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Unit5Athletes新編大學(xué)英語第二版第四冊課文翻譯Unit5Athletes新編大學(xué)英語第二版第四冊課文翻譯Unit5Athletes新編大學(xué)英語第二版第四冊課文翻譯資料僅供參考文件編號:2022年4月Unit5Athletes新編大學(xué)英語第二版第四冊課文翻譯版本號:A修改號:1頁次:1.0審核:批準(zhǔn):發(fā)布日期:Unit5AthletesAthletesShouldBeRoleModelsIloveCharlesBarkleylikeabrother,andexceptforthetimeswhenwe'rehangingandpushingeachotherundertheboardsingamesbetweenmyteam,theUtahJazz,andhis,thePhoenixSuns,we'regreatfriends.Wedon'tnecessarilylikethesamethings:Charleslovesgolfsomuchhewouldplayathalftimeifhecould,butIthinkagolfcourseisawasteofgoodpasture-land.Oneofthereasonswegetalongsowell,though,isthatwebothsaywhat'sonourmindswithoutworryingaboutwhatotherpeoplearegoingtothink—whichmeanswedisagreefromtimetotime.Here'sanexampleofwhatImean:IdisagreewithwhatCharlessaysinhisNikecommercial,theoneinwhichheinsists,"Iamnotarolemodel."Charles,youcandenybeingarolemodelallyouwant,butIdon'tthinkit'syourdecisiontomake.Wedon'tchoosetoberolemodels,wearechosen.Ouronlychoiceiswhethertobeagoodrolemodelorabadone.Idon'tthinkwecanacceptallthegloryandthemoneythatcomeswithbeingafamousathleteandnotaccepttheresponsibilityofbeingarolemodel,ofknowingthatkidsandevensomeadultsarewatchingusandlookingforustosetanexample.Imean,whydowegetendorsementsinthefirstplaceBecausetherearepeoplewhowillfollowourleadandbuyacertainsneakerorcerealbecauseweuseit.Ilovebeingarolemodel,andItrytobeapositiveone.Thatdoesn'tmeanIalwayssucceed.I'mnosaint.Imakemistakes,andsometimesIdochildishthings.AndIdon'talwayswakeupinagreat,role-modelmood.TherearedayswhenIdon'twanttoposeforapicturewitheveryfanIruninto,whenIdon'tfeellikepickingupbabiesandgivingthemhugsandkisses(nomatterhowcutetheyare),thosearethedaysIjusttrytoavoidthepublic.Butyoudon'thavetobeperfecttobeagoodrolemodelandpeopleshouldn'texpectperfection.IfIweredecidingwhetherabasketballplayerwasapositiverolemodel,Iwouldwanttoknow:Doesheinfluencepeople'slivesinapositivewayawayfromthecourtHowmuchhashegivenofhimself,intimeorinmoney,tohelppeoplewholookuptohimDoeshedisplaythevalues—likehonestyanddetermination—thatarepartofbeingagoodpersonIwouldn'taskwhetherheliveshislifeexactlythewayIwouldliveitorwhetherhehandleseverysituationjustthewayIwouldhandleit.IdoagreewithCharlesononethinghesaysinhiscommercial:"JustbecauseIcandunkabasketballdoesn'tmeanIshouldraiseyourkids."Butsometimesparentsneedalittleassistance.Therearetimeswhenithelpsforamotherandfathertobeabletosaytotheirkids,"DoyouthinkKarlMaloneorScottiePippenorCharlesBarkleyorDavidRobinsonwoulddothat"Tome,ifsomeoneusesmynameinthatway,it'sanhonor.Sure,parentsshouldberolemodelstotheirchildren.Butlet'sfaceit,kidshavelotsofotherrolemodels—teachers,moviestars,athletes,evenotherkids.Asathletes,wecan'ttaketheplaceofparents,butwecanhelpreinforcewhattheytrytoteachtheirkids.Parentsjusthavetomakesuretheydon'ttakeittoofar.Sometimestheyputusonapedestalthatfeelsmorelikeatightrope—sonarrowthatwe'reboundtofalloffeventually.ThisisnotsomethingI'mespeciallyproudof,butI'vehadparentsinUtahsaythingstomelike,"Youknow,Karl,inourfamilyweworshipthegroundyouwalkon.InourhouseyourpictureisrightupthereonthewallbesideJesusChrist."Now,that'sgoingtoofar.Isitanywondersomeathletesdon'twanttoberolemodelsWhowantstobehelduptothatkindofimpossiblyhighstandardImaginesomeoneputtingalifesizedpictureofyouonawallandsayingthingstoyourpicturebeforetheygotobed.That'sscary.
Constantlybeingwatchedbythepubliccanbehardtotolerateattimes.IamsorrythatMichaelJordanhadtodealwiththenegativepublicityhereceivedaboutgambling.Idon'tthinkmostpeoplecanimaginewhatit'sliketobewatchedthatcloselyeveryminuteofeveryday.Iwastoldoncethatitwouldn'tbethatbadformebecausenoonewouldknowmeoutsideofUtah,butthat'snottrue.EversinceIplayedontheDreamTeamintheOlympics,Ican'tgoanywherewithoutbeingthecenterofattention,andthat'sveryconfiningattimes.Forinstance,therehavebeenoccasionswhenI'vefeltlikebuyingabigHarley-Davidsonmotorcycleandridingitdownthestreet.First,theJazzwouldhaveafitandsayit'stoodangerous.Second,everyonewouldbewatchingtoseeifIworeahelmet,ifIwasobeyingthespeedlimit,ifIwastakingturnssafely—younameit.ThefirsttimeIdidn'tmeasureuptoexpectations,Iwouldhear,"Whatkindofexampleisthattosetforotherpeoplewhoridemotorcycles"Butthegoodthingsaboutbeingarolemodeloutweighthebad.It'sagreatfeelingtothinkyou'reasmallpartofthereasonthatakiddecidedtogiveschoolanothertryinsteadofdroppingoutorthatakidhadthestrengthtowalkawaywhensomeoneofferedhimdrugs.ButonethingIwouldencourageparentstodoistoremindtheirkidsthatnomatterwhichathletestheylookupto,therearenoperfecthumanbeings.Thatwaysifthekid'sheroesshouldmakemistakes,itwon'tseemliketheendoftheworldtothem.Iwouldnevercriticizesomeoneforsayingwhathethinks.IfCharlesdoesn'tconsiderhimselfarolemodel,that'scertainlyhisright.ButIthinkheisarolemodel—andagoodone,too.AndifhegetsthatNBAchampionshipring,Imightjustmakehimmyrolemodel.運(yùn)動員該成為榜樣嗎?1.我喜歡查爾斯?巴克利,就像他是我的親兄弟一樣,而且除了比賽中在籃板下彼此沖撞的時(shí)候(我在猶他爵士隊(duì);他在菲尼克斯太陽隊(duì)),我們是很好的朋友。