別讓任何人擾亂你人生的節(jié)奏

Don'tletanyonedisturbyourpaceHeadmaster:Goodmorningyearelevens.Today'sassemblyisaboutthestartofajourney.Thestartoftherestofyourlives.In2yearstimeallofyouwillbefinishingyouralevels.In3yearstimeallofyouwillbestudyingacrosstheworld,studyingattheuniversityofyourchoice.In5yearstimeyou'llhavestartedyourcareers.Manyofyouwillbeinthisroomworkingforthetopinstitutionsacrosstheglobe.Youwillthengetmarried,youthenmaybuyahouse.In10yearstimeyourlifewillbesetforyou.In15yearsyou'llbe30andfromthenonyourpath,yourlifewillbeset.一位校長(zhǎng)正慷慨激昂，給學(xué)生們講“人生須知”，認(rèn)真地為大家做著規(guī)劃?！霸龠^(guò)兩年，你們就會(huì)完成ALevels的學(xué)業(yè)；再過(guò)三年，你們就會(huì)去自己想去的國(guó)家，上自己想上的大學(xué)；再過(guò)五年，你們會(huì)步入職業(yè)生涯，在座的很多同學(xué)，會(huì)進(jìn)入全球頂尖公司工作；然后你們會(huì)結(jié)婚，買房；十年之后，你的人生就會(huì)安定下來(lái)。十五年后，你就30歲了，你的人生軌跡也會(huì)就此定型?！毙ｉL(zhǎng)用這樣有條不紊的大道理，一分鐘就總結(jié)了人的一生。Ayoungman:I'msorryMr.Headmaster,letmetellyouwhythatapproachmayfailyou.Iknowpeoplewhograduatedat21andtheygetajobuntiltheywere27.Iknowpeoplewhograduatedlateat25andtheyfoundworkimmediately.Iknowpeoplewhoneverwenttouniversity,butfoundwhattheyloveat18.Iknowpeoplewhofoundajodstraightoutofcollegemakingdecentmoney,buthatewhattheydo.Iknowpeoplewhotookgapyearsandfoundtheirpurpose.Iknowpeoplewhoweresosureaboutwhattheyweregoingtodoat16,theychangetheirmindat26.Iknowpeoplewhohavechildrenbutaresingleandiknowpeoplewhoaremarriedbuthadtowait8to10yearstohavechildren.Iknowpeopleinrelationshipswholovesomeoneelse.Iknowpeoplewholoveeachotherbutaren'ttogether.Somypointiseverythinginlifehappensaccordingtoourtime,ourclock.Youmaylookatsomeofyourfriendsandthinkthattheyheadofyou,maybesomeofthemyoufeelarebehind,buteverythinghappensattheirownpace.Theyhavetheirowntimeandclockandsodoyou.Bepatient.Atage25,MarkCubanwasabartenderinDallas.Ittooktill32forJ.K.RowlingtobepublishedforHarryPotterafterbeingrejectedby12publishers.OrtegalaunchedZarawhenhewas39.JackMastartedAlibabawhenwas35.MorganFreemangothisbigbreakat52.SteveCarellonlygothisbreakafter40yearsold.VirginwasstartedbyRichardBransonat34.Gettingyourdegreeafter25isstillanachievement.Notbeingmarriedat30butstillhappyisbeautiful.Startingafamilyafter35isstillpossibleandbuyingahouseafter40isstillgreat.Don'tletanyonerushyouwiththeirtimelines.BecauseasEinsteinsaid,“Noteverythingthatcountscanbecountedandnoteverythingthat'scountedtrulycount.”Andthisisthemostimportantthing,Iwantyoutobeabletocreatemeaningful,purposefulfulfillinglivesforyourselvesandlearnhowtousethattomakeanimpactandadifferenceinthelivesofothers.Thatwillbetruesuccess.不好意思，校長(zhǎng)，我想告訴你為什么你的這些話是錯(cuò)的。有的人21歲畢業(yè)，到27歲才找到工作；有的人25歲才畢業(yè)，但馬上就找到了工作；有的人沒上過(guò)大學(xué)，卻在18歲就找到了他們熱愛的事；有的人一畢業(yè)就找到好工作，賺到很多錢，卻過(guò)得不開心。有的人畢業(yè)后選擇了間隔年，并找到了自我。有的人16歲時(shí)就很清楚自己想要什么，但在26歲時(shí)改變了想法；有的人有了孩子，卻還是單身；有的人結(jié)了婚，卻等了十年八年才生孩子；有的人身處一段感情，愛的卻是別；有的人明明彼此相愛，卻沒有在一起。我想說(shuō)的是，人生中每一件事都取決于我們自己的時(shí)間，自己的時(shí)鐘。你身邊有些朋友或許遙遙領(lǐng)先于你，有些朋友也許落后于你，但凡事都有它自己的節(jié)奏。他們有他們的節(jié)奏，你有你自己的。耐心一點(diǎn)。馬克.庫(kù)班25歲時(shí)，還只是達(dá)拉斯一家酒吧的酒保。被出版商拒絕12次后,JK.羅琳32歲時(shí)才出版《哈利.波特》Ortega在39歲才創(chuàng)辦了Zara馬云35歲才創(chuàng)立阿里巴巴摩根.弗里曼52歲才在演藝事業(yè)上有了重大突破史蒂夫.卡瑞爾過(guò)了40歲才紅。理查德.布蘭森34歲才創(chuàng)辦維珍航空25歲后拿到文憑，依然值得驕傲30歲還沒結(jié)婚，但過(guò)得開心也很美好35歲后成家也沒什么不可以，40歲再買房也不丟人。不要讓任何人擾亂你的時(shí)間表愛因斯坦曾說(shuō)過(guò)：并非所有重要的東西，都能計(jì)算得清楚。也并非每一件計(jì)算得清楚的東西，就都有意義