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原創(chuàng)外刊改編語法填空題打卡Day75Doyouhavesecondhandsadness?Nowdays,
wesharebasicallyeverything;ourphotosarealloverInstagram,ourhottakesonTwitter,ourpersonalityquizresultsonFacebook–andwepingourthoughtsandfeelingstooneanother,too,overWhatsApp.Thereare,ofcourse,somanybenefitstoallofthis.Forstarters,wecanbetheretocheerourlovedonesonandcelebratetheirsuccessesatthedropofahat,tuninginfromafar____1_____easeatthemereclickofabutton.Weexperiencetheirjoyrightalongwiththem.Ontheflipside,then,ifsomeoneclosetousisgoingthroughsomethingawful,wecanofferoursupportmorereadilythanever.Butthiscan,inturn,causeustoexperienceapsychologicalphenomenonknownas“secondhandsadness.”Whatissecondhandsadness?“Everhadafriendtellyoua____2_____(tragedy)story,heardthey’velostalovedoneoraregoingthroughareallyhardtime,andyou’vefelttheirsadnessonadifferentlevel?It’sa____3_____(combine)ofempathy(understandingwhatothersfeel)andsympathy(feelingforothers),”explainsBeingwelllifecoachGraceMcMahon.“Sharinganyemotions–especiallythebiggeroneslikesadness,angerandhappiness–allowsourfriendships_____4____(blossom).Infact,wewillforgeabondfarstrongerthanifwebothchataboutwatchingthesameTVshowsovertheweekend.”Issecondhandsadnessasymptomofnarcissism?Ofcourse,it’seasytoassumeyou’rebeingself-indulgentifyoufindyourselffeelinglowonanother’sbehalf;afterall,thesadness-inducingeventisnothappeningtoyoudirectly,so_____5____onearthareyoubehavingasifitis?McMahon,however,sayssecondhandsadnessisconsideredasaselfishactonlyifyouaregoingtootherpeopleforsympathyofyourown.“It’smorelikelythatyouareanempatheticperson,”shesays.“Butsometimes,whenwe_____6____(accident)confusesympathyandempathy,wecanendupreallyfeelingthatemotionwithsomeone,ratherthanunderstandinghowtheyfeelandrecognisingthechallengeitbringsforthem,notus.Andthiscanreallyaffectourownmentalwellbeing.”Howcanweprotectourselvesfromsecondhandsadness?
It’simportantwemakesurewearethereandpresentforthepeopleinourlifewhoneedusmost,ofcourse,butcanwedosowhileprotectingourownemotionalwellbeing?Absolutely.Infact,McMahonsuggestswemakeanefforttotryandbeempatheticratherthansympathetic,becausedevelopingempathyactuallyhelpstoprotectusfromtheemotionsofothers.“Whensomeonesharessomesadnews,orhowthey’rereallydoingatthemomentifthingsaren’teasy,wecancomeawayfeelingsadforthem,____7_____inturncandampenourownspirits–primarilybecausewereallylovethispersonandwantthebestforthem,”shesays.“Trytomakelistening____8_____priority.So,whenafriendistellingusaboutadifficultsituation,listen–andlistenwithoutmakinganyjudgement,beitgoodorbad–toreallyhearandunderstand____9_____theyareexperiencing,feelingandthinkingaboutit.”McMahonadds:“Trytoavoidthinkinghowyouwouldreactifitwasyou.Instead,justlistentohowtheyarereactingandwhatitmeansforthem.Thiswillavoidconfusingthefeelingsbetweenyou,helpyoutounderstandtheirpointofview____10_____ allowyoutorespondeffectivelywithphraseslike,‘Thismustbereallyhardforyourightnow,’or‘Ihopethingsgetbetterforyousoon,canIdoanythingtohelp?’"“Thisalsomeanswecanbypassfrustratingtoxicpositivity(whenweseekapositiveineverythingdespitethedirenessofasituation).”Doyouhavesecondhandsadness?Nowdays,