我們的愛好不一定完全相同:查爾斯酷愛高爾夫球,要是可能的話他中場休息時(shí)都會打,我卻認(rèn)為把優(yōu)良的牧地造成高爾夫球場是浪費(fèi)。而我們能很好相處的一個(gè)原因是,我倆都心里想什么就說什么,不管別人會怎么想——這也意味著我們時(shí)常會意見不一致。有一個(gè)例子能說明我的意思:我不同意查爾斯在他做的耐克廣告中說的話。在那則廣告里,他強(qiáng)調(diào)說:“我不是一個(gè)行為榜樣?!辈闋査?,你完全可以否認(rèn)自己是行為榜樣,但是我認(rèn)為這不是自己可以決定的。我們沒想要做行為榜樣,而是大家要我們做。我們唯一能選擇的是做一個(gè)好榜樣還是做一個(gè)壞榜樣。2我認(rèn)為成了著名運(yùn)動員后,我們不能只接受隨之而來的榮譽(yù)和金錢,卻拒絕承擔(dān)作為榜樣的責(zé)任,或者沒有意識到孩子們、甚至一些成年人正關(guān)注著我們,期望我們樹立起一個(gè)榜樣。我的意思是,首先為什么我們能有機(jī)會做廣告呢?因?yàn)橛腥藭晕覀優(yōu)榘駱?,他們買某種運(yùn)動鞋或某種麥片,(僅僅)因?yàn)槲覀冊谟眠@些東西。
3我喜歡成為榜樣,并努力去做個(gè)好榜樣。但這并不是說我總是做得很好。我決非圣賢,我會犯錯(cuò)誤,而且有時(shí)還會做一些非常幼稚的事情。我并非每天早上醒來都具備了做榜樣的好心情。有些日子,我并不想同遇見的每個(gè)球迷都擺姿勢合影,不想抱起嬰兒擁抱、親吻(無論他們有多可愛)。處在這種時(shí)候,我就盡量避開公眾。4但做個(gè)好榜樣并不需要十全十美,而且人們也不應(yīng)該期盼完美。如果由我來判定一個(gè)籃球運(yùn)動員是否是個(gè)好榜樣,我想知道的是:他在球場之外,是否給人們的生活帶來了積極的影響他自己付出了多少時(shí)間或金錢去幫助那些敬仰他的人他顯示出一個(gè)優(yōu)秀者應(yīng)具有的諸如誠實(shí)、毅力這些品格嗎但我不會問他是否以我的那種方式生活,或者是否以我處理事情的方式來應(yīng)付每一個(gè)局面。5查爾斯在他的廣告中所說的有一點(diǎn)我贊成,那就是“我能扣籃并不意味著我應(yīng)該養(yǎng)育你們的孩子?!钡牵袝r(shí)家長們也需要一點(diǎn)幫助。如果父母能對孩子說:“你想想卡爾?馬龍、斯科蒂?皮蓬、查爾斯?巴克利或大衛(wèi)?羅賓遜會那樣做嗎?”有時(shí)候,這是很管用的。如果有人這樣提到我的名字,對我來說是一種榮譽(yù)。當(dāng)然,父母應(yīng)該成為自己孩子的行為榜樣。然而實(shí)際情況是孩子們有許多其他的行為榜樣——老師、電影明星、運(yùn)動員、甚至其他孩子。作為運(yùn)動員,我們不能取代父母,但是我們能協(xié)助他們?nèi)ゼ訌?qiáng)和鞏固他們努力教給孩子的那些思想。6父母們一定不能做得太過火。他們有時(shí)把我們奉若神明,使我們感到是在走鋼索——在這么細(xì)的鋼索上我們最終必定會摔下來。這不是一件讓我感到特別自豪的事:在猶他州曾經(jīng)有孩子家長對我說過這樣的話:“你要知道,卡爾,我們?nèi)叶紝δ愠绨莸梦弩w投地,在我們家里,我們把你的照片和基督畫像一起并排掛在墻上。”這就太過分了。難怪有些運(yùn)動員不愿做行為榜樣。誰會愿意被拔得那樣高呢,那是能達(dá)到的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)嗎?設(shè)想一下,有人把你真人大小的照片掛在墻上,而且每晚睡覺前都要對著你的照片傾訴一番,這是很可怕的。7時(shí)刻處在公眾的注視之下有時(shí)令人難以忍受。我十分同情邁克爾?喬丹,他不得不對付有關(guān)他賭博的負(fù)面報(bào)道。我想大多數(shù)人都無法想象,分分秒秒、日復(fù)一日都被如此密切地注視著是什么滋味。曾經(jīng)有人對我說,我個(gè)人的情況還不至于那么糟,因?yàn)槌隽霜q他州就沒人認(rèn)識我了。但事實(shí)并非如此。自從我作為夢之隊(duì)的一員參加了奧運(yùn)會的比賽后,我無論到哪里都會成為人們注意的中心。這有時(shí)使人受到很大的限制。例如,我有好幾次想買一輛哈利-戴維森牌的大摩托車,騎著它逛逛街。首先爵士隊(duì)會大發(fā)雷霆,說這太危險(xiǎn)。其次,每個(gè)人都會盯著我,看我是否戴了頭盔,是否按照限定的速度行駛,是否安全轉(zhuǎn)彎,不一而足。一旦我沒有達(dá)到他們的期望,就會有人說:“這給其他騎摩托車的人樹立了個(gè)什么榜樣啊?”但是,8做一個(gè)行為榜樣的好處要多于壞處。想到某個(gè)孩子決定在學(xué)業(yè)上再做一番嘗試而不是輟學(xué),或者碰到有人向他兜售毒品時(shí),能從毒販子身邊走開,而這其中也有你的一小部分功勞時(shí),那種感覺好極了。但是我要鼓勵(lì)父母們?nèi)プ鲆患拢蔷褪翘嵝阉麄兊暮⒆訜o論他們敬仰哪位運(yùn)動員,十全十美的人是沒有的。這樣一來,如果孩子們心目中的英雄犯了錯(cuò)誤,他們就不會覺得世界末日到了。9我決不會因?yàn)槟硞€(gè)人說了心里話而批評他。如果查爾斯認(rèn)為他自己不是個(gè)行為榜樣,這是他的權(quán)利。但我認(rèn)為他是一個(gè)行為榜樣,而且是一個(gè)好榜樣。如果他能戴上NBA的冠軍戒指,我也許會把他當(dāng)作我自己的行為榜樣。