4社會(huì)心理學(xué)——社會(huì)支持-朋友與愛情

1、Social SupportFriendship and Romantic RelationshipFeng JiangWhy do we make friends?Social exchangeGetting social supportThe more social support, the healthier life“Loners” had significant higher rates of cancer than gregarious ones.Self-perpetuating cycleLonelinessDiscomfort Around OthersAvoidance o

2、f Others and Unappealing BehaviorsSelf-defeating Thoughts (e.g., I have no friends because I am an unlikeable person)DepressionNegative Interpersonal Behavior (e.g., talking about unpleasant things)Other Person Begin to Avoid the PersonGetting information-Social comparisonPeople tend to evaluate the

3、ir opinions and abilities, and the best way is to compare themselves with others.People prefer to compare their opinions and abilities with those of similar rather than dissimilar others.What is love?Whom do you like?You may like those :Who agree with youWho possess desirable characteristics such as

4、 physical attractivenessWho just happen to be around when we hear good news Reinforcement-affect model: we like people with whom we associate positive feelings and dislike those with whom we associate negative feelings.Video DiscussionSternbergs triangular modelSociosexual OrientationSociosexual ori

5、entation scale (Simpson & Gangestad, 1991,1992)Unrestricted sexRestricted sexWho is sexually attractive?For men:Large eyes and small noseHigher pitched voiceThe lower waist-to-hip ratio, the betterDressing in red colorWearing red coat, you would be more attractiveElliot & Niesta, 2008Females

6、 use red as sexual signal -Elliot & Pazda, 2012Experiment 1Imagine that you (are interested in causal sex with a guy. You) decide to join a dating website because you have heard that it is a good way to find a guy (for this type of relationship). The website allows you to post one picture, and y

7、ou decide to take a picture of yourself using your cell phone.In the picture, what color shirt would you wear? With four response options: Red/Black/Blue/GreenExperiment 3500 female profiles from a websitefacilitating sexual relationship500 female profiles from a websitefacilitating serious, long-te

8、rm relationshipsLogistic regression revealed that females on the sex-focused site were more likely to wear red than those on the marriage-focused site.For women:Medium-sized nose and large jawSymmetrical appearanceBaritoneWomen viewing men, red matters -Elliot et al., 2010Study 1Picture in red conte

9、xtWomen rate menStudy 2Picture in red contextWomen and men rate menStudy 7Men wear redWomen Rate on physical attractiveness, desired sexual behavior, perceived statusDo not forgetPositive expressions and behaviorsPlease smile and being nice!Gender differences in SexualityGender differences in Sexual

10、ityWhats your regrets in life?Men are much more likely to wish theyd slept with more partners, whereas women wish theyd tried harder to avoid getting involved with losers.Roese et al., 2006.Gender and Sexual OrientationWomens preferences for statusBurger King employee, blue baseball cap and a polo shirt with the company logoUpper-class ensemble including a blue blazer and a gold Rolex wristwatch.Townsend & Levy, 1990Mens preferences for reproductive resourcesFemales always provide direct physical re