(dāng)起什么樣的社會(huì)責(zé)任？應(yīng)該堅(jiān)守什么樣的價(jià)值觀？而現(xiàn)今社會(huì)，人們的婚戀觀更成為人們關(guān)注的焦點(diǎn)。Well , it really make sense . Just now , 張依俐 mentioned the fraud of this kind of programs . And the State Administration of Radio Film and Television (SARFT) issued two notifications consecutively , pointed out that the theme of some of the current programs including making friends , and emotional-stories have some problems of fraud, vulgar speculation, confuse right and wrong and mislead the spectators and so on . After the publication of these two notice, it immediately aroused a wide attention of the whole society. Following questions about what kind of social responsibility the mainstream media should play and what values should adhere to have come up to us .張依俐：我覺得這種類型的節(jié)目就是贏得了罵名，失了榮譽(yù)，相親是為了步入婚姻，婚姻是人生大事，怎么能如此兒戲，是應(yīng)該好好整頓管理了。I think this type of program has won infamy and lost honor . A blind date is aimed at getting a marriage , and a marriage is a life event .How can such a trifling matter happened on marriage ? It should be managed in good order .主持人：伴隨著“試婚”“閃婚”一族的出現(xiàn)，很多人都開始困惑，這個(gè)世界是怎么了？是人們的思想太開放了，還是當(dāng)今人的婚戀觀發(fā)生了改變。那么二位，我想請問你們一個(gè)比較私人的問題，你們現(xiàn)在有男朋友嗎？Many people begin to confused by the appearance of trial marriage, flash marriage , what was going on in the world ? Are peoples minds too open ? Or is there a change on the values of love and marriage ? Well , Id like to ask you two a little private question . Do you have a boyfriend ?馬月君：有啊。Yes .張依俐：有。Yes, I do .主持人：那方便和我們大家透露一下，你們是怎么認(rèn)識(shí)的嗎？Is it convince to tell us how did you get know each other ? 馬月君：我和他是出去旅游的時(shí)候認(rèn)識(shí)的，感覺還挺好的，就在一起了啊。We met during a short trip , and fell good about each other , then we fell in love .張依俐：我和他是高中同學(xué)，后來我們考到一個(gè)城市來的。我們高中的時(shí)候就在一起，一直到現(xiàn)在。已經(jīng)5年了吧。Em . We are schoolmates in senior school and then we rolled in a same city . We were together that time . And it is 5 years till now .主持人：哇！很久了呢！那你們會(huì)結(jié)婚嗎？Wow , such a long-lasting friendship . Would you get married in the future ?張依俐：會(huì)吧，畢業(yè)了就會(huì)結(jié)婚。Yeah , maybe after we graduated .主持人：祝賀你！那你呢？Best wishes ! And you ?馬月君：不知道，現(xiàn)在哪知道啊。戀愛是戀愛，結(jié)婚是結(jié)婚，不一樣的。I don;t know . And how could I know ! Love is just love , and marriage is just marriage . Its different .主持人：恩，那你們能說一說你們各自的婚戀觀嗎？Can you tell us your own values of love and marriage ?張依俐：我覺得我還是比較傳統(tǒng)的一個(gè)人，思想也比較傳統(tǒng)，我就覺得自己的另一半應(yīng)該是我很熟悉的，建立在這樣基礎(chǔ)上的兩個(gè)人才有可能走入婚姻的殿堂并且有一段幸福，持久的婚姻。I hold the traditional values of love and marriage . He would be familiar to me and depend on this common situation , we may step into marriage and live a happy, long-lasting life .馬月君：我覺得幸福就好。認(rèn)識(shí)多久不是我是否選擇他作為結(jié)婚對象的理由。只要有感覺，我覺得就是閃婚我也愿意。Happiness is enough to me . The reason why I choose him does not depended on how long we know about each other . I would like to have a flash marriage with him if I really have feeling on him .主持人：看來你們二位的婚戀觀是不太一樣的啊。那你們覺得當(dāng)今社會(huì)這種婚戀觀是由什么原因造成的？So you two hold the opposite values , yes ? While what do you think of todays different values about love and marriage ?張依俐：我覺得一些主流媒體對此應(yīng)該擔(dān)負(fù)有很大一部分責(zé)任。這已經(jīng)不是簡單的一個(gè)針對相親節(jié)目的低俗化的整頓問題，而是一個(gè)在社會(huì)轉(zhuǎn)型期面臨著各種思潮的交集匯合、各種議論、或者是在新媒體技術(shù)之下各種融合渠道的一個(gè)對民意的反饋的交織，或者是一種爭議，那么在這個(gè)時(shí)候，主流媒體，尤其是電臺(tái)、電視臺(tái)應(yīng)該站出來，應(yīng)該弘揚(yáng)主流價(jià)值觀。I think some of the mainstream media should shoulder a large part of responsibility . This is not a simple rectifying problem pointed to the date-shows . But a combination or a discussion of various trends of thoughts in the social transition , a integration or a dispute on a variety of feedback from the public opinions through the new media technology . While , some of the mainstream media should stand out to spread the right values , e