AthletesShouldNotBeRoleModelsThesedaystherearesomanystoriesaboutthecriminalactivitiesofathletesthatsportspagesarebeginningtolooklikepolicereports.What'sgoingonAmericansportsfansaskovertheirmorningtoastandcoffee,What'shappeningtoourheroesIt'snotdifficulttounderstandourdesireforathletestobeheroes.Onthesurface,atleast,athletesdisplayavitalandindomitablespirit;theyaregloriouslyaliveinsidetheirbodies.Andsportsdoallowustowitnessactsthatcanlegitimatelybedescribedascourageous,thrilling,beautiful,evennoble.Inanincreasinglycomplicatedanddisorderlyworld,sportsarestillanarenainwhichwecanregularlywitnessacertainkindofgreatness.Yetthere'ssomethingofaparadoxhere,fortheveryqualitiesasocietytendstoseekinitsheroes—selflessness,socialconsciousness,andthelike—arepreciselytheoppositeofthoseneededtotransformatalentedbutotherwiseunremarkableneighborhoodkidintoaMichaelJordan.Tobecomeastarathlete,youhavetohaveanextremelycompetitiveoutlookandyouhavetobetotallyfocusedonthedevelopmentofyourownphysicalskills.Thesequalitiesmaywellmakeagreatathlete,buttheydon'tnecessarilymakeagreatperson.Ontopofthis,oursocietyreinforcesthesetraitsbythesystemithascreatedtoproduceathletes—asystemcharacterizedbylimitedresponsibilityandenormousprivilege.Theathletesthemselvessufferthecostsofthissystem.Trainedtomeasurethemselvesperpetuallyagainsttheachievementsofthosearoundthem,manyyoungathletesdevelopasenseofwhatsociologistWalterSchaferhastermed"conditionalself-worth".Theylearnveryquicklythattheywillbeacceptedbytheimportantfiguresintheirlives—parents,coachesandpeersaslongastheyareperceivedas"winners".Unfortunatelytheybecomeconceitedandbehaveasiftheirathleticsuccesswilllastforever.Youngathleteslearnthatsuccess,ratherthanhardandhonestplay,iswhatbringsrewards.Andforthosesuccessfulenoughtorisetothelevelofbig-timecollegesports,the"reward"isoftenanartificiallycontrolledsocialenvironment,onethatshieldsthemfrommanyoftheresponsibilitiesotherstudentsface.Coaches—whoseownjobs,ofcourse,dependonmaintainingwinningprograms—protecttheirathletestoensurethatnothingthreatenstheireligibilitytocompete.Ifanathletegetsintotroublewiththelaw,forinstance,acoachwillverylikelyintervene—hiringanattorney,perhapsevenmanagingtohavethecasequietlydismissed.Insomeschools,athletesdon'tevenchoosetheirownclassesorbuytheirownbooks;theathleticdepartmentdoesallthisforthem.It'snotunheard-offorathleticdepartmentstafftowakeupathletesinthemorningandtotakethemtoclass.Giventhissituation,it'snottoosurprisingthatmanyyoungAmericanathleteslackafullydevelopedunderstandingofrightandwrong.ProfessorSharonStolloftheUniversityofIdahohastestedmorethan10