wesharebasicallyeverything;ourphotosarealloverInstagram,ourhottakesonTwitter,ourpersonalityquizresultsonFacebook–andwepingourthoughtsandfeelingstooneanother,too,overWhatsApp.Thereare,ofcourse,somanybenefitstoallofthis.Forstarters,wecanbetheretocheerourlovedonesonandcelebratetheirsuccessesatthedropofahat,tuninginfromafarwitheaseatthemereclickofabutton.Weexperiencetheirjoyrightalongwiththem.Ontheflipside,then,ifsomeoneclosetousisgoingthroughsomethingawful,wecanofferoursupportmorereadilythanever.Butthiscan,inturn,causeustoexperienceapsychologicalphenomenonknownas“secondhandsadness.”Whatissecondhandsadness?“Everhadafriendtellyouatragic(tragedy)story,heardthey’velostalovedoneoraregoingthroughareallyhardtime,andyou’vefelttheirsadnessonadifferentlevel?It’sacombination(combine)ofempathy(understandingwhatothersfeel)andsympathy(feelingforothers),”explainsBeingwelllifecoachGraceMcMahon.“Sharinganyemotions–especiallythebiggeroneslikesadness,angerandhappiness–allowsourfriendshipstoblossom(blossom).Infact,wewillforgeabondfarstrongerthanifwebothchataboutwatchingthesameTVshowsovertheweekend.”Issecondhandsadnessasymptomofnarcissism?Ofcourse,it’seasytoassumeyou’rebeingself-indulgentifyoufindyourselffeelinglowonanother’sbehalf;afterall,thesadness-inducingeventisnothappeningtoyoudirectly,sowhyonearthareyoubehavingasifitis?McMahon,however,sayssecondhandsadnessisconsideredasaselfishactonlyifyouaregoingtootherpeopleforsympathyofyourown.“It’smorelikelythatyouareanempatheticperson,”shesays.“Butsometimes,whenweaccidentally(accident)confusesympathyandempathy,wecanendupreallyfeelingthatemotionwithsomeone,ratherthanunderstandinghowtheyfeelandrecognisingthechallengeitbringsforthem,notus.Andthiscanreallyaffectourownmentalwellbeing.”Howcanweprotectourselvesfromsecondhandsadness?
It’simportantwemakesurewearethereandpresentforthepeopleinourlifewhoneedusmost,ofcourse,butcanwedosowhileprotectingourownemotionalwellbeing?Absolutely.Infact,McMahonsuggestswemakeanefforttotryandbeempatheticratherthansympathetic,becausedevelopingempathyactuallyhelpstoprotectusfromtheemotionsofothers.“Whensomeonesharessomesadnews,orhowthey’rereallydoingatthemomentifthingsaren’teasy,wecancomeawayfeelingsadforthem,whichinturncandampenourownspirits–primarilybecausewereallylovethispersonandwantthebestforthem,”shesays.“Trytomakelisteningapriority.So,whenafriendistellingusaboutadifficultsituation,listen–andlistenwithoutmakinganyjudgement,beitgoodorbad–toreallyhearandunderstandwhattheyareexperiencing,feelingandthinkingaboutit.”McMahonadds:“Trytoavoidthinkinghowyouwouldreactifitwasyou.Instead,justlistentohowtheyarereactingandwhatitmeansforthem.Thiswillavoidconfusingthefeelingsbetweenyou,helpyoutounderstandtheirpointofviewandallowyoutorespondeffectivelywithphraseslike,‘Thismustbereallyhardforyourightnow,’or‘Ihopethingsgetbetterforyousoon,canIdoanythingtohelp?’"“Thisalsomeanswecanbypassfrustratingtoxicpositivity(whenweseekapositiveineverythingdespitethedirenessofasituation).”你有間接性悲傷嗎?