,000studentathletesfromalloverthecountry,rangingfromjuniorhightocollegeage;shereportsthatintheareaofmoralreasoning,athletesinvariablyscorelowerthannon-athletes—andthattheygrowworsethelongertheyparticipateinathletics.Overprotectedbyuniversities,flatteredbylocalcommunities,givenstarstatusbythepublic,rewardedwithsevenoreight-figuresalaries,successfulathletes,inevitablydevelopthefeelingthattheyareprivilegedbeings—asindeedtheyare.Thedangerariseswhentheythinkthatbecausetheyareprivilegedtheycanhaveanythingtheywant.MikeTyson,ofcourse,isthemostobviousexampleofthisphenomenon.Havingbeentaughtasayoungmanthathewasspecial—histrainer,CusD'Amato,hadonesetofrulesforTysonandanother,moredemanding,setforallhisotherboxers—andhavinglivedhisentireadultlifesurroundedbyateamofadmiring"slaves",Tysoneventuallycametobelieve,likeamedievalking,thatallhesawrightfullybelongedtohim.Blessedwithmoneyandfameenoughtolastalifetime,hespenthistimeoutsidetheringacquiringanddiscardingtheobjectsofhisdesire:houses,automobiles,jewelry,clothes,andwomen.Asaresultofthepublicitysurroundinghisrapetrial,countlesswomenhaverelatedstoriesofTysonaskingthemforsexualfavorsandthen,uponbeingrefused,sayingwithsurprise,"Don'tyouknowwhoIamI'mtheheavyweightchampionoftheworld."Needlesstosay,notallathletesareMikeTyson;thereareplentyofathleteswhorecognizethattheyhavebeengrantedsomeextraordinarygiftsinthislifeandwanttogivesomethingbacktothecommunity.Someremarkableindividualswillalwaysriseabovethedeformingathleticsystemwe'vecreated.Afterretiringfromfootball,AlanPageoftheMinnesotaVikingsbecameasuccessfullawyerandestablishedthePageEducationFoundation,whichhelpsminorityanddisadvantagedkidsaroundthecountrypayforcollege.Frustratedbytheold-boynetworkbywhichMinnesotajudgeswerealwaysappointed,PagechallengedthesystemincourtandwaseventuallyelectedjudgeintheSupremeCourt.HethusbecamethefirstblackeverelectedtoastatewideofficeinMinnesota.Thankfully,therewillalwaysbesomelegitimateheroes(or,tousethemorecontemporaryterm,rolemodels)tobefoundamongprofessionalathletes.Still,it'sprobablymisguidedforsocietytolooktoathletesforitsheroes—anymorethanwelookamongtheranksof,say,actorsorlawyersorpipefitters.Thesocialroleplayedbyathletesisindeedimportant(imagineasocietywithoutsports;Iwouldn'twanttoliveinit),butit'sfundamentallydifferentfromthatofheroes.運(yùn)動員不應(yīng)是行為榜樣1如今有關(guān)運(yùn)動員犯罪行為的報(bào)道如此之多,以至于體育專欄變得像警方報(bào)告欄了。這是怎么回事美國的體育迷們在吃早點(diǎn)喝咖啡時(shí)不禁都會問:我們的英雄們怎么了2我們渴望運(yùn)動員成為英雄,這不難理解。至少從表面上來看運(yùn)動員們展現(xiàn)出了朝氣蓬勃、不屈不撓的精神,他們體內(nèi)煥發(fā)著活力。體育運(yùn)動的確讓我們目睹了真正可以稱之為勇敢、激動人心、優(yōu)美乃至高尚的行為。在一個(gè)日益復(fù)雜無序的世界中,體育仍是一個(gè)可以讓我們時(shí)常目睹某種偉大表現(xiàn)的競技場。3然而這顯然是自相矛盾的。社會想從英雄身上尋求的品質(zhì),如大公無私、社會意識等等,恰好與運(yùn)動員所需的品質(zhì)大相徑庭,用這些品質(zhì)是無法把一個(gè)有體育天賦而在其他方面表現(xiàn)平平的街坊小孩變成邁克爾·喬丹的。要成為一名體育明星,你必須具備非凡的競爭意識,并全力以赴提高自身的體育技能。這些品質(zhì)很可能會造就一名優(yōu)秀的運(yùn)動員,但卻未必能塑造一個(gè)偉人。此外,我們的社會用它自己創(chuàng)建的培養(yǎng)運(yùn)動員的制度,進(jìn)一步助長了這些特征。該制度的特點(diǎn)是:責(zé)任有限,待遇豐厚。4運(yùn)動員自身也為這種制度付出了代價(jià)。由于受到的訓(xùn)練是,永遠(yuǎn)拿自己與周圍人的成績相比較,許多年輕運(yùn)動員便產(chǎn)生了一種意識,這種意識被社會學(xué)家沃爾特·謝弗稱之為“有條件的自我價(jià)值”。他們很快就明白了,只要自己被看作是“勝者”,便會被父母、教練以及同伴這些自己生活中很重要的人所接受。不幸的是,他們變得很自負(fù),表現(xiàn)得就像他們的運(yùn)動生涯會永遠(yuǎn)輝煌下去。5年輕的運(yùn)動員們深知,是成功給他們帶來了回報(bào),而不是艱辛和誠實(shí)的比賽。對于那些能在最高水平的大學(xué)體育競技中嶄露頭角的運(yùn)動員來說,“回報(bào)”往往是一種人為設(shè)置的社會環(huán)境,這種環(huán)境使他們免于承擔(dān)其他學(xué)生要面對的許多責(zé)任。教練自身的工作當(dāng)然取決于如何保住獲勝的項(xiàng)目,他們會保護(hù)運(yùn)動員,確保他們的參賽資格不受到任何威脅。例如,如果某個(gè)運(yùn)動員惹上了官司,教練便很可能會干預(yù)——請一位律師,甚至還會設(shè)法使案件悄悄駁回不予受理。在某些學(xué)校,運(yùn)動員甚至不用自己選課或買書,體育系替他們包辦了一切。體育系的員工早上叫醒隊(duì)員并帶他們?nèi)フn堂,這也并非聞所未聞的事。6鑒于上述情況,許多年輕的美國運(yùn)動員缺乏成熟的是非觀也就不足為奇了。愛達(dá)荷大學(xué)的莎倫·斯托爾教授對全國從初中到大學(xué)的一萬多名學(xué)生運(yùn)動員進(jìn)行測試。她報(bào)道說在倫理道德方面,運(yùn)動員們總是比非運(yùn)動員得分低,而且從事體育運(yùn)動的時(shí)間越長,得分越低。7大學(xué)的過分呵護(hù)、當(dāng)?shù)厣鐓^(qū)的吹捧、公眾給予的明星地位,以及七八位數(shù)字的年薪,這些使得成功的運(yùn)動員必然形成這樣的感覺:他們是有特權(quán)的人——他們也確實(shí)是有特權(quán)的人。當(dāng)他們因?yàn)橄碛刑貦?quán)便自認(rèn)為可以為所欲為時(shí),危險(xiǎn)就隨之而至。8邁克·泰森當(dāng)然是這一現(xiàn)象最明顯的例子。他年輕時(shí)就被灌輸他是與眾不同的——他的教練員屈斯·達(dá)馬托單獨(dú)為他制定了一套訓(xùn)練規(guī)則,而為所有其他拳擊手制定了另一套要求更高的規(guī)則——而且他的整個(gè)成年時(shí)期都生活在一群仰慕他的“奴隸”中。泰森終于漸漸相信,他所見到的一切都理應(yīng)歸其所有,儼然一個(gè)中世紀(jì)的國王。由于一生可享盡榮華富貴,他將拳擊臺外的時(shí)間都用來追逐又拋棄他所要的東西:房子、汽車、珠寶、服飾以及女人。由于強(qiáng)奸案的曝光,無數(shù)的女人講述了當(dāng)泰森向他們提出性要求而被拒絕時(shí),他竟吃驚地說道:“你們難道不知道我是誰嗎我是世界重量級拳擊冠軍?!辈挥谜f,并不是所有運(yùn)動員都像邁克·泰森那樣;有許多運(yùn)動員認(rèn)識到自己此生被賦予了非凡才能,愿意給社會一些回報(bào)。9總有一些杰出的個(gè)人會從我們所創(chuàng)建的畸形的體育制度中脫穎而出。明尼蘇達(dá)海盜隊(duì)的艾倫·佩奇從橄欖球隊(duì)退役后,成了一名成功的律師并創(chuàng)立了佩奇教育基金會,資助全國的少數(shù)民族和貧困兒童上大學(xué)。明尼蘇達(dá)州的法官原先總是由聯(lián)誼會任命的,由于對這一體制不滿,佩奇在法庭上對此提出了質(zhì)疑,并終于獲選為最高法院的法官。他于是成為第一個(gè)當(dāng)選為明尼蘇達(dá)州州級官員的黑人。令人欣慰的是,在職業(yè)運(yùn)動員的行列里,總能找到一些真正的英雄(或者,用一個(gè)更現(xiàn)代的詞:行為榜樣)。10然而,人們期望運(yùn)動員來充當(dāng)社會的英雄是一種誤導(dǎo),也許比我們期待在演員、律師或者管道工等行業(yè)中產(chǎn)生社會英雄更不明智。運(yùn)動員所起的社會作用的確很重要(設(shè)想一個(gè)沒有體育運(yùn)動的社會,我是不愿意生活在其中的),但他們與英雄所起的作用有本質(zhì)的不同。