現(xiàn)在,我們基本上共享一切;我們的照片遍布Instagram,我們在Twitter上的熱門照片,我們在Facebook上的個(gè)性測試結(jié)果——我們也通過WhatsApp互相傳遞我們的想法和感受。當(dāng)然,所有這些都有很多好處。首先,我們可以在那里為我們所愛的人加油,慶祝他們的成功,只需點(diǎn)擊一個(gè)按鈕就可以立刻且輕松地從遠(yuǎn)處收聽。我們和他們一起體驗(yàn)他們的快樂。另一方面,如果我們身邊的人正在經(jīng)歷可怕的事情,我們可以比以往任何時(shí)候都更容易地提供支持。但這反過來又會(huì)導(dǎo)致我們經(jīng)歷一種被稱為“二手悲傷”的心理現(xiàn)象。什么是間接的悲傷?Beingwell生活教練GraceMcMahon解釋道:“有沒有朋友告訴你一個(gè)悲慘的故事,聽說他們失去了親人,或者正在經(jīng)歷一段非常艱難的時(shí)光,而你在不同的層面上感受到了他們的悲傷?這是同理心(理解他人的感受)和同情(對他人的同情)的結(jié)合”?!胺窒砣魏吻榫w——尤其是悲傷、憤怒和幸福等更大的情緒——都能讓我們的友誼開花結(jié)果。事實(shí)上,我們建立的紐帶比周末聊著看同一個(gè)電視節(jié)目要牢固得多。”間接的悲傷是自戀的癥狀嗎?當(dāng)然,如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己為他人感到情緒低落,很容易認(rèn)為你是在自我放縱;畢竟,引發(fā)悲傷的事件并沒有直接發(fā)生在你身上,那么你到底為什么表現(xiàn)得像是這樣呢?然而,麥克馬洪說,只有當(dāng)你向別人尋求自己的同情時(shí),間接的悲傷才會(huì)被認(rèn)為是自私的行為?!澳愀锌赡苁且粋€(gè)有同情心的人,”她說?!暗袝r(shí),當(dāng)我們不小心混淆了同情和同理心時(shí),我們最終可能會(huì)與某人真正感受到這種情緒,而不是理解他們的感受,并認(rèn)識(shí)到這給他們而不是我們帶來的挑戰(zhàn)。這確實(shí)會(huì)影響我們自己的心理健康。”我們怎樣才能保護(hù)自己免受間接的悲傷?當(dāng)然,重要的是,我們要確保我們在那里,為生活中最需要我們的人服務(wù),但我們能在保護(hù)自己情緒健康的同時(shí)做到這一點(diǎn)嗎?絕對地事實(shí)上,麥克馬洪建議我們努力表現(xiàn)出同理心,而不是同情心,因?yàn)榕囵B(yǎng)同理心實(shí)際上有助于保護(hù)我們免受他人情緒的影響。她說:“當(dāng)有人分享一些悲傷的消息,或者如果事情不容易,他們現(xiàn)在的表現(xiàn)如何時(shí),我們可能會(huì)為他們感到難過,這反過來會(huì)打擊我們自己的精神——主要是因?yàn)槲覀冋娴暮軔圻@個(gè)人,希望他們得到最好的”?!霸囍褍A聽作為優(yōu)先事項(xiàng)。所以,當(dāng)朋友告訴我們一個(gè)困難的情況時(shí),要傾聽——不要做出任何判斷,無論是好是壞——真正傾聽和理解他們正在經(jīng)歷、感受和思考的事情?!丙溈笋R洪補(bǔ)充道:“盡量避免思考如果是你,你會(huì)有什么反應(yīng)。相反,只需傾聽他們的反應(yīng)以及這對他們意味著什么。這將避免混淆你們之間的感情,幫助你理解他們的觀點(diǎn),并讓你用諸如‘現(xiàn)在這對你來說一定很難’或‘我希望你的情況很快好轉(zhuǎn),我能做些什么嗎來幫忙?”“這也意味著我們可以繞過令人沮喪的有毒積極性(當(dāng)我們在任何事情上都尋求積極性,盡管情況很糟糕)?!鄙~積累atthedropofahat立刻,毫不猶豫witheasr輕松地,容易地ontheflipside在另一方面empathyn.共鳴,同情;感同身受,產(chǎn)生共鳴(的能力)sympathyn.同情(心),理解blossomv.開花;成長,繁盛,興旺self-indulgentadj.任性的,放縱的onone’sbehalf代表某人dampenv.使潮濕,弄濕;減弱,抑制bypassv.繞過,避開原創(chuàng)外刊改編語法填空題打卡Day76NutritionMythsYouShouldKnowMythNo.1:Freshfruitsandvegetablesarealwayshealthierthancanned,frozenordriedvarieties.
Despitetheenduringbeliefthat“freshisbest,”
research
hasfoundthatfrozen,cannedanddriedfruitsandvegetablescanbejustas_____1_____(nutrition)astheirfresh
counterparts.
Onecaveat:Somecanned,frozenanddried______2____(variety)contain
sneaky
ingredientslikeaddedsugars,
saturated
fatsand
sodium,Dr.Bleichsaid,sobesuretoreadnutritionlabelsand
optforproductsthatkeepthoseingredientstoaminimum.MythNo.2:Allfatisbad.Inreality,Dr.Surampudiadded,notallfatsarebad.Whilecertaintypesoffats,includingsaturatedand
trans
fats,canincreaseyourriskforconditionslikeheartdiseaseorstroke,healthyfats—likemonounsaturatedfats(foundinoliveandotherplantoils,
avocados
andcertainnutsandseeds)andpolyunsaturatedfats(foundinsunflowerandotherplantoils,
walnuts,fishand
flaxseeds)—actuallyhelpreduceyourrisk.Goodfatsarealsoimportantforsupplyingenergy,producingimportanthormones,supportingcellfunctionandaidinginthe_____3_____(absorb)ofsomenutrients.MythNo.3:‘Caloriesin,caloriesout’isthemostimportantfactorforlong-termweightgain.
It’struethatifyouconsumemorecaloriesthanyouburn,youwillprobablygainweight.Andifyouburnmorecaloriesthanyouconsume,youwillprobablyloseweight—atleastfortheshortterm.