PlayingtoWinMydaughterisanathlete.Nowadays,thisstatementwon'tstrikemanyparentsasunusual,butitdoesme.Untilherfreshmanyearinhighschool,Annwasnotreallyinterestedinsportsofanykind.Whensheplayed,shedidn'tliketomovearound,oftendroppedtheball,andhadtheannoyinghabitoflaughingonthefieldorthecourt.Indifferencecombinedwithanotherfactorthatwasnotagoodsignforasportscareer.Annwasgrowinguptobebeautiful.Bytheeighthgrade,natureanddentalworkhadproduceda5-foot-8-inch,125-pound,brown-eyedbeautywithawonderfulsmile.Peopletoldher,too.Andasmanyyoungwomenknow,itisconsideredasatisfactoryaccomplishmenttobeprettyandstaypretty.Thenyoucansimplysitstillandenjoytheunconditionalpositivereward.Annlovedtheattentionanddidn'tconsideritinsultingwhenshewasawarded"BestHair,"femalecategory,intheeighth-gradeyearbook.Soitcameasasurprisewhenshebecameanathlete.Thefirstindicationthatathleticindifferencehadendedcamewhenshejoinedthehigh-schoolcross-countryteam.ShesignedupfortheteaminearlySeptemberandcamethirdwithinthreedays.Notonlythat.Afteroneofthose3.1-mileracesupanddownhillonarainyNovemberafternoon,Anncamehomemuddyandbedraggled.Herhairwaswetandthemascarashehadappliedsocarefullythatmorningranindarkcirclesunderhereyes.Thisisit,Ithought.WaituntilLadyAstorseesherselfinthemirrors.Butthekidwiththebesthairineighth-gradewentontofinishtheseasonandsubsequentlyletterincross-country,soccer,basketball,andfootball."Ilovesports,"shetellsanyonewhowilllisten.SodoI,thoughmymidlifequestforadoctorateleavesmelittletimeforeitherplayingorwatching.Myloveofsportsisboundupwiththegoalsinmylifeandmyhopesformythreedaughters.Ihavebeguntohearthemessageofsports.Itisverydifferentfrommanymessagesthatwomenreceiveaboutliving,andIthinkitisgood.Myhusband,forexample,talkedtoAnndifferentlywhenherealizedthatshewasaseriouscompetitorandnotjustsomeonewhowantedtogetinshapesoshe'dlookgoodinapromdress.Beaggressive,he'dadvise.Gofortheball.Beintense.Beintense.Shecameinforsomeofthemostseverecriticismfromherdadwhen,duringbasketballseason,herintensitydecreased.You'repretendingtoplayhard,hesaid.YoulikeitonthebenchDoyouliketowatchwhileyourteammatesplay
Iwouldthink,howisthiskidreactingtosuchadviceForyears,she'dbeentoldathome,atschool,bycountlessadvertisements."Bequiet.Begood.Bestill."TeachershadreportedthatAnnwastootalkative,notobedientenough,toosuperficial.Ihaddressedherupinfrillydressesandtoldhernottogetdirty.Idealsoffemininityinadswerestill,quiet,coolfemaleswhoseemptyexpressionlessfacesmadethemlookelegantandmature.Howcananyadolescentgirlknowwhatshe'supagainstHaveyoueverreallynoticedintensityItisneitherquietnorgood.Andit'sdefinitelynotpretty.Intheend,herintensityrevived.Athalftime,she'dlookforherfather,andhewouldcomeoutofthebleacherstodiscusstoughdefense,findingtheopenplayer,improvingherjumpshot.I'dwatchthemattheedgeofthecourt,atallmanandatallgirl,talkingabouthowtoplay.Notthatdangersdon'tlurkforthefemalesofhergeneration.Ioccasionallyrunthishorrorshowinmyownmentalmovietheater:AnoverlypolitebuthandsomelawyerlikedroneofayoungmanseesmyAnn.Hmmm,hesaysunconsciouslytohimself,goodgenepool,andwouldn'tshegowellwithmyBMWandthecondoThenIseeAnnwithagreatnewhairdokissingthedrone"goodbyehoney"andsettingofftothenearestmalltospendmoneywithherbeautifulfriends.Buttheothernightshecamehomefromsoftballtryoutsat6intheevening.Thedarkcirclesunderhereyeswerefromexhaustion,notmakeup."Itriedtoohardtoday,"shesays."IfeellikeI'mgoingtobesick."Aftershehasrevived,sheexplains.Shewantstoplayaparticularposition.Thereiscompetitionforit."Ican'tletanybodyelsegetmyspot,"shesays."I'vegottoprovethatIcandoit."Later,wefindoutthatshehasnotgottenthemuch-wantedthird-baseposition,butshewillstartwiththevarsityteam.Myhusbandexplainstoherhowcoachesoftenworkandtellshertokeeptrying."Youaredoingfine,"hesays.ShegetsthatI-am-going-to-keep-tryinglookonherface.Ofcourse,Anndoesn'trealizethechangesshehasmade,thepowerofherself-definition."I'manathlete,Ma,"shetellsmewhenIsuggestparticipationintheschoolplayortheyearbook.Butshehasreallycausedustorethinkourviewsofexistence:heryoungestsisterswhoconsidersportsanaturalactivityforfemales,herfatherwhoseadvocacyofwomenhasincreased,andme.BecausewhenIdoubtmyownabilities,Isaytomyself,getintense,Margaret.Doyouliketositonthebench
Andmyintensityrevives.Iamnotsuggestingthatparticipationinsportsistheanswerforallyoungwomen.Itisnoteasy—thelosing,jealousy,rawcompetition,andintensepersonalcriticismofperformance.AndIdon'twishtoimplythatthesportssceneisamoralityplayeither.Girls'sportscanbefunny.Youcan'tforgetthatoutonthatfieldareabunchofpeoplewhoknowthemeaningofthewordcute.Duringonegame,InoticedthatAnnhadablueribbontiedonherponytail,anditdawnedonmethateverygirlontheteamhadanidenticalbow.SomehowIcan'tpicturetheCelticsgatheredinthelockerroomoftheBostonGardenagreeingtowearthesamecolorsweatbands.Whathasstruckme,amazedme,andmademeholdmybreathinwonderandinhopeisboththeidealofsportandtherealityofayounggirlnotafraidtodoherbest.Iwatchedherbringingballupthecourt.Weyellencouragementfromthestands,thoughIknowshedoesn'thearus.Herfaceisredwithexertio
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