Buttheresearchdoesnotsuggestthateatingmorewillcausesustainedweightgainthatresultsinbecomingoverweightor
obese.“Rather,it’sthetypesoffoodsweeat_____4_____maybethelong-termdrivers”ofthoseconditions,saidDr.DariushMozaffarian,aprofessorofnutritionandmedicineattheFriedmanSchoolofNutritionScienceandPolicyatTuftsUniversity.
Ultraprocessedfoods—suchasrefined
starchy
snacks,
cereals,crackers,energybars,bakedgoods,sodasandsweets—canbeparticularlyharmfulforweightgain,asthey_____5_____(digest)
rapidly
andfloodthebloodstreamwith
glucose,
fructose
and
aminoacids,_____6_____areconvertedtofatbytheliver.
Instead,what’sneededformaintainingahealthyweightis_____7_____shiftfromcountingcaloriesto_____8_____(prior)healthyeatingoverall—quality_____9_____quantity.MythNo.4:Plantmilkishealthierthan
dairy
milk.
There’saperceptionthat
plant-basedmilks,suchasthose_____10_____(make)fromoats,
almonds,riceand
hemp,arericherinnutritionthancow’smilk.“It’sjustnottrue,”saidKathleenMerrigan,aprofessorofsustainablefoodsystemsatArizonaStateUniversityandaformerU.S.
deputy
secretaryofagriculture.Considerprotein:Typically,cow’smilkhasabouteightgramsofproteinpercup,whereasalmondmilktypicallyhasaroundoneortwogramspercup,andoatmilkusuallyhasaroundtwoorthreegramspercup.Whilethenutritionofplant-basedbeveragescanvary,Dr.Merrigansaid,manyhavemoreaddedingredients—like
sodium
andaddedsugars,whichcancontributetopoorhealth—thancow’smilk.NutritionMythsYouShouldKnowMythNo.1:Freshfruitsandvegetablesarealwayshealthierthancanned,frozenordriedvarieties.
Despitetheenduringbeliefthat“freshisbest,”
research
hasfoundthatfrozen,cannedanddriedfruitsandvegetablescanbejustasnutritious(nutrition)astheirfresh
counterparts.
Onecaveat:Somecanned,frozenanddriedvarieties(variety)contain
sneaky
ingredientslikeaddedsugars,
saturated
fatsand
sodium,Dr.Bleichsaid,sobesuretoreadnutritionlabelsand
optforproductsthatkeepthoseingredientstoaminimum.MythNo.2:Allfatisbad.Inreality,Dr.Surampudiadded,notallfatsarebad.Whilecertaintypesoffats,includingsaturatedand
trans
fats,canincreaseyourriskforconditionslikeheartdiseaseorstroke,healthyfats—likemonounsaturatedfats(foundinoliveandotherplantoils,
avocados
andcertainnutsandseeds)andpolyunsaturatedfats(foundinsunflowerandotherplantoils,
walnuts,fishand
flaxseeds)—actuallyhelpreduceyourrisk.Goodfatsarealsoimportantforsupplyingenergy,producingimportanthormones,supportingcellfunctionandaidingintheabsorption(absorb)ofsomenutrients.MythNo.3:‘Caloriesin,caloriesout’isthemostimportantfactorforlong-termweightgain.
It’struethatifyouconsumemorecaloriesthanyouburn,youwillprobablygainweight.Andifyouburnmorecaloriesthanyouconsume,youwillprobablyloseweight—atleastfortheshortterm.
Buttheresearchdoesnotsuggestthateatingmorewillcausesustainedweightgainthatresultsinbecomingoverweightor
obese.“Rather,it’sthetypesoffoodsweeatthatmaybethelong-termdrivers”ofthoseconditions,saidDr.DariushMozaffarian,aprofessorofnutritionandmedicineattheFriedmanSchoolofNutritionScienceandPolicyatTuftsUniversity.
Ultraprocessedfoods—suchasrefined
starchy
snacks,
cereals,crackers,energybars,bakedgoods,sodasandsweets—canbeparticularlyharmfulforweightgain,astheyaredigested(digest)
rapidly
andfloodthebloodstreamwith
glucose,
fructose
and
aminoacids,whichareconvertedtofatbytheliver.
Instead,what’sneededformaintainingahealthyweightisashiftfromcountingcaloriestoprioritizing(prior)healthyeatingoverall—qualityoverquantity.MythNo.4:Plantmilkishealthierthan
dairy
milk.
There’saperceptionthat
plant-basedmilks,suchasthosemade(make)fromoats,
almonds,riceand
hemp,arericherinnutritionthancow’smilk.“It’sjustnottrue,”saidKathleenMerrigan,aprofessorofsustainablefoodsystemsa
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